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Re: Manhater? You rang?
Panthera12 928 reads
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You? A man hater? I don't think so.

Perhaps you hate having a dick stuck in your mouth or up your ass, but that doesn't mean that you hate men. You may hate some of us, but a real man hater hates all of us and not for physical reasons. It's mental.

I don't mind lesbians either as long as they don't look like a lumberjack.

3mdssa3120 reads

Can you please tell me what the hell is a 'manhater'......  

I looked at him puzzled and said you know what, I don't really know. Perhaps I should direct the question to those who use the word so frequently.  So here I am coming directly to the source..

So gentleman and any ladies who would love to chime in... what is your definition of a manhater and what validates being actually being one in 'your' mind?

Looking forward to your definitions and mind you...do your best to try and be nice and NOT directed it towards me...thank you.

You reminded me of what a friend of mine, who's totally out-of-the-closet gay, once said at a party.  He announced, "You know, I am actually bi-sexual.  I like gay men and straight men!"

Urban dictionary say's a women that hate's men for a lot of different reason's! Personally I don't think a provider could be a man hater. If I were a woman hater don't think I could f**k a women!

3mdssa980 reads

The only train wrecks on here are the guys who continue to bully others to try to speak their mind... get over yourselves already. Pathetic and sad.

Its a woman who has deep rooted hate/anger towards men and it shows in every which way.  

Every time she opens her mouth, something negative about the other sex comes out...

In other words.. "Look in the mirror..."

Good Morning, Sunshine.... :D

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If you honestly think posting like that makes you look like a bigger man ...you got another thing coming I'm sorry. You just don't seem quite get it. Again while I believe deep down you have a really good heart it's apparent you are just a product and a follower on here of the others who have set the pace. It is a shame because my gut tells me you are really sweet guy... You're just easily coerced As many others are in this world.

If your theory were to be true, I would be hating every other women on the board, and every other board.  You don't see me responding the same way to London, or Amber or Caityln (Just to name a couple of regular female posters on the board...)  The reason why I respond to you in such a way is your posts invoke that kind of emotion in me.. Perhaps you should marry dungy. I think think you two would make a cute couple....

And I don't follow anyone....Whom do you exactly mean.. Name some names, because I would like to know myself...

And to be fair to you, I too feel that you are a nice person. If we were ever to meet in real life, I am sure we can have nice conversation over coffee, but I just think that you are mired in your own fairy tale life...

I do remember a time when u did rail on London.
Marry me...wow, im all for it. I get tired of laying that envelope down.

If i could find someone as hot as miss steele, I would.

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All the dating sites are just as pathetic I've been there done that ...this is about as 'real' as it gets in all honesty... its just kicked up a notch and there is a level of trust and intimacy involved that you can't compare with in meeting someone on those sites...they lie they fake their identities etc etc... for anyone who hasn't tried it you should it's quite an interesting place to visit. Thank God that phase in my life is over.

GaGambler1119 reads

That explains a lot. lol

and when you say "that phase of your life" I assume you spent more than a casual experiment there? Yes, that explains volumes about who you "really" are. lmao

....you know, like 'addiction'...

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PEACE.LOVE.DOPE.  
pissyjesus :)

Panthera121030 reads

Is a woman who has been jilted in civie life, feels totally defeated and can't carry on real life relationships. Most of them are over 40 years old and realize that time is slipping past them and they blame the male gender for their inadequacies, (usually being broke and lonely). The loneliness turns into bitterness and hatred.      

They turn to the hobby in order to restore a sense of power over the male gender. They also try to compete with the male gender by telling everyone how smart and intelligent they are and when challenged in the slightest, go on the defensive with name calling and then end up seeking pity on fuck boards by telling people to be nice or "threatening" to leave.

They tend to be passive/aggressive and inconsistent from one day to the next, but always begging for attention, screaming out for help.

Wow, what a coincidence that you have a "friend" who has asked this question. Why would man ask such a question?

