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Re: My opinion...
CSWCSW 17 Reviews 1686 reads
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1 / 34
Rates

I've noticed that some providers offer one rate here on TER and a different rate on their website.  No discount involved or outcall rates.  Just a basic incall service.

I try not to discuss rates with providers to be respectful and not negotiate rates, but what's the best way to know the true rate?  I recently booked a provider based on her TER rates...then found out at the last minute that the rate was truly the higher amount per her website. Very confusing.

Just curious how others handled this situation

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 689 reads
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2 / 34
Their websites are up to date; TER profiles aren't always accurate...

...When booking a provider, you can ask whether all the information in her TER profile is accurate.

And you can also do what some hobbyists here are fond of doing - if she's out of your price range, don't search for someone else - try to negotiate, negotiate, negotiate the more pricey provider down to a lower rate and ask her for an OTC dinner afterwards.  Hey, you never know, Shatner is 84 so the way some guys brag about negotiating, they could be in line to be the next

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jaydalee See my TER Reviews 646 reads
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3 / 34
My opinion...

You should always go by a providers website.Hopefully she keeps that better updated than her ter profile.
Some providers do not keep their TER profile up to date and there might be old rates posted.
Also I would mention to the provider that her rates are different here than on her website and ask which one is correct.
This way you make sure you have the correct rate and it is not awkward if there is a misunderstanding on rates.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 521 reads
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4 / 34
Here's some soothing background music to play while you are negotiating:...


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BigBoyPants 5 Reviews 443 reads
posted
5 / 34
Re: My opinion...

jaydalee nailed it.  Something simple and innocuous as "I noticed the rate/donation/whatever was different between x and y"  Don't even mention the said amounts just inquire as to which is correct.

Keep in mind however that with traveling girls they can have different rates between different cities simply due to the local market.  In that case I always tend to default to their current ad.
Posted By: jaydalee
You should always go by a providers website.Hopefully she keeps that better updated than her ter profile.  
 Some providers do not keep their TER profile up to date and there might be old rates posted.  
 Also I would mention to the provider that her rates are different here than on her website and ask which one is correct.  
 This way you make sure you have the correct rate and it is not awkward if there is a misunderstanding on rates.

soldeluna 26 Reviews 563 reads
posted
6 / 34
rates

I have also seen one rate on their website, then they will post a different rate on the current ad board or the local board here. It is a bit confusing at times. I now mention that i saw a "special" they posted on the current ad I saw on xyz site.

JackDunphy 530 reads
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7 / 34
The only way to get her "true" rate...

Is to hit her up bc and hash it out.

Many girls in p4p will negotiate with you and not find it disrespectful in the least. I find that their "public" rate is just a starting point.

Now, I don't negotitate for an hour session, or even two, but beyond that, sure, why not?

The more time you are asking for, usually the bigger the discount as well.  

Some here like to pay that MSRP, and some others like to pay beyond it, but many others know how to save some serious coin, if approached in a professional and straightforward manner.

Many ways to play in p4p, if you are willing to try new things and not get caught up in the herd mentality, which isn't always easy here for some.

JackDunphy 394 reads
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8 / 34
It is confusing at times. Many also have "unadvertised" specials as well.

When I see many different rates like you mention, I assume the lowest one and then contact her about it. Sometimes there will be a rate not advertised, as maybe she is having a bad month and needs money quickly.

No way most dudes can keep up with all the rates on every ad so I just hit the girls up. Usually works out to everyone's advantage.

Bob.Sugar 552 reads
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9 / 34
Not true

Perhaps you are just projecting?

Bob.Sugar 553 reads
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10 / 34
What's so confusing?


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Bob.Sugar 509 reads
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11 / 34
What can possibly go wrong with following the herd?


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WCedie See my TER Reviews 439 reads
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12 / 34
Website rates are most likely accurate....

as I have different rates for touring as I do in Las Vegas.

nobody305 627 reads
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13 / 34
Session cancel

I asked a provider about her rates to makes sure that I would have correct amount for her when she got to me. She didn't get back to me on the day we were suppose to meet until 3 hours after the time we were suppose to meet telling me that she would not meet with me because of I asked her about her rate. Now what is a guy suppose to do put the wrong donation out and have the girl mad about that. Maybe I should of done that at lest I would of been able to meet with her.

JackDunphy 443 reads
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14 / 34
Why the fear in mentioning the "said amounts?"

Lets say the girl is showing two rates. One is $400/hr and the other is $325.

Why not just email and say, "Hello Madison, I see you offer a $325 rate. I'd like to see you and here is my verification info..."

GaGambler 484 reads
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15 / 34
I agree, only the most skittish of hookers will have a problem with that

The rule is, you don't talk about "money and sex" at the same time. Talking about her rate is NOT the no no that some people try to make it out to be.

JackDunphy 438 reads
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16 / 34
True, and hookers THAT "skittish", I wouldnt want to session with them anyway.

Better to find out before the exchanged fee than after.

GaGambler 391 reads
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17 / 34
Yes, I have noticed that hookers that "skittish" are rarely good in bed

They are the same hookers who believe in "LE checks" and can rarely relax enough for either of us to enjoy ourselves.

IfIdknown 375 reads
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18 / 34
Re: What's so confusing?

That you are such a blowhard idiot and thinking that you are contributing a fucking thing to any subject.

