I hear some married guys do it when the wives are away, which I think is just stupid. But what about - - - single or divorced guys busy with their profession - - - who do the P4P for an easy fix for a last minute need.

Hobby when away so out call mostly . My hotel .  

Being an outcall only provider I have been to many gents homes for an appt.
These guys are NOT married they may have a significant other but she does not live with them.
You can tell if a woman lives in a home or not.
I remember years ago when I used to work for an agency this guy calls for an appt I arrive at his home.
After getting there I realize he lives there with his wife who will be off from work in an hour!
Needless,to say I let him know I was not comfortable and hauled my ass out of there before his wife decided to come home early.
Talkin' about living dangerously(not cool)

And that was with a gal I'd seen many times and was actually screening for.  There are a few others I'd consider doing it with, but only ones I know very well.

my wife was out of town, and I regretted it as soon as it was done.  She showered and I was scared that her long hair would turn up in the bedroom or bathroom at the wrong time.  Yes, it was stupid, but great sex.

Specially with people who have two homes, one permanent up north and one seasonal (snowbirds) some of them are single. I have been only to single guy's homes after a very strict  and lengthy screening, without any problems. I would never go to someone's home if the significant other lives there or if there is the risk of her showing up at some point, it is just risky, unnecessary and not worth the hassle....I feel that if the guy really wants to see you, will either come to your incall or get a hotel so there is not risk for any of the parties involved..

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Hi There

I agree. Have never done it, and never will...single or not. I would go to their temporary condo, but only if we met prior to that at my location. I've just heard too many horror stories about guys having cameras, and gosh knows what else in a personal home, and these were not newbies but guys with tons of refs and reviews. You just never know.

I used to live in a high rise in Northern VA, and there was lot of privacy...I lived there for 5 yrs and never met my neighbors...

There's nothing like home court advantage, as they say.

But you have to use great discretion and really feel good about the gals you invite over.

I will admit that I had a gal over once when I was married and the kids and the wife were on a trip by themselves.

It was probably dumb, but I managed to get away with it by being very careful to clean up well.

I also did a very foolish thing when on a trip up to Toronto with my wife.  She went out on a shopping trip and I stayed behind and called up an agency who sent a gal over.

After the gal arrived I began to fret about what if she decides to come back early?  I had this idea that if she got back early and caught me and the gal in flagrante delicto I'd just say something like:  Hey honey, you wouldn't believe the extras the maids at this hotel do for their customers.

OK, you come up with a better one!

it all the time at my home I feel more comfortable with outcalls to my house

I'm divorced and live alone in a nice house in a great neighborhood, with some wonderful, but nosey neighbors.  
I had a regular, come over a few times, she even stayed here for several days when she and her roomie had a "bitch thing".  I discovered she had a drug problem....--->  House burglarized.  She disappeared.  Add $900 for locksmith to re-key / change door locks...
Another time a regular would come knocking on my door unannounced at all hours...  Oh Man! What a pain in the posterior, that was!  Sweet girl but....
Although I have befriended many fine ladies, here on TER, and I totally  trust most of them...  My policy is now: No Providers In My House!   Bad JuJu.

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I have. I'm not Married or have a Girlfriend. So no problems to worry about.

I prefer incall. I have a few rental properties that when unoccupied are fine. A hotel, of course. My primary home, NO, NEVER. Various reasons.

...with a provider who I had seen a bunch, and was very comfortable with.  I was still nervous-as-hell and sweated thru my shirt before we even got going.  She was very understanding and made it work.  But I won't do that again...

The "statistically vindictive" in my casa lol. Why not just post one of my many addresses here?

I have been doing it for 2 years with no major problems. Of course with independent, reviewed providers. Outcalls at home are more comfortable. I have been to a hotel once for incall, it made me paranoid. "Was that maid LE? Why is that front desk guy staring at me?" Hahaha! The other incalls I have done were providers' apartments and condos, which seemed OK. Not as comfortable as home, but less spooky than hotels.

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Just have to ask, Have you come across anyones wife in passing although you have not been in the home? Also I am just wondering, have you talked to another woman and seen a picture of her husband who just happened to be your client?

as a young horny & stupid guy I had an affair with a married woman & we used her home & camper & her company car when she was working overnight...  Man was that STUPID!

I live alone -- divorced and kids are grown.  I have had providers come to the house 3 or 4 times. On balance, I don't think it is a very smart thing to do.  The convenience, like the OP said, is sometimes the key factor.  But then, afterward, you get paranoid and want to change the sheets, and check the bathroom to see if anything was left (or anything was taken)   To minimize those risks, I have gone with the same agency every time and the same provider as often as possible.  An additional concern can be neighbors but not in my situation.  Still it just feels a little funny to have had that go on in the house.  All things to consider.  it definitely feels like playing with fire, but I guess that is part of the excitement, too.

for the first time. If it was a repeat encounter, than maybe if I lived alone.

the winner for the stupidest I have ever felt -- in or out of the hobby -- was when a provider came to my house and we were finished and I was showing her around a bit and she saw and asked about pics of my GF. yes, that felt stupid. Fortunately, the provider was smart enough to ask why I was doing this, given that I had a GF.

Or have you ever had a wife call you, threaten, scream and cry as you hear her husband deny and moan in the background?
 

ape, crazy wife's, stalkers, sickies, you name it..I love this life  

Scared of stalkers. I do not even care to go to her home.

I've had one girl I'd seen before over to the house. I will most likely do it again. It was a little awkward with her driver sitting out front for over an hour, but I'm single, and don't really care what the neighbors think. Stalkers don't scare me, I have sisters crazier than that. I have insurance if something gets stolen.

any real info on the ladies I see other than what they look like, how they entertain other guys, and what their stage name is.