 

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He's a regular client of mine who knows the real me...the only one who ive shared everything with... and since I've been called this so regularly... I asked him the question the other day and he just answered he didn't really know what that meant.

 Thank you for your blatant All About Ms Steele post once again. While I appreciate the psycho analyzing it really isn't necessary and I'm quite certain that you've made your point that you think you know all about me....

 Now if you are correct I will give you kudos where kudos is due.....but nw if you're wrong well that just makes you look like an ass ... but again it's only an assumption of you putting all my posts together to make the puzzle complete. Do you feel better pointing that out to everybody in thinking that what you say is the holy word on who the real Ms. Taylor Steele is and what she's all about? I do question your intent... is it to hurt my business for whatever reason because it doesn't affect it just so you know... believe it or not it does the opposite. Most gentlemen unlike the gentleman on this board...don't want a Yes'm  girl who will agree with everything they're saying on bended knee.

 Again may I ask why exactly do you care and why are you so adamant on pointing it out so much... That puzzles me

 Let me reiterate...you don't know me and you don't care to know me so it won't go any further than just that in assumptions. For those that only know how to follow of course they will believe your word for those who can actually think for themselves they can make their own assumptions about me and my life you don't need to keep pointing it out its getting boring.

Panthera121115 reads

So he didn't ask you, you asked him. Get your story straight.

Now, you asked a question, and I gave you my answer. I didn't mention your name at all. So why are you bitching about my answer? You asked what a man hater was did you not?

I will now add paranoid to deficiencies.

3mdssa1037 reads

Stupid innocent bullshit with me ...if anybody agrees that post was a subliminal attack about me raise your hand!!!!  

 Again now who's back peddling.  

 Find something else gentlemen.

 Don't play the people on the board like they're stupid.

Panthera12803 reads

"So a gentleman friend of mine asked me recently"

Then you said......

"I asked him the question the other day and he just answered he didn't really know what that meant"

Did you notice that in my original reply I said "they" and "them"? If the shoe/s fit/s you will just have to walk in them. In your paranoia you just jumped right into them.
Maybe you should just go barefoot and........

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Number 2  I said  I asked my gentleman friend if he knew what man hater was.. I'm typing on my microscopic phone which I can barely visibly see and you're ripping me a new one about that now can you just let it go.

 I asked him a question and he said he didn't know what it meant because he knows me and I told him I was being called a man hater end of discussion whatever I said after that I must have miss worded because I can't read it..my god. You know what does torture is just not worth it this is not the kind of torture I like.  

 If you know anything about Mr Grey Mr Stark that's a pleasurable torture this is just relentless torture . You will continue to nit pick everything I decide to post it so I guess I'll stop posting I hope you can find somebody else you're interested in pantbera.

U boys win.

3mdssa1225 reads

I asked him in an email... Then he responded he didn't know it was... Does it really matter at this point Panthera... excuse me for saying it right .... God I feel sorry for your girlfriend if you seek that kind of perfection........you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you in you win you win you win you win you win you win.

 That's what you want right ....you feel better.  

 Let's reiterate ...I asked him...he in return asked me what a man hater was... but again if its not worded to perfection I'm going to get nailed for it. So again you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win you win. The loser 40 year old hooker that you keep talking will disappear. Hope you're happy.

Why did he ask you in an email? You were right there with him. Your response, according to your OP, was to look at him puzzled. If I'm with someone and want to ask him or her a question, I just ask the question verbally instead of emailing it. Saves time.

GaGambler999 reads

No need to answer that, it was a rhetorical question, we all know you are capable of bitch slapping a woman as well as a man. lol and I know how hard it must be for you to continue to cut the OP slack. I've noticed you've gone from outright support, to tacit approval, to scratching your head about her, the next step will be the bitch slap for being obtuse and stubborn. I can just feel it coming. lol

As for the OP, Curly and Panthera have already done such a great job answering her question I really don't see where I have much to add, except maybe to comment about her using a bit of literary license by starting off with "a gentleman friend asked me recently" it reveals a couple things about the OP. First off that she is aware of the hole she has dug for herself, and that she wants to look like others share her view, and although it was a pitifully weak attempt, it does show she knows she is losing in the court of public opinion. The other thing it proves is that she has no problems lying when it suits her, unless one is to believe that there is actually a man out there old enough to hire a hooker who is not already painfully aware of just what a "Manhater" actually is. Once again, she pushes the boundaries of common sense.

