required to lie about her age b/c most men assume she will anyway.

Is it best to lie and say she is younger (let's say 27 years old) or older (let's say 33 years old)?

I thought of this based on a recent thread that evolved into ladies lying about their ages & whether or not younger ladies are more desirable.

I had a lady admit to me that when she lied about being older, more men contacted her b/c they thought she was older, but she looked younger, she was more appealing to those ladies who were really the age she was fibbing about. But I've had ladies tell me the opposite.

Dishonesty isn't desirable of course, but if a lady has to lie (b/c we're assuming she is anyway), would you rather her go up or go down?

I'm sorry if this seems redundant. I don't intend it to be that way since there are no posts exactly on this question. It's just a spin off of the post below.

Thx everyone.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=577434&boardID=12&page=1#577434

not everyone is going to buy the same lie. Smart guys will figure it out eventually. So if you are lying, you better tailor make it to individual guy and remember what you said to whom.

I mean how many times have we seen the girl who shows up on the scene and is the same age for 10-15 yrs...

I really don't care about woman's age as long as I know that she is 18+. It would be good to know the age range though. 18-21, 21-25, 26-30 etc...

If she looks good. I will fuck her.

I know women in my city who say they are 10-15 years younger than the age they've admitted to me.

I know women who have been "28" for 5-10+ years.

Its best to list your real age and at the very least not fib by more than 4 years no matter how you look.

If you look great, own it.

If you look your age, good.

If you look older than your age, stop drinking gin.

The lady doesn't really want to sleep with you. That isn't her name. That isn't her real email or cell. Some of those are not real orgasms. Your penis isn't really the perfect size. You aren't really the best she ever had. She was being nice when she said you are attractive.

Does her real age really matter?

Granted there are exceptions and some relationships can develop where lies aren't needed. I am speaking generally.

I have fudged by 3 years at most, but now it's pretty much 9 months lol. When a man says, "She is older than her stated age," he is full of shit unless he saw her ID. The better phrase would be, She LOOKS older than her stated age," because as we know...many things can age a woman. I am a smoker and have a tanning bed in my home, so without injections, I would very well look at least 35.

There is very little truth in provider advertising let's be real here.  

All claim to be "Classy"  for "upscale Gentleman".  What a JOKE !   Provider ads are BS.

The only thing that matters is reviews and back channel info. The rest is crap.

better lying that she's 35 yrs old.

It makes me want to do a test study for one of my friends getting in the game. I'll put up two ads for her; one 25 or so and one 35. But if I knew which one is preferable when lying, it would make it so much easier! lol

Ok, but many HDHs also claim to work a full time, corporate job, whilst out flying to their clients. Funny. Lying is lying, and age is not the only thing people try to bullshit about. Don't say you have a Masters Degree, if you barely have an Associates from an online school...it is simply not necessary if you're charging by the hour. Most hourly guys don't give a fk. We always seem to pick on lying about age and weight, but that is just a small thing compared to the other obvious bs going on. If you can't even afford an incall other than your personal home, you're not all that "in demand." If you were making all that jack, you would not be fkin in the same bed you sleep in. Just saying.

So if she is really 30 but you assume she is 7 years older, should she lie and say she's 23 years old? If she says she 30 (her actual age), you'll assume she's 37 right?

I've never considered lying until this year b/c I know men assume we lie, so I wonder what's the best approach.

Thx.

If she can get away with it, I say so what. In the grand scheme of things, a few years on age, is not all that significant. You start lying about obvious addictions i.e. drug use, we have a problem lol.

I can't understand a lady lying about education or traveling, then you have a convo w/ her and she has no clue! How embarrassing for her, but I'm sure it happens more than often.

Weight? Well men don't really know the difference btw 120 and 130 or 140 and 150, so that's an easy lie b/c many of them wouldn't book a gal at 130 but when they see her they're like, wow she's fine!

But age? I wonder what's the best practice. I wish we could just tell the truth.

I look 5 yrs younger anyway.

Girls think they can lay in tanning beds and the sun for years and never age.

This is a mistake.

Get a spray tan and call it a day.

I likes a swig of the vodka every now and again myself lol.

a few years one way or the other makes absolutey no difference to me.  It is all about how she takes care of herself, how she looks, and how she carries herself.  Everyone has different tastes, depending on their own age and other factors.  For me, though there are always exceptions, I generally prefer women 30 and up.  No matter what age she claims, it comes down to what I see, feel and experience when we are together.  So photoshopped images and fibbed age may attract my attention, but it is not likely to hold it when we meet.  Again, 3 or 4 years I may not know and it really doesn't matter, but 10 or 12 years, that ain't gonna fly!

Sooner or later it will catch up to her anyway.  If she is running around claiming to be 35, but she has been getting reviewed since 1995...well??  Plus as a mature man, I know that there are differences in your body (man or woman) as you get older, no matter how much you diet and exercise.  I'm probably going to recognize that.  

I generally find that mature ladies who have taken care of their bodies and minds, are very proud of that and don't feel the need to pretend to be younger.  I also find that some who are blessed with an awsome shell, but do nothing to take care of it other than artificial enhancements and supplements, and they live fast, age fast and often look older than they are.  So maybe guys just think they are lying about their age, lol.

