how can some hobbiyst be so comfortable with bbbj or bbf? as a provider i dont understand how can we (as humans) be so comfortable having unprotected sex with a complete stranger with all the stds around it shouldnt be a subject addressed

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I'm not going to intentionally fuck an infected human female, and I plan BB women in the real world.

It really isn't much more deeper than that.

It's one thing for us to agree in private, but forcing me to agree with you in public is just beyond the pale. lol

Correct me if I'm wrong but if the female is asymptomatic then there is very low risk of transmitting stds through Bbbj and whatever can get transmitted are mostly mild and curable. Anyway this kind of excessive risk aversion mentality doesn't pay off in life, does it? How about moving to a foreign country, riding motorcycles, starting your own business, working a dangerous profession, doing adventure sports etc? Too much fear forecloses too many possibilities

Having a bad day Melissa ?!!!  Smile-It might get better !!

yes they do thats what a significant other come in i couldnt risk my life just for one night of pleasure not really worth it  

yes very wrong "Although pregnancy is not an issue with oral sex, a wide variety of STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) can be spread through oral sex. Oral sex has been found to spread syphilis, gonorrhea, HIV, HPV, genital herpes, chlamydia and possibly hepatitis C.
The Facts About Oral Sex & STDs | PCC of Wichita
www.pccwichita.org/sexstds/factsaboutoralsexstds "
 

Part of this industry is not to judge. As a provider I can protect myself and refuse to see people that Bareback but at the same token there are many guys that see providers that do babreback and you don't know it. There are many that have normal everyday sex with people they meet at a bar(worse in my opinion). I can't judge, I personally don't understand it but who am I to judge. Does it make me better than someone else? Maybe, maybe not. The best thing you can do is worry about yourself and protecting yourself. People that bareback will continue to do it regardless of what providers or clients think. It's life. I get those inquires and say no. A lot of clients will see YOU and say they don't do it but bareback providers they don't know you know. See how it works.  

People risk their lives for many things. To live is to risk a life.

love and being loved and with that comes everything I suppose, Monogamy and understanding and all. I can't complicate things and speak for people that cheat or any of that but I do feel if you meet the right person good things can happen. The problem with people is we want what we want now and don't want to wait. We are slaves to the ID part of our brains....which makes it difficult to truly know what you have and more importantly value it.

She has a different opinion than some and it is welcome here.

All opinions are welcomed that is right I love seeing new people on the boards but you know how it is when the trolls come out.

You could also ask how some people are ok with paying for a provider. In this world anything is pretty much possible, I don't get surprised anymore

i dont personally care about the hate im new here and just thought id speak on it no im not better or worst cause i dont offer it i jst wanted to see where other peoples opinion lies. to each there own what u eat wont make me shit excuse my french just trying to get a general feel for this site

Simply listing a bunch of scary stds that can be spread is like when I went skydiving and there were tons of disclaimers about nasty consquences that can happen- "death,paralysis, broken bones, tons of shit that can go wrong at any point from the plane crashing on takeoff to the chute collapsing right before landing." Turns out skydiving is very safe and only 1 in 100,000 results in a fatality.  

true just thought some people should knoe u can get a std from head i get this post is very sensitive subject dont mean to offend anyone just wanted to know  

Well you didn't offend me. I'm not offended that someone says I can get an STD from getting a blowjob. That would be funny.

Sex at dawn

And your last two sentences pretty much sum up my entire adult life, so I couldn't agree more!!

They are two very very different things. Also you may want to get your information from someplace promoting science, rather than a Christian faith based service, who only wants to spread fear.  

I'm one that also doesn't understand why a provider would take the risk and offer BBFS - having been a nurse and witnessed the cruel reality of some fairly horrific STDs - it's simply a risk I choose not to take.  I also can't see why a man would want to risk bb with a prostitute.  And knowing that he does - would make me wonder just where else his 'Johnson' has been.   But to each their own.  What I find most outrageous lately are the providers who not only advertise their BBFS but also provide PICTURES of that service on their ad / website!

I've been seeing my ATF provider BBFSCIP for over three years without a problem. When I first met her I used a cover with her for about 3 months. Then as I got to know her I asked her if we could go Bareback and she said Yes. So far it's Great. I just saw her this past friday. Bareback of course.

It was so easy for you...so how many other clients of hers was it easy for?  It's just a matter of time before you have a problem.

He's like a broken record and tells his tale every chance he gets.  It went past boring a long time ago while I was still a lurker here.  Now ask him if he's bought "his provider" groceries lately.

You don't want to Bareback then use a condom. You don't see me saying you should go Bareback. But you're bashing me with going Bareback with my provider. You play the way you want and I'll play the way I want.

No need for the big red angry face---especially when you're the guy who's totally fucking-up here.