If I were to find myself in a hole as big as MsTaylor is right now, I would at least stop digging and ask for some help...

A hole? What hole ?
If she wasn't a manhater before, she could be if has to read many more of your posts. Just sayin!

Panthera121022 reads

First she says a man asked her the question, then she flip flops and says...
"I asked him the question the other day and he just answered he didn't really know what that meant"

She doesn't know if she is coming or going.

3mdssa960 reads

No I said I asked my gentleman friend the question... what are you attacking now f****** god.

 You are clearly relentless.  

 You know what I have to say that Panthera....
 "Big gulps  huh ...well see you later."

 And if anybody knows where that came from you can hang with me any day.

Idiot.

Panthera12883 reads

So a gentleman friend of mine asked me recently.
So a gentleman friend of mine asked me recently.
So a gentleman friend of mine asked me recently.
So a gentleman friend of mine asked me recently.

Just in case you forgot, that is in the header of your original post. You typed it.  

We already know that you swallow.  Just don't gulp the Jersey seawater.

I never win at any of those game shows  :D

I would like to win a date with a gal that has 10 BIG O's...Hey Caitlyn...game?

Posted By: mstaylorsteele
No I said I asked my gentleman friend the question... what are you attacking now f****** god.  
   
  You are clearly relentless.  
   
  You know what I have to say that Panthera....  
  "Big gulps  huh ...well see you later."  
   
  And if anybody knows where that came from you can hang with me any day.  
   
 Idiot.

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I've been staring at an aqua blue beautiful sky that matches the water and before I set out on my awesome day a paddle boarding and horseback riding on the beach I would like to say something... I haven't read all the posts and I'm not going to until later. Put it down on me I wonder the word man heater and I'm thinking after all the numerous post and threads on the board ....

 who really are the haters here... is it the men is it man...haters... by definition I have to believe and with the intellect level on here that perhaps it's not the women that hate. While I will admit most of us probably don't like many of the gentlemen that post on this board.....hate is a very strong word.  

 I don't think I've ever hated anybody in my life. That is a pretty serious word. And God knows we have enough hate in this world as it is. But I do question and I do wonder and actually made me a little sick to my stomach... If the woman you know if Ms. Taylor Steele or perhaps any of the other women on here who have not meshed with you all... perhaps for whatever reason never came home one day. I question as to the the gentlemen who post such hatred I wonder if you actually would feel remorse or throw a party... and I think deep down I think you would throw a party and that makes me a little nauseous.The women in this industry are human beings first and foremost... we are someones daughter someone's mother and our lives are just as valid as yours. While yes we do something on a very controversial basis I like to believe that most of its own what we do. At least I know I do and perhaps I get a little bit more for myself than I should. As London one stated she can't give her soul... I wish I could do that and perhaps that will be the falling of Ms Steele... only time will tell I guess.  I don't know how did not give all of myself with each new person I meet. Perhaps that does make me feel a failure in this industry...idk.

 All I do know is being labeled a train wreck a man hater and all of the above really doesn't constitute what is going on here.  

I hope you can find it in your hearts to.............

 I'll let you finish that sentence.

Good day gentlemen

Taylor, from woman to woman...I think you put far too much time and energy trying to convince people on a fk board you are this or that. They really don't care. The more time you put into trying to explain yourself, the less they want to hear it, and the more they come at you. You don't owe anyone an explanation for anything you do or say...end of story.  

By you continually expressing these long winded proclamations, you are showing them that you DO care what they think...you really shouldn't lol.

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Sorry London but I care and I'm going to defend Who I am I'm not going to let people rip me up a new one just cause I'm different sorry. I'm sure it's a losing battle but I don't ever go down without a fight... if I remember correctly I didn't start this battle. I'm simply one woman defending my own self and that's all... I don't give up and I don't quit ever.

