Contacted a philly-area provider last week. Did my homework, initial contact via website form, yada-yada. Requested a date/time 2 or 3 days in advance. Asked for other dates if the ones I proposed didn't work. 24 hrs, no response. 48 hrs, no response. Sent an e-mail with request and my screening info. No response. And NO, I didn't put "inappropriate" things in my messages.

Sometimes e-mail messages sent to me end up in my junk folder. Actually, quite a few do. I have the sense of mind to check it each evening... But sometimes not religiously.  

Move on. End of story. You can't teach everyone professionalism, and providers who know they have a ton of clients that can easily make up lost money, don't much care about the ones they lose.  

Thanks, Vanica. I can't see her own website form going to junk mail. I can see my separate email ending up there, though.

Well if you had a good time with X, then why bitch about Y(whom you didn't spend a penny on)?

Thanks, London. It's clear you're a pro. As I said in my post, I'm good with an ego-bruising response so long as it is a response. I'm sure my ego can handle it! Lol

You have no patience !!!
  You do have enough wisdom when ignored to move to the next one  .

TER PM ,  phone call , or my Face book page .  
I know how to move down my list .  
 
 

If you are annoyed with no response, you decide if you want to give that provider another shot or move on. Personally, if I were a PAYING client, I would not bother with someone who lacks common courtesy. But, it could also be a variety of other things going on in her life that prevented her from responding. I think that is what you want to know...if something happened to her, or if she is not into you. I get that, so maybe try again asking why she did not respond and see what happens.

You're so right! Time to reacquire my zen and work on my balance... patience and wisdom (mantra-like chant). Lol

Posted By: AnotherPerspective

 You have no patience !!!  
   You do have enough wisdom when ignored to move to the next one  .  
   

Posted By: MasterZen

Contacted a philly-area provider last week. Did my homework, initial contact via website form, yada-yada. Requested a date/time 2 or 3 days in advance. Asked for other dates if the ones I proposed didn't work. 24 hrs, no response. 48 hrs, no response. Sent an e-mail with request and my screening info. No response. And NO, I didn't put "inappropriate" things in my messages.  
     
  I understand we all get busy. I understand we might not want to see certain people. Hell, we could even be on vacation (which I know was NOT the case here).  
     
  Whatever happened to simple courtesy? A quick email or text with "I'm busy try next week" or even "F**k Off, I Never Want To See You" are waaaay better than being left hanging.  
     
  So providers, you hate it when we contact 10 girls and jump at the first response, and I sure want to see the one provider I select, but where is the courtesy of a response?  
     
  First time occurrence for me, but it happened twice in a week and damn am I pissed off at these providers. Do YOU think I should try to contact them again?    
     
  BTW, after being dissed in Philly I traveled to Bmore and met the absolute best, most fantastic woman. Our 3 hour date became 5 and we certainly have future plans, so things worked out.

TY. A solid response. I'm certainly loathe to surrender my own courtesy and personality, even in response to another's possible discourtesy

Be prepared for A. an honest answer that you may not like or B. a load of BS. I think I would just forget about it and move on. FYI, on our side, the times I have told the truth went against me.  I do what London does, and give a response that does not nail down the exact reason but enough to send you elsewhere.