Absolutely... I'm single. And when you dont "need" someone, its much easier not to settle for the first person who comes along. You dont need them for money, or even just as a fuck buddy, so you start getting a lot more picky, because who wants to waste their time? It takes someone quite a man to hold my attention for very long. Probably why I've been single for almost 3 years now. But when you make your own money and get laid on a regular basis, you definitely start looking at more important things about a person before you potentially date them.

It's true...when you have so many people treating you the way you're SUPPOSED to be treated it makes no sense to sell yourself short emotionally in your real life.

I wish every guy knew that you get what you give!

I said this in a post elsewhere...but hell yeah, big difference. Before I had very little confidence and most of the time wouldn't ask someone for a date, thinking they were bound to say no. Now with the sex pressure off I don't care if they say no and consequently get more positive responses. It's also made it so much more comfortable to start conversations with women. So much so, that guys at the gym are asking how I do it.

Miss Song,
You have no idea how much I would love to give you my input (every pun intended!).
I also feel the need to tell you that other than the donation portion/moment of our time together (and of course the accelerated 'physicality'), I would never treat any woman differently than another. So, my answer is no.
Would you ever come to Boston, honey?
I think I'm safe in saying that there are some gentlemen here who would love to make your aquaintance.

I'm always picky when it come to date, but i love what i do i got to experience different type of men the way they touch, eat me and do me.. the sex just gotting better babe...

I wonder if single guys (or even married ones) who hobby have higher standards as well considering how wonderful dates with providers are.

Any stories to tell out there?

Re: ladiessss.. and dates

im not sure what the reason is, but i know for a fact, the kind of passion,sweetness that i recieve from a provider of my choice,its not even close to a lady whom i would consider dating,

with all things considered,the romance, the affection, not to mention the intense excitement just knowing im going to see that lady again soon is just the best for me.

so many women today for what ever the reason being have just lost there zing,snap whatever you care to label it for a great nite of hot pasion, no holds barred.i think its so sad so many women of all ages just dont care about good sex.i feel that thats a real crime.

MISS BROOKE SONG

i would just like to extend a warm felt hug to you brook,for being the best young new talent in the biz, i read all your reviews,ive chatted with you on many ocasions and know from experience you have one beautiful heart.i hope we see plenty more of you.

ALL THE BEST TO YOU ALWAYS.

Goes both ways since both provider/client  can/may get spoiled by the  many wonderful experience and splendored-treatment. Real effects that translates into wanting more of it in everyday living.  I've been so spoiled, there is no turning back but to keep on searching or/or dreaming.

Re: ladiessss.. and dates

As someone who's been in this business quite a while, I definitely concur.  I think it works like some kind of fast-track training - suddenly you know your own worth, and no one can fool you into thinking you deserve anything less than respect, affection, and kindness.

Oh, and the other thing that changes?  You'll no longer put up with someone who can't satisfy you in bed!  

Best,

Sunny

most of us treat most of you well because you treat us so well.

I had a long heart to heart with a lady in this business...

she had a ton to say about this very topic.  She is a lady who tolerates no poor excuses for less than respectful treatment of herself.  Of course, that is what she provides to her friends - and dates.  She also has indeed a high bar.  Is it because of this business or is it because she has decided that because of who she is, she can accept no less.  

I suspect that providing opens the eyes of many women, much as internet escorts open the eyes of many men.  I've met both the men and women in this endeavor.  There is nothing "special" about either, in terms of looks, intelligence or social abilities.  well nothing except and this is important, because it affects us all....

the except is an awareness of how the sexual (and social) interaction between men and women CAN BE!  I look at my ex marriage, the marriages of many around me... and I am in awe of the mistakes that are made on a minute to minute basis... When I see them now, it is almost like watching the true train wreck in slow motion.

Do we really treat you like a precious diamond, or is it more that we treat you with respect, and the courtesy of a bygone era?  I watch with horror what is portrayed on TV or in the movies for male/female interactions.  There are NO Cary Grants any more...  Where has Rhet Butler gone?  or for that matter, Gary Cooper.  Instead we are left with the clumsy attempt at civility depicted by Seth Rogan characters...

Well, that is where we are.  That you have raised the bar is a good thing.  My hope?  that we continue to live up to it.

i attend some events of interest where it might be possible to find a suitable civy relationship.

i find that i am much less tempted to settle for an unsuitably matched civy companion. it is just so much easier to avoid the excessively needy and the unwholesomely cold.

For women, being with men who really love women, helps them get a better sense of their personal value, in the context of male/female relationships, and vice versa. I often see, in relationships, where one or the other person is invested in keeping the other person's self-esteem low, so as to keep them, in a sense, enslaved.

I'm glad your experiences are allowing you the feel the shine that others see in you, and that you're taking it to heart.

Good question Brooke,

I actually haven't changed in my expectations. I've always treated the men in my life well and so I've always expected the best in being treated like a lady, intellectual stimulation, erotic stimulation, humor and friendship in a man. So I cannot say that I've changed. So I haven't raised the bar because the bar has been set high for years and I am as stringent as I ever was.

Have fun ladies!

Mackenzi : ))

"men are from mars, women are from venus" says this.  

the first challenge in the process of dating is to give up searching for your soul mate and instead focus on preparing yourself so that you can recognize your soulmate when he or she appears.  Most people find or are found by their soul mates when they are not really looking. when you are ready, your soul mate will appear. a big part of preparing ourselves is getting to know ourselves.

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