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And if they do win and I lose battle well ten they can have their victory dance...like the wild things and pound their chests and rawr their terrible roars...

But I do wonder where it actually leaves them at the end of the day... that's a man thing I guess that a woman just will never understand and why we will forever be two different species cohabitating on the same planet lmao.... the funny thing is....

we can't live without each other. Now can we.

-- Modified on 5/7/2013 10:09:52 AM

Far from it...it's a message board.  And plenty of male posters have been driven off of it for very similar reasons that you are citing.

You know (or should know) that while there may be an outlier here who is really a "woman hater"..or a "man hater"..most posters use this board as entertainment.  Some use it for references.  

If you would just read some of the old trainwrecks (do a search for saturnsky) and read them...she had a very similar agenda as what you are trying to promulgate here.  When any (male or female...or other LOL) poster deems it important to be correct...ALL THE TIME...they will be attacked.  It's the basis for discussion in most cases.  No one is right all the time...EVER.

There are other boards that have fewer antagonists then TER.  So if you want to play here and continue to make sure that others HAVE to agree with every post you make, you will find that many here are quite intelligent, and will continue to challenge each and every comment.  Some will dissect them to the last period.

You need to ask yourself, is it really that terribly important to try and convince anyone here of anything?  You know that many readers hate CPA...without knowing anything other than what I post.  Yet when many of those same readers chat with me they find out that much of this is an illusion.

So in the big picture of life...fight the fights worth fighting.  This isn't one of them  :D

Posted By: mstaylorsteele
And if they do win and I lose battle well ten they can have their victory dance...like the wild things and pound their chests and rawr their terrible roars...  
   
 But I do wonder where it actually leaves them at the end of the day... that's a man thing I guess that a woman just will never understand and why we will forever be two different species cohabitating on the same planet lmao.... the funny thing is....  
   
 we can't live without each other. Now can we.

-- Modified on 5/7/2013 10:09:52 AM

Panthera121220 reads

over the years. They come and go.  Most of them stick around for a few months, then bolt. Some of them are still here after a few years of taking beatings.

It will be interesting to see how long our latest nutcase sticks around.

3mdssa828 reads

And like I said I'm not going to go down without a fight if I go down fine but it's going to be on my terms. And if so I'll be sure to bring other points down with it. I don't agree with the way things are being handled here I think its wrong. And again I don't care if it's been this way for hundred fifty years if something's not working for the masses then you change it. F*** yeah this entertainment absolutely I love a good argument... But I'm not about to let a bunch of immature disrespectful cowardly men degrade me and what I'm about.  

 What if the tables were turned imagine the flip side of this what if it was all providers against one guy... I can only imagine how this would go down.  

 I'll keep battling until I'm tired of it and bored of it and if it means that I lost then oh well... but then again anybody reading these posts would see what this is really about... and at the end of the day I'm quite certain that most of these guys don't have to respect and dignity that they're looking for... which is why they are the way they are. At least I can hold my head up I know matter how much they bash me.... no matter what they will never be one of my clients so it doesn't really matter to me.

No one is degrading you or what you are about. You are degrading your self with your own words.

But please don't stop. It's very entertaining. It would be helpful if you broke your posts up into more paragraphs, though. It would make it a lot easier to make it all the way through one of your rants.

Panthera121045 reads

The sooner you see it, the sooner you can try to heal yourself. You really do need help.

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If I'm not the first nut case and there were some before or so you claim us to be... and what exactly does that tell you. For the woman who stand up for themselves...its automatically made 'us versus them'... again thread after thread why do you think nobody posts... because everything is always us versus them and the masses are too scared to speak up. again I'm trying to change that mentality I'm not getting anywhere obviously but that's unfortunately because of 'them'... they're way too narrow minded in having things go their way or no way... and you can't agree that that's right.  

 Its a public board for everybody. Not just THEM and what they deem fit.  