Bob.Sugar 457 reads
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19 / 34
Sorry...bad day?

You don't have to read anyone's posts here...but thanks for your input  LOL

Posted By: IfIdknown
That you are such a blowhard idiot and thinking that you are contributing a fucking thing to any subject.

JackDunphy 333 reads
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20 / 34
A Chinese menu set you off?

Was it the MSG? :D

Bob.Sugar 361 reads
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21 / 34
I think they're confused

And probably can relate to seeing a few of those on a hookers site.

That would confuse anyone.  And put them in a bad mood for the whole week.
Posted By: JackDunphy
Was it the MSG? :D

thinkinghard 526 reads
posted
22 / 34
to completion

Check the chicks web site. If they don't have a web site, continue to the next step.
Introduce yourself and inquire about the time and day you are interested in meeting.
Complete screening process and request.
Then confirm the correct rate if you are in doubt.

After you have been screened/verified, there shouldn't be any problem about that conversation. Accept that for some people it ruins the fantasy. Negotiation really ruins the fantasy...and the mood...and probably, unintentionally, the quality of service. my two cents.

EscortExperiment 478 reads
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23 / 34
Why are you booking ladies without looking at their site?

Just curious to pick your brain on the rational.

L.Guapo 434 reads
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24 / 34
Ooh! Ooh! I know! I know!

He wanted the Cream of Sum Yung Gai and it wasn't on the menu

Skyfyre 385 reads
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25 / 34
There you go

One of the best advices on this board like ever! Shatner is da bomb... LOL

Skyfyre 426 reads
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26 / 34
Re: Finally somebody who makes sense

How lame/clueless can dudes be? it doesn't take a genius to compare this with automobiles. Go to a car company web site and you see a MSRP. That is the price posted on an escort personal web site. However walk yourself into the local dealership and you'll see a different (most likely lower) price. That is the price posted on TER, BP or other P4P web sites.  

The latter cases take into consideration current market supply/demand and/or fluctuation including factoring in level of competition. The former do not.

You're right on the money Mr. JD. What's with these sheeples? sad..

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 544 reads
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27 / 34
Why would anyone set a time and date and go through screening if they don't even know the rate?

Seems very backwards.

Posted By: thinkinghard
Check the chicks web site. If they don't have a web site, continue to the next step.  
 Introduce yourself and inquire about the time and day you are interested in meeting.  
 Complete screening process and request.  
 Then confirm the correct rate if you are in doubt.  
   
 After you have been screened/verified, there shouldn't be any problem about that conversation. Accept that for some people it ruins the fantasy. Negotiation really ruins the fantasy...and the mood...and probably, unintentionally, the quality of service. my two cents.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 303 reads
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28 / 34
Why would you want to meet with her? EOM


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Epsilon_Eridani 349 reads
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29 / 34
Re: to completion

re-read his post again...

He DID ask her about her rates BEFORE the date.  

she never replied back only because she was being a bitch about a minor thing about rates.

if her rates aren't posted on her website... then how is the guy supposed to know what the rate is?

one cannot assume to know what the rates are without some form of posting of it somewhere.
Posted By: thinkinghard
Check the chicks web site. If they don't have a web site, continue to the next step.  
 Introduce yourself and inquire about the time and day you are interested in meeting.  
 Complete screening process and request.  
 Then confirm the correct rate if you are in doubt.  
   
 After you have been screened/verified, there shouldn't be any problem about that conversation. Accept that for some people it ruins the fantasy. Negotiation really ruins the fantasy...and the mood...and probably, unintentionally, the quality of service. my two cents.

Epsilon_Eridani 373 reads
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30 / 34
Re: Why are you booking ladies without looking at their site?

not ALL ladies have websites. believe it or not.

Posted By: EscortExperiment
Just curious to pick your brain on the rational.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 418 reads
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31 / 34
Re: Why the fear in mentioning the "said amounts?"

I agree. If I am scared to talk about rates after I screen a guy, probably should not be seeing him. Now, I don't want a long email trail of sexual acts being talked about, but that's just for privacy purposes or in case an email gets hacked... it has been known to happen.  

You would be amazed at just how many guys have saved our conversations for YEARS and then contacted me asking if I remember them, and included that exchange. I find that very offputting that someone would keep info. that freaking long. I don't need a record of every damn thing I have said to so and so, which is why I don't bother keeping shit.

Oldtimemonger 367 reads
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Re: Why the fear in mentioning the "said amounts?"

Girls do the same thing. Some take cliff notes about the guys life. Maybe he tells her he is remodeling his kitchen. Six month later he sees her again. She goes over her cliff notes. He 's thrilled to the dickens that she remembers things about him after all that time even though she was just going over her notes.

BaltimoreBetty See my TER Reviews 397 reads
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LOCAL RATES vs. TOURING RATES!

Local rates are almost always lower, and touring rates are almost always higher. The touring rates are higher when a lady tours to help cover the cost of travel, hotels, rental car, uber, cabs, extra towels, lubes and other personal supplies she cannot fly with, food and more.  

If you look here on most ladies TER profiles, you will find the posted rates are their LOCAL RATES. Not their touring rates. Be sure to check their personal websites or P411 TOURING Ads for the correct donation amounts.

EscortExperiment 436 reads
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Believe it or not this lady had a website so I'm asking him.


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