Very rarely anyone at a swingers club gets my interest, it's usually people just curious and I far surpass them in experience. Usually scare them off lol . Also couples online tend to flake often. The hobby takes out the complications and flakiness and any possible jealously. That's just my opinion on the subject lol.

... when you're having fun with another woman could be quite a problem!  

Have you ever done doubles and hit it off well with the other provider?  Maybe you could start your hobbying career (as a client) with one of them.  

It's funny when a provider is nervous about booking another provider.  You would think it would make more sense to be nervous meeting a male client because your performance is going to be judged and possibly reviewed  and published.  Whereas being a client, no one will post a review of your performance.

But it occurs to me ... why would a provider feel nervous about being a client ... maybe its because providers do in fact harbor strong judgments about clients -- judgments that are never spoken of due to professional considerations.  Knowing that your provider is going to likely be judging you, perhaps harshly, is why you might be nervous.

I didn't mean the above to sound accusatory or judgmental.  I am just guessing at the mental process that gives rise to self doubt and anxiety in this situation.  

If that's the case ... why should you care what your provider thinks of you.  I know that provides are going to see more handsome and skilled lovers than I.   But that's why I am paying them and they aren't paying me.

Or if you're nervous about a 1 on 1 with a female provider, take a male hobbyist with you to break the ice 😁. I'm more than willing to be your guinea pig haha! GL to you!