 Its wrong their approach is wrong everything is wrong. It's unfair and unjust.  

 We can agree to disagree CPA and you know I like you.

Amen sister. Your absolutely right, a change is needed for the better.
Unfortunately, not gonna happen. The place survives on, the im better than u attitude.

Posted By: mstaylorsteele
If I'm not the first nut case and there were some before or so you claim us to be... and what exactly does that tell you. For the Amen woman who stand up for themselves...its automatically made 'us versus them'... again thread after thread why do you think nobody posts... because everything is always us versus them and the masses are too scared to speak up. again I'm trying to change that mentality I'm not getting anywhere obviously but that's unfortunately because of 'them'... they're way too narrow minded in having things go their way or no way... and you can't agree that that's right.  
   
  Its a public board for everybody. Not just THEM and what they deem fit.  
   
  Its wrong their approach is wrong everything is wrong. It's unfair and unjust.  
   
  We can agree to disagree CPA and you know I like you.

I do hope that you win this battle so that you can tell all of your friends that you won an argument on a fuck board. That would be really great for you.

"The longer the explanation, the bigger the lie.."

Taylor's attempt to show us what she is not, is just another flavor of that...

Panthera12892 reads

Stay away from that Chinese take out food. The MSG may elongate ones proboscis.

That's a shame, because Curly loves the Cream of SumYungGai.

I am ambivalent here. On one hand, London is exactly right, and I hope that Taylor listens to her for her own good. On the other hand, it would be disappointing to lose such a valuable source of entertainment on this board. "I don't care" rants are always hilarious.

A manhater looks @ the world and sees that men, start the wars, they rape, they commit most of the violent crimes  etc.
We are portrayed on TV as uncaring bafoons, etc.
Their are also men out their, that love and care about others.
Is it fair to hate us all? IMO, no.

Posted By: mstaylorsteele
Can you please tell me what the hell is a 'manhater'......  
   
 I looked at him puzzled and said you know what, I don't really
know. Perhaps I should direct the question to those who use the word so frequently.  So here I am coming directly to the source..  
   
 So gentleman and any ladies who would love to chime in... what is your definition of a manhater and what validates being actually being one in 'your' mind?  
   
 Looking forward to your definitions and mind you...do your best to try and be nice and NOT directed it towards me...thank you.

MaximusSeximus1145 reads

Many also prefer to eat pussy than suck cock.  Providers are actresses and many men are just plain dumb asses.

misandry - misandrist

Can be commonly confused with misanthropy & misogyn

Remember that not everyone speaks Greek around here.

I don't think it applies to all men prob just guys who are assholes like men hate bitches xx

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Posted By: mstaylorsteele
Can you please tell me what the hell is a 'manhater'......  
   
 I looked at him puzzled and said you know what, I don't really know. Perhaps I should direct the question to those who use the word so frequently.  So here I am coming directly to the source..  
   
 So gentleman and any ladies who would love to chime in... what is your definition of a manhater and what validates being actually being one in 'your' mind?  
   
 Looking forward to your definitions and mind you...do your best to try and be nice and NOT directed it towards me...thank you.

Label any escort as a man hater, if you can be polite to a guy for all the interactions nessecary leading up to a session and be cordial thru out a session, I wouldn't think any escorts could ever be a man hater and stomachs this job even for a million bucks, I know a lot of butch dikes that are man haters.. They don't hang out with any men, they don't date any men, and they certainly even for a million bucks would never subject the, selves to havn sex with one even just for an hour, .
And they certainly wouldn't ever allow their girlfriends to partake in that.  
If you were a real man hater any one, you wouldn't ever subject your self to all the fraternizing and appts needed to escort, the man haters I know are lesbians and they'd never ever in a million years think of escorting,  
I don't think a true man hater would ever sign up being even a part of a job like this, .. If I truly hated men myself I d neve do anything that involve me having to interact with the, period, even for money, I'd steer clear them all together,

GaGambler925 reads

but because of  circumstances find themselves forced to work as hookers, BTW they don't live in this country.One of them I got to pretty good friends with because we have dated several of the same women, we seem to have the same tastes. lol

Sometimes people do what they hate because they think they have no choice, and man haters are not immune to that.

