Wtf that shit burns.
Personally, when I come I want to world to know it, so to speak; however a few gals insist that I remain as quiet as I can. In some cases they don't want to disturb neighbors (Though in a few cases I wonder how many people in a hotel are going to mind at 3 in the PM.). Another gal comes right out and tells me that it makes her feel creepy when a guy is loud.
On the other hand, I've met a couple of gals who are so on board with letting loose that they encourage me to be louder. One feels that it is good for my soul, or some such thing.
I'd say half don't seem to care very much one way or the other, but just wondering if other guys or gals, have noticed this or care one way or the other about it.
This reminded me of this time when in was touring in Manhattan and had a session booked a little later in the evening, maybe 10-11 pm. Woke up the next morning and there was a note under my door. I can’t remember the exact wording but it basically suggested that while the neighbors were thrilled I was enjoying my time in NYC the late night sounds resembling a pig being sacrificed had kept them awake and that provided everyone involved was still alive could I manage to shut the hell up going forward.
I was both surprised and amused- it was pretty funny really!
I had one sugar babe who was extremely loud. We were at a hotel. It was daytime, but still, people around were going to hear it. So that took me a bit out of my head space. Had we been at a different location where the sound wouldn't be heard by anyone else, i probably wouldn't have cared.
I've found that it's all situational and about going with the vibe in the moment.
In the end, I try to just let go and be me.
I personally think nothing is worse than overtly faked, loud sounds of passion. Yuck.
that there is no problem that can't be solved with a suitable amount of duct tape. Lol
The only things that ever go wrong with anything is either something that shouldn't move is; or something that should move isn't.
There are Duck (Yup, that's what it should be called.) Tape for the former, and WD-40 for the latter.
I thought it was just a big hammer for the later -- well, like they say about cat skins....
A few girls were definitely surprised when I come quietly and they don't even know it. One girl said guys usually groan or scream when they cum and you haven't changed anything at all and just ejaculated. I was like yeah, what's the problem?
Lol.
With that said, I can understand the concern about loudness. I feel like if you want to keep it down, loud but not deafening music/background tv works well.
Personally I don't really care but then I'm not a loud guy. I feel like majority of time I'm worried she's being loud.
Having to fuck girls with roommates and housemates present in college was very good prep in keeping things grounded and quiet for me. Lol.
I think I told this one in a KGirl thread a couple of years ago.
About 5 years ago I saw superstar Moli in WLA in the apartments on Sawtelle. First time meeting her. When I walked in, after a long DFK, she told me that we had to be quiet because the walls were thin and her neighbors were nosy. So after the shower I put her on the bed and started eating her pussy. I could tell she was getting excited so I put a finger in and started rubbing her g-spot while licking her clit. All of a sudden she lets out a huge squirt and starts screaming really loud. I paused and motioned for her to be quiet, and she smiled, pushed my head back into her pussy, and told me to get back to work after which she started screaming again. It was a great session for both of us, and I guess the moral of the story is that it was just a man’s noise that her neighbors were nosy about. 🤠
you which "buttons" to push. Lol
I miss that lady. She's in my Top 5. I don't get to LA very often but if I ever had to go back to UCLA for any reason I'd absolutely try to find her.
I got a story too. Last year, one of kgirl complexes had someone die. Completely nonrelated to kgirl, but it was inside one of the aprt buildings. I think it was because of some argument.
The next day I scheduled with a girl and realized it's the same complex. The girl was a complete screamer! She yelled so loud when riding me I got scared some neighbor would call the cops lol. She was hella into it and really wet. It was an insane sesh and I really liked her attitude even tho she was super loud. She bounced in like a day or two and when she came back this year she was way more subdued and she'd cover her mouth when she was loud cuz her roomie was sleeping.
I like the ones who get so loud they bite the pillow.
In reality........I love it when the person that I am with (Female Or Male) gets loud. That turns me on as I try to make them cum
let her know that it's ok, let the neighbors know where my cock is.
I also remember many years ago. A beautiful girl with Indian features(India) came over and as I daty she was very vocal, cheering me on wanting more and more. Sad to say that I don't think I got her off. We moved to mish and I was quiet about my ending but still pressed on. When she figured out I had came she jumped up and her quote was - 'what did you think, we were having sex or something?' .... she was very pretty.
I have read about some Asian provider, that comes to NOVA sometimes, who is famous for absolutely screaming and shrieking when cumming. Guys have wondered how she doesn’t get thrown out of the hotel.
She’s supposed to be such a wildcat, that I have always wanted to see for myself. But, I just can’t get past the idea of her being easily heard throughout the building. I’m sure some of you guys know just who I’m talking about.
I wish I could remember. I think she’s the one who sprays your package with mouthwash.
Couple asian places now, I've gotten my junk sprayed with alcohol or other disinfectant. It does indeed burn. Lol.
Yikes! A good shower with soap and water is probably more effective that a quick spritz of alcohol that won't even cover the whole (or hole) area.
Couple asian places now, I've gotten my junk sprayed with alcohol or other disinfectant. It does indeed burn. Lol.
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Not sure if I am in the minority here but loudness / noises are preferable to me during sex. Everyone is different obviously but sounds express enjoyment, and I want to hear my lovers scream and beg for more. Sometimes when a guy is really quiet I'm like...you okay there? lol
How do you feel about "dirty" talk from the guy? Are you open to that or do you prefer the grunts and groans of pleasure?
Any genuine expression of pleasure is sexy to me. I love to hear what my lovers can't get enough of, and I get super turned on when you are comfortable enough to be uninhibited
use dirty talk gratuitously, and it often does not fit the moment, current activities, or the specific situations where it is used, so it comes off as phony. When the customer is scratching their head wondering why a provider blurted out something that doesn't seem to fit, it does more harm than good to the session. Just my opinion as a frequent customer. Others are free to disagree.
My post is based on what I enjoy from my clients, which is for them to be comfortable enough to relax into their fantasies and not feel afraid to express themselves. I tend to agree with you that forced dirty talk can negatively shift the vibe of the session, but that is why chemistry and finding a provider who is a good fit for you is so important.
If she's particularly good at faking O or faking leading up to an O, I found that occasionally hot. But yeah, a lot of dirty talk is kind of lame.
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Now on the other hand, in my BDSM sessions (always with sugar babes, never with pros) I enjoy when I can tell them BDSM stuff ... things that would normally be taboo, get you fired, defriended, slapped, arrested, defenestrated, kicked off facebook, etc.
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So maybe if it helps them have a good time, even if it sounds lame to me, go ahead.
use dirty talk gratuitously, and it often does not fit the moment, current activities, or the specific situations where it is used, so it comes off as phony. When the customer is scratching their head wondering why a provider blurted out something that doesn't seem to fit, it does more harm than good to the session. Just my opinion as a frequent customer. Others are free to disagree.
I was going at it hard with a very hot gal who started yelling, "Marry me! Marry me!" it was fucking hilarious. Thanks for reminding me!