Bottom line... there is no need to lie to me because it is just a number anyway.  Others may be differ.  

that it's best to be honest as I've been and I'll be for my friend, when posting her ads.
but I'll understand that some, just some, men will think we're lying anyway we slice and dice it. We can't make them happy b'c they'll always think we're lying, but at least for those who believe in honestly will appreciate it. Thx!

Re: Wow, that's a freaking great point and hilariously true! TY eom

Keep in mind I do appreciate honesty. it's just... When the very name of the lady you are speaking to is itself false, and you are paying her to pretend to be your girlfriend....Why worry about such things?

That said, my provider and I always tell each other the truth She told me so!
I jest dear I jest! Don't punish me! Wait.. no no, punish me!

Crack too...lay off the damn crack!

I think their should be a date stamp when the provider changes her age, based on what you said. For 4 years, my profile said 36-30 and in 2013 I changed it to 31-35. What if guys think I have been at that level since 2008?

we'll never meet, because you assume I'm 42 when I'm actually 30.

So that I don't miss you for your benefit (or that of those who like 30 year olds) and mine, what do we do to not lose you? It's assumed we'll lie, so when you say "Just be honest" to you maybe, but to many others, they're adding 7 yrs to that "just be honest".

I'm really 30 (but just be honest and men age me by 7 yrs so..), but I will advertise as 37 yrs old....or 23 yrs.......I just can't decide to go up or down.............either way I'm a lie, so I want to know what best to meet the men who generally like 30 yr olds.

If I lie that I'm 23 yrs old (tho I'm 30), they will think I'm 30 anyway and YESSSSSS!! I will attract them men who like 30 yr olds b'c that's what I offer anyway.

Sorry Crazyshit for babbling, but I hope that makes sense. At some point I (we) have to lie as a result of expectations, I just don't know what's the best way to lie.

TY!

Yea, but I was lol. Just saying. I hate spray tans, but do them on occasion. My ass bangs docs on a barter basis for a reason...BOTOX he he.

they pay.

The vast majority of the Top 100 providers are well into their 40s.  Look at the ones on "American Courtesans."  Well into their 40s, some probably in their 50s.  To claim early 30s is laughable at best.

I saw a mature provider from Florida who squirts (can't remember her name).  She advertised as being in her 40s.  No way.  She was definitely in her 50s, maybe even into her 60s.

I know what a 30-year-old looks like, because I am in my early 40s myself.

Lying pretty much guarantees I won't see you again.

Ok but once again, women who smoke, tan a lot, and do drugs are going to look OLDER, so they are NOT lying lol.

point!

If you're going to assume higher, she should age herself as lower to not miss out on men who like 30.

That's all I'm getting at.

And I forgot that women from FL have a tendency to get that shriveled-up bacon look if they are spending too much time in the sun.

I just want to know how to work around that.

Either way, they age us until they meet us.

So someone ok with meeting a 40 year old will see me (a 30 yr old) assuming I'm 40. That's fine, but men who are really looking for a 30 yr old won't look for me b/c they're think I'm old, dried up and much older than 30 tho that's my age.

It's ok.

I just wonder what's the solution when men are aging us beyond are age and never meet us b'c of an assumed age that's not true.

least 5 yrs younger like me, but it appears we have to lie at some point b'c men don't believe we are the age advertised........and this is mostly about the age posted to get them thru the door. Of course after that, they'll say, wow you look young.

but to get thru the door, they're assuming if we advertise as 30  we're 40 etc. how unfortunate

I was thinking more about what she claimed in her ads and website, but that's a great point, lol!!!  Your profile age plus 5 years of reviews would make you 36-40 then.  Right?  hahahaha!

I apologize to you if I don't seem eager to jump into a forced, akward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, wondering Do I have food on my face? Am I eating, am I talking too much? Are they talking enough? Am I interested? I'm not really interested. Should I play like I'm interested? But I'm not that interested. But I think she might be interested. But do I want to be interested? Now she's not interested. So all of the sudden I'm starting to get interested. And when am I supposed to kiss her. Do I have to wait for the door cuz' then it's akward. It's like Well, goodnight. Do you do like the ass-out hug? Where you hug each other and the ass sticks out because you're trying not to get too close. Or do you just go right in and kiss em' on the lips? Or you don't kiss em' at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering , Are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? And perhaps play a little game called, Just the tip in. Just for a second. Just to see how it feels. Or Ouch, ouch. You're on my hair. ... Great talk.

all create these guidelines that if she advertises as 30, she must be 40. If she advertises 40, she must be 50 and so on. What about those who look younger? We must be lying too.

I was hoping to find out how women can be honest and advertise as such was my question. I understand now from your comments that most men would appreciate we lie. Thank you for sharing your valuable opinion.

Be true to yourself!  No matter what age the guys think you are, they are coming to your door because they think you are hot!  And when they see you, they are probably thinking wow, she really does look 30, and they are damn happy they are there.  So what does it matter if they thought you were lying about it up front or not?  They were wrong and you just proved it.

