I guess I may have a little voyeur in me. I've wanted, but not had the balls, to ask a provider to let me watch her and another hobbyiest or even with her and her boyfriend.
Just wondering if anybody else shares this fantasy or if any of the provider had experienced that request.
Not sure if I'd want to join in or just pleasure myself.
Is this too far over the top ?

Perfect question to ask from left field. I'll wait for the answer's from the dugout with my binoculars. lol

if you pay for a session I'll go to bat and let you watch, lol

In the grand scheme of things it's not my kink but not overly weird.  I happen to know a few providers whose significant others actually enjoy the thought of the lady being with other guys.  Sounds like you need to find that type of provider

I have been asked about this fantasy a number of times by several different gentleman friends.  I think it is more common than one would imagine it to be.

Many men request this type of date from me.all the time.atleast once a week.But I'm sad to say that I don't have the balls to do it in the hobby.lol.And I don't know a guy who would feel comfy enough to do it with me.I always get the interracial cuckhold fantasy.It's very hot to watch someone else.I love to watch to people really into each other.I love to watch my husband fuck another girl.lol.But I like to join in too.

I dont think there's anything weird about your fantasy at all.  I think you are way in the norm in fact.  I would think for all those that watch porn, a live viewing session would just be icing on the cake.

I'm with you on this Left Fielder, and I wont hide behind a wimpy ass alias and say it.

no harm and no foul if you only watch...

I used an alias, didn't want to everybody to know what a pervert I really am....LOL.

Porn in Person....that's a great way to put it.

You didnt want everyone to know what a pervert you really are?  Come on now, where's the fun in that?

"There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to manifest...that which is within us.  As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

"Be who you are, and say what you feel, because those who mind dont really matter, and those who matter, dont really mind."

I LOVE... to watch others.I can't tell you how much I love it.. Oh my!!

Even watching my BF with another girl.. OH yeah.. that is HOT. But, I am not comfortable with someone watching me do fun things with another person..

YES, I am werid I know..

No, you're not weird, you're a voyeur.  Voyeurs watch, they derive pleasure from watching, they arent into being watched, or you wouldnt be a voyeur, you would be an exhibitionist.

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I wasnt calling Left Fielder a "pervert" and meaning it in a derogatory way.  I think he knows that.  I agree, as long as you arent hurting another person, do your thing, find your way.

I march to the beat of my own drum, if it happens to gel with the majority, so be it, but if it doesnt, I'm not losing any sleep over it.

... I'd check out a swingers party. The people are generally very fun and there is never any pressure to participate.

I personally get way too nervous to be able to interact in front of 40+ sets of eyes (there's been an exception or two). But, I certainly don't mind watching! In fact, watching an orgy up close is incredibly fascinating.

Like all the others have said, there is no doubt that there are many providers out there that are more than willing to accomodate such a request.

Not quite the same, but I've had providers ask if I wanted their girlfriend to participate---I say no, because I'd be too distracted

No.

I had one provider who told me she had a male friend that could join us.  

On the one hand I would be interested in watching them, but I would need a great deal of comfort to whip out my junk and perform in front of another guy.

Perhaps watching a couple get it on as another girl gives me head.

I've done it a few times with a guy friend while the hobbiest (sp?) watched and we all had lots of fun! I'd absolutely do it again, with advanced notice.

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