Just had a marvelous 90 minute session with a highly ranked escort in town this week.
As I always try to do, I spent a great deal of time and attention attending to her needs (she orgasmed about four or five times).
I get as much pleasure making a woman feel good as I do when she spends time on me.
Things ended with a big hug and kiss and my coment that I would love to see her again when she returns to NY in January.
I was shocked this morning, however, when I recieved an email from her indicating that she felt there was no chemistry between us and that she did not want to see me agian.
While I am not perfect (far from it), - and maybe I did do something that warranted her response - I wonder if this happens more than just occasionally

She is not paid for chemistry, it's P4P. You said you possibly did something to warrant her response. is this something that you know for sure? I believe you might have your answer already

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Unless she was also faking the sweat and pulsating sugar walls
What a CRAZY and FUN life being a hobbyist is!!!!

She doesn't want all of that attention.
I have seen both types.
Also maybe you are hitting her urethra instead of her clit?
I'm all worried about that now after reading a thread down there.
Or maybe the donation got screwed up?
The possibilities are endless.

You're right - MOVE ON.
I'm a sensitive guy and hate to be rejected (probably goes back to my childhood!!!)

After reading Starr Rider's blog, I'm scared to even go near a pussy.

You did NOT make her CUM 4 or 5 times  (No WAY), and

if she said there is no chemistry, you either smelled bad (breath, ass or pits) or you were obnoxious in some way.  Chemistry is not an issue in fucking for $$$$$ unless there's huge problem.

You'll probably never know what happened....as others have said, the possibilities are endless.  And lest you appear to come across as a stalker, probably best to just move along.  

However, if you think you may have done something that put her off, I'd stop doing that moving forward or ask before you do.  Maybe that one thing put her off, but doesn't put others off.  

We're all humans here.  

My guess is you will feel a lot better about things after you visit someone else.  You've been doing this for some time it sounds like......you're gonna run into something once in a while that doesn't work out for whatever reason.

If a provider doesn't want to see a guy, she usually just ignores him when he tries to schedule.  Or she feigns being all booked.  Or she declines him then.

I've never heard of someone emailing a guy after a session to say "don't see me again".

I have to think you did something drastically wrong.  Underpaid?  Said something she found offensive?  Beat her?  There musta been something.

you're chemistry was just soo strong that she fears falling in love with you ....but actually, that sucks. I would hate getting an email like that too especially if she seemed to genuinely enjoy her time with me. All you can do is move on from it though.

1)  She's a very good orgasm actress with the squirming act

2)  You shorted her donation or she was expecting a tip

3)  Your communication with her sound 'stalker-ish'  and she fears you'll be her stalker.

4)  Your were bad in bed with her .. maybe she kinda seems like doing an orgasm, but she was squirming in pain and agony because you chewed her clit of fucked her the wrong way. Maybe your pubic hair was too sharp, she was squirming is hell and agony .. and boy, you thought that was an orgasm.

* Maybe you ought to just write her one more time and ASK if you did her wrong.  I think she was just too polite when she said 'no chemistry' but it could be something else.

I felt like a creepy dude with old smelly balls fondling young women against their will..
I am just getting over it.

You fawned over her, spent half or more of your session trying to make her cum, and I bet you spent a lot of time gushing about how wonderful she was. She doesn't want that. It's a lot of work for a lady to respond positively to that guy that she doesn't care about at all.

There are certainly some ladies in this world for the sex... but for most, it's a job. They feel that there job is to show up and show YOU a good time. They are not interested in having 4 or 5 orgasms, or dating any guys who may be clingers or stalkers. The more you work to please her, the more she pulls away.

I'm not trying to speak for every escort, it just seems clear (to me) that this is how THIS particular escort is reacting to you.

I have seen your posts. Your cool in my book.

But rather than ask the public board, send her an email and ask her yourself.

Next session he plans on getting her to double digits in the Big FAKE O's  LOL

What he might want to consider is letting the hookers know in advance this is how he likes to play.

Plenty of hookers will allow that type of session.  And some actually enjoy it  

Not that they'll be getting off...but they can just lay there...let old johnnie boy worship her...and the hooker can get her entire Christmas list done while he's having his fun.

Or as in London's case...she can just play on TER while johnnie boy is doing his thing  

I am sure you have seen providers you did not rebook for one reason or another.  This is the same in reverse.  You can't please everyone.  Unless it becomes a pattern, don't worry about it and don't try to analyze it.  Just move on.  Life is short and there are a lot of providers to meet.

little reminders all the time...look at my last post above yours for instance...posted at 1:11:11... I couldn't plan that shit if I tried...but thanks for your agreement

Everyone claims they want the truth...until it's handed to them on a silver platter, lol.
Do not fear the pussy...just recognize it's power and treat it kindly and it will reciprocate, lol.
Smooches~

It's impossible to click with everyone.  Sometimes it's not you or her or anything anyone did.  It could be that you two weren't compatable.  I wouldn't put too much thought into this, I'm sure she isn't .  Move on with no hard feelings.

Are you posting here whilst being rogered?

sumbitch, that's hot..................

It's all good.  The more you can learn, the better off you are.  Unfortunately, many men don't like to be told they aren't good at shoveling the driveway, much less pleasing a woman.  My ego aint that big!

This makes a lot of sense to me.

If she thinks you are getting too attached to seeing her she may feel uncomfortable about this and rather you get more involved she wanted to nip it in the bud.