... the provider gets no enjoyment from her work, it wouldn't "bug" me per se.   But I know providers who are in it for the money (they're not a 501c3) but also enjoy what they do, so I prefer to give them my money and time.

that we all (guys and gals) can be a little needy at times, it does not entitle us to frequent chat sessions. Each relationship is probably going to be a bit unique in terms of communications. Do what feels right for you on a case by case basis.

And certainly a lot of girls are in it only for the money.  That's fine. But most of the women I've met like other things about the life, too.  Like the freedom it gives them from being stuck in an office and tied to a schedule.  The freedom to travel. Many are just not office types and also like being a bit of an outlaw.
And some just love to fuck.

Question 1 - of course, providers are in it for the money.  This regular sounds like he has a fundamental misunderstanding on the nature of this business.  In theory, if a provider’s conduct made it really obvious that she didn’t want to be with me during a session, then that’s different.  But that pretty much never happens.  So, no it doesn’t bother me one bit that providers are in it just for the money, because almost all of them don’t behave in a way that makes that obvious during a session.  

because it assumes that we clients have a way of reading the providers' minds.   We don't.

Are you kidding me???   If I have a monthly $500-$1000 income stream you damn right I am going to be friendly in order to encourage the business.  That's what someone would do whose only concern was money.   That maximizes income.

I thought they liked getting Fucked several times a day?

Illusion Of Passion.
It's a bit of a misused description of how wild and crazy a p4p woman behaves during sex acts. It assumes that all of the women are acting their pleasure, which is probably not true. Broad definitions are usually wrong a lot of the time and true some of the time.

This is fantasy. The better the fantasy the more likely I am going to repeat. It's not an expectation nor am I very needy however a small amount of additional contact before and/or after is a nice touch that I do appreciate.

but 500 or 1k a month isn't enough for me to text a client for anything besides appointment setting. i have clients that spend  4 k a month with me and they do get off the clock texting and i don't mind it, as seeing them that often has definitely changed the dynamic of our relationship, but the dude seeing me once a month for an hour doesn't get access to me outside of it, its just not worth the effort.  

Of  course.  Someone who has a million dollar client is not going to worry about a $1k order.  But now we are only talking price, not procedure.

So why are you doing this then? 😂 you want to fall in love and get married?!

I think my original answer was just about enticing revenue streams -- keep regulars coming.  If there is someone you actively don't like, that would be an additional factor.  

It is complicated.  That's one of the reasons I seldom repeat with escorts, though most are great.  I'm as apt to get attached as any sad sack you ever met.  I can't even imagine meeting with the same lady over the course of months without developing some sort of crush.  So I just don't do it.

Best summary I've read yet about why providers choose to be in the life---spot on truth!!

No, it's really not complicated at all.

I guess you are a ‘wireless’ provider as well.  Anytime I think I’ve seen or heard it all, something like this smacks me in the face.  I am amazed that someone would pay for it, but also impressed that you can monitize it.

Amen

not really. now that i think into it, my once a month clients rarely text outside to set a date. now i only have a couple once a month clients, my clients range from those who see me once or twice a week, to those who see me once a year, but the inbetween ones aren't nearly as populus

Same can be said of a girlfriend. There's no difference.

I think it is different with a regular than girls you see once in a great while. If I do not feel a connection with a regular I would not keep going back. I would go to different providers all the time. I believe the sex is must better when you feel like the person enjoys your company. I am sure there are girls that can fake it but I would think it would show up. And if they where that good I would be fine with it too lol.

And the clients / relationships I want to stablish.  I do like to attract my clients  for overnights, trips & actually COMPANIONSHIP.
Again, GFE isn’t a menu .... but an experience 👌🏼

If they expect random "text chatting" they should be spending $500-1000 a week, not a month. Texting is a form of OTC time, which they should never "expect" but many providers will allow if he's spending enough. At $500-$1000 a MONTH, he should get both  a "happy birthday" and "merry Chirstmas" text once a year. If he's already getting those at this level, then he shouldn't be complaining.  

gee...i wonder if it bugs her,if im only seeing her for the sex...hmmm

No it doesn't bother me in the least, in fact I prefer it that way.

That there are guys here willing to fork over 250 a month for a daily text.  Absolutely no knock on you.  For me, there are women in my life I’d pay 250 a month not to have to talk to them.  

Yes indeed---to quote the legendary Charlie Sheen--"I don't pay them for sex...I pay them to leave." Keep it simple and drama free!!

those who I engage in text/talk practices between appts are not really the ones that beg for discounts or look for the best deal. They understand my time and have more than enough to see it as "spoiled the GFE" that they frequent. Hey... I have monthly packages that include all.  
ha!