BTW I don't know if it is the I Pad, but your posts are so much easier to read. Congratulations, and thank you. It makes it much easier to talk to you this way.

Was better than BBFS, dick, TOFTT thread's. First time I have read all the post's on a thread this long! As far as Ms Steele don't think she is man hater, don't see how she could be a provider if she was. Did question get changed the way it was asked in the beginning  what is the big deal with that. She has spunk, never back down Ms Steele!!!!!

It's these mood stabilizers .........I just started .

hotplants967 reads

Men pull that old chestnut out on this board all the time. Then again, being a lesbian seems to bring out the man-hater accusation in lots of people; not just men, and not just on this board. But, I've sure as hell been called one plenty of times around here. Usually when I've said something some guy completely disagrees with (or said something completely disagreeable?....lol), and he has run out of even remotely intelligent responses.  

But....truth be told....I like men just fine. Until they speak.

And something tells me I best point out that was a joke. (that was a joke). I like men just fine. Don't like men being assholes (that's true)

Panthera12929 reads

You? A man hater? I don't think so.

Perhaps you hate having a dick stuck in your mouth or up your ass, but that doesn't mean that you hate men. You may hate some of us, but a real man hater hates all of us and not for physical reasons. It's mental.

I don't mind lesbians either as long as they don't look like a lumberjack.

hotplants891 reads

I can see why, as a hetero man, you might be a little put-off by lesbians that 'look like a lumberjack'. Most are.  

(is this where I say "some of my best friends are lesbians who look like lumberjacks"...lol)

But, if you dropped some of that stereotype, and you abandoned that decision tree that tells you she is "good or bad", depending on whether you want to fuck her, you might just find you've met a stellar human being.

At minimum, right up-front, you know you don't want to fuck her and it's a given she agrees. I would think that dynamic levels the table. No BS from either side.

hotplants1407 reads

as you might imagine, it gets a lot of traction with lesbians.....lol...

But I like lesbians...as long as they don't like me just because I'm a straight white guy.  My favorite gay friend once said: "I am bi-sexual.  I like gay men and straight men!"

hotplants1042 reads

Not sure why a lesbian would like you just because you're a straight white guy?. Then again, I don't know  every lesbian and how they think.

But, yeah....the whole lumberjack thing is pretty amusing, in general. It's kind of a sub-cultural thing.  Right up there with being called a 'manhater'...lol....

Sorry, I meant dislike me just because I'm straight.  Personally, I'm bisexual because I like straight women and gay women.

Posted By: hotplants
Not sure why a lesbian would like you just because you're a straight white guy?. Then again, I don't know  every lesbian and how they think.  
   
 But, yeah....the whole lumberjack thing is pretty amusing, in general. It's kind of a sub-cultural thing.  Right up there with being called a 'manhater'...lol....

GaGambler967 reads

and once upon a time she stole one of my favorite fuck buddies. but looking back on our almost 20 year friendship she has gotten me laid more times than TER, I have to confess for a middle aged rather plump Asian dyke, she is a fucking chick magnet. Women who would never look twice at me all of a sudden are shedding their inhibitions not to mention their clothes, not because of me, but because of this middle aged, out of shape, chinese women, who is like a mother hen to all these young chicks. If I had what she has, I'd bottle it. lol

hotplants1183 reads

Against lesbians....or any women for that matter, that looks a particular way.  

At any rate, us lesbians get our hetero men friends laid all the time. Call it a free brokerage service...lol...

And, I might be enamored of your plump asian dyke friend myself....who knows?....hey..women are not falling at her feet for no reason..

GaGambler1016 reads

but the facts are, young, nubile hotties are attracted to her like moths to a flame, and I am just happy to catch some of the overflow. Mine is not to reason why, mine is but to do, and enjoy the fuck out of my good fortune. lol

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