set the limits 
it's easy if it's not her thing she will let you know. Read some the provider that interest you reviews.
Roxanne
I would not just initiate it. A conversation is definitely needed (even if her reviews mention that). Some ladies will try/do this with some guys but not all who show up...sort of like Greek. First to see if the provider is into that(with you), and second, to set boundaries etc. She will have some limits as to whether you can or cannot mark her, or the types of rough activities.
Please always be respectful of her boundaries...no means no and stop means stop. Other than that I hope you find who you are looking for and have a great time.
Good advice. Every once in a while a little roughhousing can be quite a turn on
I hate it and would not react favorably. Soft and sensual all the way, all the time with me.
I also hate it and would not react favorably. Soft and sensual all the way, all the time with me.
There is only so much one can do in 58 minutes.
She's a porn star and all her scenes are rough. So I know she's into it. She even said in an interview that she likes it rough. So I'm just going to ask her if we can play rough then I'm going to ask her what her limits are.
she really likes when she is not acting. Just saying...and an interview is not always a reliable source for getting to know her...she can hardly say ..."oh I just act like i like, I really don't".
BUT since she is a porn star and has a rep to keep, you might be in luck.
I say what I say from experience...that is talking candidly with a porn star and it is not all fun and games and what guys see is not always what these girls like (hence the drugs use and the use of local anesthetizing agents). The industry is competitive and they do things they may not necessarily like doing for the money.
Now if she turns out to be for real, then you will most likely have a great time.
If a girl says she's into whatever, then I certainly take her at her word.
For you to make unfounded and irresponsible comments about women in porn as drug addicts unable to give consent is just amazing. I guess you really have never been in the industry.
Now go back to whatever hole you climbed out of.
Someone I have known for years.
It's a long sad story but she told me to slap her face during sex so she could come. I wasn't crazy about it, but it did get her off, so I guess it was worth it for her.
Thankfully, she seems to have gotten beyond that now.
There was one other gal that wanted me to bite her nipples very hard, but I was worried about that too.
Love that shit...but don't do it nearly as much as I used to....but dedinately talk about it first!!
We all know your true style.
Not that there is anything wrong with that.
You're Welcom
So one you post your new review with a woman provider.
Then get back to me but until then no one cares about your made up lies.
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We all know your true style.
Not that there is anything wrong with that.
You're Welcome
as in, not very rough. I did a threesome once where two of us restrained the other provider with handcuffs while we had our way with her, but tongues were definitely in cheeks (and other places).
My ATF likes BDSM including bondage and spanking, but other than light restraints and tease and denial I've told her she'll have to get her bondage and spankings from others. Just not into rough stuff with a lady, even if she's open to it. About as rough as I get is holding down the woman's arms during DATY, as I've read that's a turn-on. No objections yet to that.
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What you might consider rough play may be quite vanilla for the provider.
The providers have heard it all in most cases. I doubt you'll find many that would be shocked at your requests. Depending on what you're into, I think you'd be surprised at just how accommodating most of the providers would be.
You made mention of a porn star that you saw her acting out a scene and made mention of her enjoyment of the scene. Many of the actresses on the BDSM sites are lifestyle players. I doubt she's simply tolerating the scene, in spite of some who may think otherwise. I know that once you meet this girl you'll find that she really is as into the scene as she has commented. At least that has been my experiences over many years of knowing those girls.
The limits need to be discussed prior to the session. Just remember that some scenes that are filmed are set to appeal to the viewer. Discuss safety for her, and you. Never break your toys.
Good luck.
Thanks for the advice. I'm waiting for her right now. I'll let you know how it goes.
Can't do it... I'm about the pleasure not pain...
I prefer to let her initially set the pace - figure out what is on the table, what's not...
Tied up... In the right circumstance
Tie her up... Great turn on but she has to want it not acquiesce to it
Dominence... Interesting but it has to be her thing to be submissive
Submission... Again, right girl, right circumstance
I am all about the pleasure, not the pain
Sucking her nipples hard - if she likes it
Pounding her deep - if she responds favorably