Very true.

Your regular is delusional!
I don't get guys who do this looking for girlfriends. That is not what this is about.

Ha! Wonderful

Where the fuck are you getting your haircut?

..... and I needed a haircut, we would set up a chair on our front porch. I would sit there in shorts, covered by a sheet   and she would walk out in a sexy bra and panties, displaying her wonderful  natural DDD's.
She would start cutting my hair and of course her boobs would be all over me.  
Once the hair cutting was done, we were both so turned on that she would either climb onto my cock while face to face or she would start with a BBBJ.  

I fall in love with every woman who fucks me. I don't want to live with them or extend the relationship past what it is. Well, not very often anyway. Lol

My ego is more than able to accept the fact that I pay hookers to fuck me, but I can't possibly imagine myself being so fucking boring or uninteresting to the point I would have to pay someone just to text with me.

Blocking out the "haircut" must guys get during a divorce.

There is a difference between a friend and a girl friend and if you don't understand stand that I feel sorry for you.

Are too upset that they can’t make money off of losers.  Each of you has to try harder.  You’re not going to rule the world yet.

get perms usually go to a hairdresser, not a barber.  Maybe Russ is caught in the 80's, but if he can rock a perm, he should go for it.  

A hairdresser (Hair cutting professional if you will) is licensed to cut hair, color hair, perm hair etc.

to shave yourself, there are women who will wax you.  I wouldn't let anyone with a straight razor near my balls, not even me.  

1. I went in there with a full understanding of what to expect, and I already made up my mind that this is not a personal encounter, but rather, that it's strictly business. I am paying for her honesty after all, so why would I have a problem when she gives me the honesty I paid for? Isn't this the reason why red pill men deviate from traditional relationships and stick to escorts in the first place? It really IS all about the money, and I'm totally ok with that. My only complaint would be if she just lays there in starfish mode dying for it to be over as opposed to really working to satisfy all my desires in bed. Afterall, I'm paying for the experience as a whole. If it was just about having a release, I'd stay home and rub one out for free.

Of course the hookers are in it for the money, they all do it for the money, this is a fundamental truth I keep reminding myself of whenever I see a provider. It only becomes an issue for me if this effects her performance, like if she's a rude person who's trying to shoo me out of the room as fast as possible.

I can't even understand how cam shows make money.  There is so much free porn out there.

Out of the Blue I get a text saying that someone misses me and where have I been? Then I look at the calendar and it is the last of the month and the rent is due.

Really?!?  And yes, my good clients I do chat with EVERY DAY. As in 1 K a month.  This is my job. They know it is my job. I text/message/send pics/ cards/ etc..  They love the attention and show it with gifts and $. They also know my job and appreciate my time. I appreciate them and how much they spend on me and how good they are to me!!!  

I assume nearly all providers are in it primarily for the money, I just don’t want to be treated like it during the session.  Some providers genuinely enjoy what they do and those are the ones I want to see.  I don’t expect them to want off the clock social interaction with me, but when they do, appreciate it.  I’d like to think I’ve become friends with a few providers who actually like me.  

Your regular is in a dream world.. he never would have seen you if he didn't pay you.. That's reality. Some times.. yes.. there is a connection.. but it's never for free..

I love interacting with gents on twitter, I answer all private messages sent to me, even if they're not from clients, I regularly email and text with regular clients. To me that's part of the social process and part of showing them I care about their lives outside our booking. It doesn't mean I love them or that they're needy, it's just a little light fun until the next booking and it takes a couple of minutes of my time.  
It costs nothing to be nice!!

YOU KNOW SOMETHING YA EVIDENTLY EVERYONE NEEDS MONEY SOME MORE THAN OTHERS ... BUT I THINK THE REAL PERSPECTIVE IS THAT EVERYONE IS STILL HOPING FOR THAT ONE TRUE (fuck) love the explosive orgasim over and over with the same person so if a provider is not doing extra for you an ya your paying her great wages go on to the next one and maybe youll be treeted better

I got 4 likes.  You got one. Im right!

I am a realist and know that all of the providers I have seen or will see are in it for the money.  I don't mean that to be a negative but this is a business...for them.  For us clients...it is a hobby.  Whether they have financial difficulties, need money for school, enjoy extra cash to spend on themselves or their family, whatever the motivation - they like getting paid and would most likely not be fucking me if I were not paying them.  Think about it, have you ever met a provider who could not walk into a bar, party, church, etc...and not find a man to come fuck them.  Of course the ladies love sex...and for some this is a great way to satisfy that desire but they could get that satisfaction many other places with out taking the risks that are inherent in the business.