Since I am not married I can't answer for myself, but I would think that I would keep the money at home in that instance. It would be interesting to see the results of this.

How many guys who complain about not getting any at home so they hobby would actually stay at home if they did get some. How many are into the variety thing of hobbying.

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No, I don't think I'd pay the S.O. unless she's gonna give a refund for what I contribute to our lifestyle.  However if the S.O. quit rationing sex & did all that my ATF does, I'd not be seeing providers.  Oh, yeah, my S.O. really could learn a lot from providers, starting with finishing what you start.  

So I figured, what the hell?  (Sorry, h*ll)

But I do agree, it's kind of silly, isn't it?

I used to pony up plenty of $ (often in the form of jewelery, vacations, and other expensive gifts) to my ex and the most I'd ever give her is a 5/5.

This sure beats that.

I started hobbying after nearly 3-1/2 years of dry dock. Had she been healthy, I really don't know if all of this would have happened or not. After experiencing some wonderful ladies in the hobby, she would definitely need to be more adventurous than she was before.

I sometimes wonder if I am the only guy to have a wife that gives it up and is great in bed,yet i am out here in the hobby world playing like a fool. I always question what it is about for me , variety ? living on the edge with so much to lose? I compartmentalize real well in order to do what I do. Am a 61 y.o. grand father at this point fyi. Maybe it is making up for not being active when i was younger. Don't know .

might get used to doing it. Some other boards like the Woof Woof board, require it. I will ocassionally forget where I am posting and have a post rejected for using profanity. Kind of silly on an adult board, but go figure

I would agree IF she looked (nearly) as good as the ladies I see or was as talented as the ladies I see.  

It has been over 10 years since I was accomodated at home.  A guy has needs you know.  I will continue as long as the equipment works ad the funding (extra cash only--no money taken from basic needs) is available.  Most providers understand this.

I'm guessing that it's variety.

Well I'd guess that makes my and every other lady in this biz who has a S/O very lucky. He gets more than my clients and I don't get an envelope.
If I were to break it off with him...do you think it would be appropriate to send him a bill for all the "Time and Companionship plus PSE GFE time spent?"
I don't see we are at risk for that...just wondering...

oh and...do you think I could get him to write me a review if I did...nah If I was breaking up with him I''d guess his review would be mean after all. Kept him in bed all this time so he really should.

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