It seems that a decent percentage of providers go with a no FIV policy. I have not asked for a reason since I'm not trying to mess with the mood in the moment. I assume there are one of two reasons for this: (1) concerns that the guy hasn't washed his hands (although not relevant when there is a shower at the in-call, for example) or (2) some guys are jamming their fingers around at a depth and pace that leads the provider to feel like her cervix is being scraped.  But can anyone (esp. providers) shed light on reasons for the no FIV approach?

I do note that I welcome it because I do welcome it.  I enjoy a lot of foreplay and stimulation  and many seem to really enjoy providing it to me as well.  Oral and digital stimulation alternating are edging to me and build me to higher heighta of orgasmic waves increasing anticipation,  FIV also appeals to my submissiveness there is nothing like being manipulated by a strong experienced lover manually probing me artfully seeking and finding those specific spots that send me soaring, as I squirt ( more like flood),the sheets and his hand,   Even better is when he can get in a position to feed himself into my mouth simultaneously  he is in complete control of me literally and figuratively manipulating my buttons as i submit to being used.   Many have told me that giving that to me provides  them a great deal of pleasure  too,  Taking the time to delicately touch and stroke me as I get wetter and begin to open up before slowly working inside and then taking me over completely while I writhe on their finger(s)  and even hand is powerfully erotic and submissive for me.
I become swollen and extremely  sensitive so when they take me with a cock i am on multi orgasmic waves that continue to grow in intensity.   But YMMV of course, too much too quick can be irritating even painful, a poor manicure or even a small area of dry rough skin on the hand or finger can be a big problem ruining the moment for me and him.  Not being shy I have no problem in saying NO if such is the case.   I'm gonna say from my knowledge base that many allow it depending on whether or not all stars are aligned but advertise not to avoid every swinging dick or really every roughly probing finger that comes along.

But especially point 2). Guys who don't trim their nails properly can scrape the inside of her pussy and make fucking painful. I agree that a "No FIV" policy is a turn-off.

but if and only if the guy goes about it in the right manner. I can't think of any woman who enjoys a guy just ramming his fingers into an unstimulated, ie DRY pussy. I don't own a pussy myself but it certainly sounds uncomfortable at best and extremely painful at the worst to me.

But you seem correct as to the why not.
Guys might start with one finger then the next thing you know they're fisting the broad. Then it turns into a WTF moment.
It's not my style... but that's me.

Finger play is best left to the clitoris, or softly stroking the outer labia. I know there are guys who wanna find her G spot with the finger hooking motion, but I havent found many women who really enjoy being prodded by digits.  
Ive always had better success with staying outside, with varying pressures and motions....and most of all patience, and devotion to finding what makes her motor hum.

YMMV.  I get a professional manicure once a week, keeping my nails on the short side and they are always immaculately clean.  I have had many providers allow FIV who's profiles and reviews said it was a no-go.  Many that take if off their menu do so after a unhygienic customer transferred a nail fungus to their pussy and they lost a week or two of work time while it was treated.

I have seen very few woman who seem to enjoy and allow it. I always have my nails short, cuticles trimmed and I moisturize my hands so they're soft. I always ask if there's a problem and no lady has been able to explain why they find it   uncomfortable. I personally feel that FIV is an integral part of DATY.

Suzee, any plans on visiting the DC area? LOL

You sound slyly like you may be my kinda guy...ie a one man spit roast, yummy.  No on DC but you will find me conveniently located at the Atlanta Airport, as they say you have go  thru ATL to get anywhere, just call ahead for a memorable layover.
Suzee

When you get there and start to move into the right position, just ask.  

Yes, I'd love to meet you, I think we'd have a great time. Unfortunately, my living situation prevents me from flying down to ATL - would raise too many suspicions!

mmmmm...with bated breath

...and simply tolerate it for the sake of their partner/client. I personally dislike it and have been told by many sex workers that they will allow it for the enjoyment of the client, assuming that he/she has proper hygiene. It's interesting because I've had many sex partners attempt to try it on me, some rather aggressively, and I had to gently shut them down. Live and learn, lol.

that failed to compliment me on my digital and tongue work, both hookers and Civvie women.  Like a lot of things, if its mediocre, they can take it or leave it, or as you say, take it if they are getting  paid.  When I'm repeating with hookers, its usually them that initiate the idea of FIV on subsequent dates.  Not trying to toot my own horn, just reporting the facts.

Personally, I never got that anyway.

Are the farm girls that spent their teenage years being fucked by horses.  Lol

I stay away from it.  To this day I fell like a klutz with FIV.  Female anatomy is a mysterious and wonderful thing.  There have been a few, very few times I have been invited in, and that’s ok.

In addition to the stimulation, I find it useful and both a making sure there are no warts and be making sure that it will be nice and tight. I have found that some girls do not do enough Keagle exercises and I am A little disappointed in those instances.

Thats what draws me to these boards like a moth to a flame .....seriously, where else kind you find this kind of abject honesty?

First: not every woman enjoys G-spot stimulation.  It can feel very uncomfy to some.    
Second: too many people don't know what they're doing in that area so it just feels like getting probed by aliens.  (no offense intended to any aliens lol)  

with proper hygiene, a gentle touch, and a little lube to get things started; a woman (pro or civvie) has never objected to my pussy massaging skills.

So Cosmo magazine recently did an article basically taking back everything they have ever tried to sell us about the G-Spot.

Squirting is a later (not sure what the latest thing is) fake Shangri-La., much searched for, never found.

I definitely have and have videos on an account on a famous cam site only for fans (OF) ...

My personal experience is that the individual does not get a manicure on the regular & their nails scrap the vagina that can cause bleeding, which is an obvious hazard. Also, to ruff is not always fun it can hurt & be painful. I like to instruct to go slow & be gentle. I am glad you care enough to inquire. Sharing is caring.

Just skip the ones who have too many no’s. Problem solved

....in and out of the hobby I do NOT really enjoy FIV at least not for more than a minute.
 So...personally my having 'no' on my profile (well actually 'Touch Pussy on the outside') for FIV has nothing to do with just the guys lol.
Gloves, no gloves with cut & clean nails, no matter the technique or how much of an expert the 'giver' thinks they are I'm not cumming from FIV.  I do get off from g-spot stimulation in combination with clitoral stimulation tho if penetrated with a penis OR a vibrating toy tho.  
For some women g-spot stimulation just either does nothing for them OR it's even painful (yes, painful) sex worker or not.

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I started reading the comments after I just made my own post I was looking to see if you commented lol (since in your case all of your partners are women (i'm personally Polysexual but I digress)).
When in civvie situations especially and female sex partners gear up to insert digits and I stop them I get the confused Pikachu face lmfao.  

Microaggression toward aliens.

Your nipple play is to die for hehe

Good article! Really funny chasing the elusive blue spot, had me LMAO!!

and yes, of course I am joking. lol

I don't know.

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