I was on that site a few years back (when it got hacked.)  The female accounts are 99% bots.  There were like 100 men on there for every woman.  
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I don't know what percentage of wives cheat, but it is a lot easier for them if they want to cheat, they just have to express their interest to any man around and they will usually find a willing accomplice.  Men have to be a lot more careful because reactions are generally negative.  So men have to find safer ways.

including a state cop and a clergyman.

Did she dress up as an alter or choir boy?

all I can suggest is the the cheating wife has sex with someone “close”, like a male colleague.
It was a great 2 months...

A woman could find a way to cheat without ever having to pay for it.
Even an ugly woman can get laid when she wants...lol
Guys are dogs....they'll hit on them anywhere they can, so...it only takes her approval to start something.  
Pussy is the most powerful thing in the world.

Until you realized the sex wasn’t ‘free’ correct?  

"Even an ugly woman can get laid when she wants...", is what makes Ashley Madison work for a lot of women seeking extra-marital affairs.  I knew of some women that were, shall we say, less than attractive . . . . okay, so they were complete dogs, that claimed they could get laid by a different guy from AM every night if they wanted.   These are women that I wouldn't have fucked with dodo's dick, and we know what kind of standards HIS dick has.  These gals were even worse.    Lol

Once upon a time, when I was young, thin, and could get hard in a second.....I was the boy toy.  Peer at work had a husband who was 18 years her senior and was on BP meds.....pre Viagra.   At the time I was 29, single,  and she was 37. Concept of a "Cougar" had not been defined.  

I never said they could get laid by good looking guys....
Just that a woman can always find a willing participant to fill the space.
Take P4P out of the equation....its still easier for an unattractive woman to find sex than " most " guys.

equal qualifiers you want to use.  Fat girl versus fat guy, plain-looking woman versus plain-looking guy, homeless girl versus homeless man, etc., it will always be easier for the girl in the same circumstance to find a willing partner providing, as you said, you don't consider the P4P option.  The only exception I can think of for SOME of the time is an older woman versus an older man, but if they have both taken equal care of themselves, a sixty year-old spinner can look just as hot to many guys as a 60 year-old buffed man does to many women.  The key to your point is ALL things being equal.  That would eliminate money as a consideration as well, unless its equal.  

As I walk the aisle I get some "looks". I never pursued anything but I get the vibe that it's there.

and observe how closely they look at a cucumber before putting it in their cart.  It at least makes them a prospect.  Try to catch her eye and smile "knowingly."  Lol

That's equating looks to looks, which may not be fair to the attraction criteria of women versus men.  
Of course, it would be hard to correctly equate looks to wealth (or dominance, or ?) so ... the question at hand may not be operationally answerable.

us hotels just like the guys.
I travel for business 2 weeks out the month and see the same people at same hotels and airline routes all the time.
Met many woman or and you would be surprised on how many woman cheat on there husbands!
Just like guys tell girls/ladies how there wives are not into boom boom anymore, lost that intimate connection, let herself go gained 20-30 pounds and etc.
Many business woman tell me the same thing. Husbands lost interest in boom boom, all he does is watch sports, doesn't want to intimate, gained alot of weight from drinking, and etc.
Same goes both ways.

...and we always can find a way to get what we want. Many husbands never have a clue.  
Personally I much prefer P4P since I can sample a huge variety of women and not have to deal with CrAzY civvies. Also I leave the fantasy in the hotel room where it belongs and resume my regular life once I hit the parking garage. Really makes life soooo much easier.

Although us (straight) guys would change “husbands” to “wives”.  And we probably aren’t quite as successful at getting what we want as women are.

the "new" or "used" pencil department?  I assume this is where you got your experience for pencil sales on the street corner?

I thought the claim of him getting laid was much funnier than the claim of him having a job, and even more farfetched. lol

further up the thread by consensus that married women looking to have an affair will settle for almost anyone, so I don't think its impossible that you did what you say, just not likely.   Since you don't have dead fish breath, you could probably just barely make the cut.  It could have also been a mercy fuck.  She saw this poor deranged Leftie, clueless about everything and she felt sorry for you.  

even though I have never cheated with somebody else's wife. I know that many providers were either married or had boyfriends. Many of the those guys had no idea of what they do. Which only shows that it is a myth that the vagina changes with over use or that others no when it has been mishandled.

vagina is easy to avoid.  If you simply wash them off before and after each use, no one need know about how much it has been used.  If it was last used at a bachelor party, then it may require a little more washing and cleaning.  A vagina that even looks mishandled is usually the fault of the owner in not giving it proper care and maintenance to make it look fresh and clean.

Interesting and funny thread. Thanks all.

There is seldom a proper cleanup during a gangbang.  Good story.

...been fortunate...touring reggae drummer...most amazing/open "after hours" hookups have been with married women...many 3somes..some wishing things were different in their lives....most amazed OPEN and,remembering dreams at what fucking and cumming is really like...married women,on their own,at a concert are AWESOME!!!!

You'd be surprised. Mini-vans are pretty popular.

those popular tennis shoes for smaller children, right?

Checkerboard patterns are pretty popular. Women with small fee wear them, too; if you have that particular kink.

They bang his best friend most of the time.

The gym.

As an escort and in my personal life, ive given hundreads of blowjobs in cars and loved it. But if i had to pick a winner, being fucked in mini vans is by far my favorite! Ive even been gangbanged in a mini van for a porn scene i did recently and had a great time.. mini vans are the best when a hotel is not an option.

Women are not as superficial as men.  
Women don’t desire men with six pack abs.
It will be your friend, neighbor, or coworker.  
Why?  
You know longer make her feel desirable.  
So when your friend comes over and tells your wife he likes her new hairdo, and she blushes and smiles, just know the next time that you’re working overtime they’re gonna be banging on your bed.  
Sweet dreams.

Ha, men are to blame for having affairs, and men are to blame if their wives have affairs.  Did I get that right?.
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Someone once said that the goal of modern feminism is to absolve women of all responsibility.

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Most women I know are superficial as hell when it comes to choosing a mate, whether it be female or male. Times have changed.

While the Cats away..

When you're young sometimes you just have to say "Fuck it"...You'll hate yourself afterwards but shit, fuck it.

Just thought of all the times I've met ladies at the Magic Show in LV. Nothing like buyers and booze...lol

Sorry guys..
What's good for The Goose
Is Good for The Gander
Xo

i know a guy (also on TER)  she bounces from married wife to married wife in his suburbs = he is married too.     i remember years ago i googled  wife swapping and the number one place in the country was Orange county.    Wive for them its the attention and like guys the excitement of the variety and even the danger  

shouldn't spread rumors like that about Orange County, unless you're talking about the one in Florida.  Lol

How do Large SUV's fit in?

Even better in my opinion... I can do any possition in bigger vans