Don't get hung up on what 1 or 2 guys posted.  They don't speak for all of us!  If they are that cynical if the first place, do you really want to see tham anyway?

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30 year olds, the point is b/c you all assume we're lying anyway, you would go to the 37 year category, right? B/c they're always at least 7 yrs older, right?

Everything else you mentioned is completely irrelevant. Sorry you have nothing to contribute. I will be sure to ignore going forward.

adding at least 7 yrs to our lives even if we're NOT! So it's important for us honest ladies to come up w/ a game plan when the rest of you are assuming we're lying anyway. Thx, but it's ok. It's a good lesson learned reading the board b'c ladies really trying to be honest (even tho you accept it) aren't accepted by the masses. We;re aged and personally I don;t want to be aged, but rather ME especially if I've done whatever to look even younger, why take away from that. buy you know, there's not resolution I get it......stop drinking from someone even tho I don't.........don't tan///////tho I don't.................NONe of which is the point if a lady looks 18 and puts her age as 18 why AGE her to 25? Likewise if she's 23, why age her to30? and if she's 30, why age her to 37?

women will continue to lie about their age as long as men post publicly that they age her at least 7 yrs. what the (I look and am my age) fuck...like this on this thread!

whatever have a good week everyone

There a few numb-nuts that are going to assume you are lying about all kinds of things.  You can't get too hung up on that - it's just not worth it.  

1) Most of us prefer the truth
2) We don't all look by just age! (maybe a range, but other factors too)
3) If you are 30 and look 25, that is great (bonus)
4) If you are 30 and look 40, maybe not so much so
5) If you are 30 and some idiot thinks you are lying and must be 40, then it is his loss not yours
6) If you don't have reviews that say "she said she was 30, but I thought it was her mother when I got there"  you are probably going to be fine

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I know and understand that there is an age range that can be expected. I don't work at a fucking carnival handing out stuffed animals, or game tokens. I have all of my teeth and an education, with those two things, and a few benji's in my pocket, I really don't give a frogs fat ass exactly how old you are just be close to whatever magic number you want to pick. The only stipulation is that you look close to that age. If you don't I'm goig to you out just to guess you age, weight, bra size

So I follow that rule to a "T"
What difference does it matter anyway?
There would be no reason for providers in and around 30 something to lie about their age. personally I find that the hottest Age bracket.

Maybe I'm fairly lucky But a predominance of the gals i see confess their age, and it's the age they advertise. I've met w/ a college student and mature providers alike.  they all have a healthy  sense of Self Esteem. with that who needs to lie

Clues like when they graduated from HS or College.... are pretty good in determining ages. At least within a few years anyway.  Again what does it matter?

One provider actually gave me her birthdate..... as I flew her into town.
It was exactly the age she said it was all year long we had been meeting. again,not that it mattered anyway.
Who really cares?

Another had a valentines birthday, and we celebrated it.  She is a top rated mature provider and has no problem w/ her age. she's actually within a few years of myself.

If you really want to gauge a woman's real age..
It shows in her hands, and fingernails. If you look hard, and touch her hands.
You can tell if she is older than she looks.
Or younger than she says.

Yes. There are exceptions..
But for the most part. It works.
Even famous women cannot hide their aging hands.

Oh, and I used "their" for "there" above lol. Sorry about that ha ha.

Some girls also say differing age for security reasons. I am personally very close to stated age. The only issue I have is that I look a whole lot younger than true age.  However I am not comfortable saying that I am in early 20's. For one, some of the men who find interest in that age range expect that typical age range behavior. Two, I am very mature (mind wise) and prefer meeting those types of people. I don't think age matters, it is all about how you look and how you act IMHO. However, if (some) men wouldn't be so hung up on age, there wouldn't even be this discussion!

LOL, there is no way to make everyone happy, or have everyone believe what age you say you are... as has been seen in this thread. When I was younger, I would subtract 2-3 years...when I was 24, I was posting that I was 21-22, etc. Once you actually meet the gent, I'd say on a 98%, they all ask if you are "insert age here"... & I would always tell them my real age. On many occasions, they did not believe I was actually older than the posted age, & I was asked for ID, or confirmation that I was over 18 on quite a few occasions. Once I hit 29, I started posting my real age... & both the number of bookings & time of bookings increased... go figure.

Each gentlemen has a preference for what age bracket he prefers, & whatever age you chose to post, is who you will attract. If you lie about your age, people will say you are lying(which you are), & if you use your real age, they will still say you are lying, lol... Some say we all fib our ages by 5-7-/+ years... that would make me either 23-25, or 37-39... even though I am actually 32. I would say use your real age, & f**k anyone who thinks your lying... they probably weren't considering booking with you in the first place, lol.

If I arrive and you look nothing like your pictures, then we are gonna some issues.

I still look early 20's get carded for everything even at the sex shop and haven't lied about my age,  profile age is accurate as can be.
Don't care what anyone assumes about me because I know what's what.
I agree not smoking & drinking too much as well as eating clean really keeps a person youthful.