My ATF and I got into a very nasty argument a while ago.  

It was a "reset", back to basics. Over time it got better.

In all these years, I have never really fought with anyone like you would fight with a girl-friend or wife. I have got into arguments with someone hookers that I have seen, after seeing them, but I would not go back and fuck them even if they would pay me to fuck.  

Ah, yes, the three qualities every hooker needs for success. Just the thought of you with this girl brings ideas of long walks on the beach, candle lit dinners and a Lorena Bobbit  night cap.

If my ATF got into an argument with me I would be done with her.  I see provider to relax and have fun.  That is no fun.  I would just date civvies if I wanted to argue with women  :  

These fkkers are all driving hard to the hoop lately. Must be because of March Madness.

Yeah no shit. A big reason to go this route is to avoid epic drama bullshit. I can get that for free.

It's just like any other business.  

What is the point?  

Makeup sex with a provider?  Nope.  Not gonna happen.  Why would I pay anyone to be with them after we've argued?  You want to apologize, fine, fuck me for free.  That ain't happening in this world.  As for me apologizing?  He'll no, I apologize enough with my wife.  I'm not looking for agita outside my marriage.  I see providers for fun, not grief.
To me sex should be fairly non violent (well except when you are pounding into her vagina with your cock, but that's fun, not violence).  My sound and fury signify nothing

...but some guys and gals just seem to attract the drama, I think they secretly like it.

I saw a girl who was pretty tough, and she kinda kicked my ass.
I had to wrestle her to win her, and I got my butt kicked.
In my defense.. I twisted my knee trying to give her a souplex.

They come right out of the blue, a simple statement, or lack of a statement is all that is needed.

They are like icebergs:  You see only the tip.  That big submerged part (The part that sinks ships.) is seldom recognized by either party.

It takes some fairly intense and long term time between two people for the fight to come about (usually), but when it does, it can be intense.

Fortunately, they abate as quickly and as mysteriously.  Not like a summer afternoon thunderstorm.

And now I'll end before the metaphor police come and get me.

Jesus help us with these posts. Is your location so bereft of women that you would really consider seeing this chica again?  Find some drama free fun man.

I recently had a misunderstanding with #1 Fav lady.  I think there was fault on both sides.  I booked a repeat visit with her.  
When we started 6 years ago, I was able to head to her first thing in the morning but I have to wait a bit last 2 years since the SO is home now.  Additionally, we started having a shared lunch & I always shop just before I get on the highway.  I have always called just before I get on the interstate...  over an hour from there...  so she can better plan her time.  So the most recent schedule had me at her door at 11:30.  I booked over email as I've always done & gotten confirmed back but she does not link to email chit-chat much these days.  I was not specific when I booked about the time & she never questioned.
After shopping, I called as I was about to get on the Interstate & she was upset, claiming I was canceling which I was not.  As far as I was concerned, I was on schedule.
I arrived & she chewed me out for half hour or so.  Honestly, I thought of just walking out.  Except it would have made a liar out of me & proved every false thing she was saying.  I think I finally got her to understand.  She is a FBSM + extras gal & my standard compensation included a tip for extras.  Long ago we shifted from her massage table to her bed...  and she's always been very generous with her time.
Damn if the session wasn't back on the massage table...  managed a bit of 69 but no where near the play I expected.  
During our lunch, she said her daughter had an important event planned in a couple of days...  except most of the planning was undone & left Fav #1 to pull daughter's event together.  And here I was having a session right in the middle of that scramble to get it done.  I had no clue of course because she hadn't told me.  Under the circumstances, she should have declined the appointmet with a brief explanation.  I'd probably have postponed or if we went ahead, would have scheduled much tighter.    
We did burry the hatchet enough to have a session, money talks after all & Fav lady or not it's still pay as you go (or cum).  
We said our good byes without a real apology.  She was way over my line, nasty & unpleasant & I had a hour & half drive to think about it.   I went home without the glow.  
It is a long drive & I have long sent a thank you email after getting home, which also confirms my safe travel.  I didn't send TY that night.  Next morning when I checked my email was a note from her but still not a real apology.   I have maintained radio silence since then.  
Never say never with the horny genes but I am SOo not inclined to ever go back.  

One time I went to see a provider whom I have seen 3-4 times before.  We set the appointment by email and I knocked on her door at the agreed upon time.  She answered and was all bitchy that I just showed up and didn't call again.  Geez, we had an appointment at that time, I was there exactly on time, and she really wanted me to call her AGAIN before knocking on her door?   Like I need to pay somebody to get an attitude from them, so I was done with her forever.  

Somehow, I don't think you get the simplicity of this business.  You arrive, you screw, you leave.   There are no arguments.

You say that you are the one that caused "it".  Everyone has a bad day and a spot you don't want to poke with a stick.  Depending on what you did to cause the ruckus and how badly she behaved in reaction, I might cut a little slack, especially if I'd seen her a lot of times.  ATF's can get awfully comfy and can be difficult to replace although the search can be fun.
Sounds like you two are communicating OK, I'd just give it a go.  If she is still bitchy about it, bye.  If she's over it and you're not starting from scratch, OK.

In the end, because we refused to hold grudges, we got through it.  Things returned to normal, relatively quickly,

Yes, you heard me correctly- the Bitchy Wife Experience! Lol. In fact I joked with one such client a couple of days ago, that if he kept intentionally provoking me... I was going to give him what he must apparently REALLY want, and show up to the session in a flannel grannie nightie, with my hair in hot rollers! I also said I would perform a two minute toothy bj, only to stop half way through and start bitching that my neck hurt AND PULL A HONEY-DO LIST OUT OF MY POCKET! LMFAO.

Is Spongeworthy bothering you again sweetie? He cant help himself as he's continually failed in every aspect of his life. At leased he hasn't outted you to your family and friends yet. At forty four years old he's moved back in with Mommy and Daddy. He's just never gotten over Meloney dumping his cheap sorry ass!

Apparently,  she wants some of my dick.  

He's basically on his knees BEGGING for the Bitchy Wife Experience, I swear.  

for a piece of ass.