Hey!  Any of us hobbyist who have been doing this for 20 plus years or more will have certainly noticed the "balding" of pussies of providers.  (Heck, you probably have noticed that in porn, too!)  Is this something you like?  Frankly, as a guy with daughters the bald thing does me NO good.  I just don't associate hairless with anything sexual.   Don't like it.  I'd rather have some bush!  I don't mean some wild out of control forrest, but some hair is nice.

What do you prefer?

You asked for a personal opinion so I will share mine.

I love DATY and find that even the small strip some ladies have is irritating to me when I DATY.  It seems no matter how recently or closely they shaved, even with the strip there is always some stubble.

I love a freshly totally shaved lady.  I actually also like the look of the shaved lady better than partially or unshaved.

I prefer totally shaved. There is something incredibly sexy about that for me.

Old school. I like a female to look like a woman not a little girl.

So far, I'm ambivalent on the provider shaving. I do have daughters, so I understand the issue you're facing, but I've managed okay on the disassociation on that one.

The one that got me was getting snuggled up to and played with while the TV was on. It was Law & Order Special Victims Unit. It was a rape/murder case. Don't make my male brain do that! I said I'd have to move to the other side of the bed or turn the TV off. It was creeping me out.

Shaved or neatly and closely trimmed is my choice. I'm just not turned on by the old "full bush" look.
I also don’t care for unshaved legs or armpits either. It’s probably a cultural bias, but I like shaven ladies.

C_K

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I didn't start hobbying until I was 55 years old, and prior to that had a pretty plain vanilla sex life. I was absolutely thrilled with my first shaved pussy, and I still love them. That's not to say that a nice hairy bush isn't a nice change of pace. Love them too. So, I guess what I'm trying to say is that if it's available for me to touch and kiss and lick, I'm a pretty happy guy. Variety is all a part of it, so my preference is only that she have one.

Smooth, trimmed, or natural; as long as she enjoys my prolonged oral attention to it , I'm a happy man.

and women generally have far less natural body hair than the male; I personally look upon 'natural' pubic growth as unattractively counter evolutionary.

 A well kept landing strip, or better yet a "racing stripe" are both aesthetically sexy variants to a hard wood floor.

Hygienically speaking I find natural pubic growth repugnant.

I trim mine short.  Extra hair just seems to get in the way...

and it's not a pleasant experience when one of my own pubes gets caught in a condom... or even worse, in a zipper if you ever go "commando".

but there is a certain tactile pleasure in nuzzling up to some nice soft pubes.

No biggie either way.

Lopsided response here is a clue to why it's so hard to find a provider these days with the full growth.  Like KUNGaLINGus and Nuvela Man I positively prefer hairy, up to and including "wild out of control forest."  And while you're not at it, ladies, I would welcome it if you were to leave legs and pits alone to do their thing too.  (Maybe I should move to Europe!  Not a bad idea all around, come to think of it.)  

There is nothing unhygienic whatsoever about a full crop of pubic hair if you wash it properly and don't catch crabs.  

And yes, I do question the psychological motivations of those who strongly prefer shaved pussy.  For the male visitor, it would seem to be a preference for female sexuality in its prepubescent phase, as perhaps less threatening.  For the owner, it seems yet another manifestation of the loathing of one's own natural body that the advertisers of "personal-care" products are at such great pains to cultivate.

But it's hard to find these days.

I know how you feel about having a daughter and not always thinking a bald pussy is beautiful, but have to say that I love pussy so much that it really doesn't matter.  I'll eagerly eat my wife's hairy pussy (she doesn't shave or wax and I'm not sure how to suggest a trim) or my ATF's shaved/waxed pussy.

The truth is, I'm always curious what women do....whether they are co-workers, colleagues, friend's wives, wife's friends, waitresses, store clerks, etc....

I too am like late bloomer and love them shaved.  I can also vouch for Sweet Sophie....shaved and beautiful.

and for a moment or two you're saying to yourself please dont be a penis, please dont be a penis. totally shaven for me

I grew up with PLayboy in the 70's, so a nicely trimmed but substantial patch of hair is my preference.  And they're so hard to find these days, so that makes me want it even more.  It's the sign of a sexually mature woman, if you ask me.  Not that I can't have a great time with a shaved lady, but if I had my druthers.

I actually had an ATF who would try to grow some for me, but felt that if she got other appts she had to shave.  Never really got to the point I like...

P.S. I have to differ with Pyotr about the pits and the legs though.  I like them shaved.

I prefer neatly trimmed, landing strip, stiped, arrow, whatever. Some manner of pubes that indicates yes, Virginia, you did hit puberty. I find that much sexier, to touch, to look at, etc.

Off all the providers I've been with so far (granted not a huge number), only one was not shaved completely clean, and she had let it grow back out into a nice strip for a special client, but was planning to shave it all off again the next day at that point. Lucky for me to catch her before she did.

My Landing strip makes me feel sexy!

grey pubic hair is another.

particularly from a aesthetic and marketing perspective.

What about waxing? And what about when it grows back? I personally HATE the regrowth phase (itchy, stubbly) and would almost prefer not to be seen the week before it all comes off! What do men prefer? I'm new to the biz and and deciding on how I'm going to maintain things down there.

I get my johnson waxed regulary.  There are lots of places where I get a brazillian wax and a great massage after.