I wonder sometimes if the ladies knows, what we go thru in order to arrange a date, seems to me that majority of the time, they thought, that it is so simple, piece of cake, like they post their ads, galleries, contacts and references requirements, donations and always cite their star ratings and outstanding reviews, which really their ace on the hole, besides their selected photos. I believed they don't realized how torturous the process is, puts you in some kind of level of survival if you can handle it. example.

The Search: Pete"s excited, check your budget/bank account and ask are we going luxury, top of the line, casual, sports occasion, or fast food. and decide, black tie, budget is no issue, you click elites, first one excited I want her, she's hot, check her profile, reviews, and all the requirements then boom, a line that says please make sure you read everything before you contact me, whoops, ok, ok, ok go back to the top and starts reading every words written in the ads, make sure don't miss anything including all the legal disclaimers and this is only the first lady, by the time you get to third one, your eyes wide shut, bloody, teary and close to blindness, what a freakin torture. and then finally decided.

The Request: What ever her requirement are, you have to be absolutely sure it is the proper one you don't want to be declined by using the wrong contact form, whether email, text, call or other means references, handles, donations instruction, where to place them, envelopes, tables, in sight etc, etc, Then make sure you check, double, multiple check and when everything is complete, index fingers shaking press send ding and down on your knees, hands claps together and pray please, please respond soon please.

The Confirmation & Details: Ding, request approved, so excited, jumping, fist pumping, yealing loud, yes, yes we got a date, yeah, sweet, then you start to wonder how you will, you dress up, tie, no tie, flowers, drinks, candies, chocolate, you go back check her profile again, her favorites and what to bring or not to bring, decisions, decisions, WTF

The Drive: Ok Pete we have to get ready, make sure you are clean, spiffy, scrub all over you know, lady said hygiene is a must, you don't want to embarrass yourself in front of the lady you know, then Pete keeps bothering you, are we there yet, are we there yet, ok calm down Pete, I'm making sure, everything is secure, safe & private make sure no LE hanging out in the area, check and avoid where the survielance cameras if you can, suspicious people, come on, come on let's go, ok, ok, at this point your heart beats going faster and faster, butterflies in the stomach and Pete's starts to have combination of anxiety and excitement attack, threading to an unknown and starts to go into shrinking mode.

And finally the WHOA & WOW effect: Knock, knock, door opens and when you get a WHOA effect, not what you expect to see, you say Miss do you have a aspirin I just develop this massive headache, I'm sorry but this is my donation for your time thanks and see you later and swoos out of there. But if you get the WOW effect Petes jumps out from it shell like a hungry eel that saw a prey.

These are just a few stages that we go thru every time, and sometimes I wonder if the ladies knew all these and intensionally doing these to weed out some, make us go thru an obstacles or make us supper a little to identify that a gentlemen is really sincere to make all those efforts and get rewarded makes the dates more furfilling, Just asking..

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For instance, only seldom does reading the ads result in my having to close my and wrap a bandage of blindfold around them because of profuse bleeding. But yes, getting approved and a date and time set can be exciting, and afterwards it can be hard to concentrate on anything else.

Driving and finding the address and dealing with the 2-call can be hectic.

But I think the woman at the other end has a pretty good idea of what I'm going through. She's got a lot to do to get ready, so I doubt if she wrings her hands much worrying about my plight. What amazes me, is when sometimes they actually spend time before the session checking my profiles and thinking about what I might enjoy before I get there.

Then, at other times, it really isn't much trouble at all and I hardly think about the appointment ahead of time. I allow plenty of time to get ready, relax before heading off by opening a puzzle magazine of a whodunit and set the alarm to remind me that I've got plans.

When meeting in a hotel, I unwind in the lounge with a cocktail while waiting for her to text the room number.

The whole idea is to keep it as easy as possible, and to enjoy the anticipation as part of the experience I'm affording myself.

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...you give us all a bad name.

I live a charmed life now seeing as I am on my own but back when I had the wife and kids around it was planning the time and the alibis that was the killer.

If I had that all set up and then the gal cancelled, it meant going back to square one and starting all over.

Fortunately, that didn't happen too often as I saw a relatively small number of gals who were very good to me in those terms.

I also was lucky as I did my hobbying mostly during the work days, and that was before cell phones and tablets that ensure you are in constant contact with the office.  Also my work responsibilities took me out of the office and into the field more often than not, so that made it easy to duck into an incall here and there.

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Working with a limited time for hobbying makes me want to make sure that I have the best experience possible so I spend quite a bit of time planning my encounters with prostitutes. It is often half the fun of the experience, much like the time people spend planning a vacation. I would consider it to be part of the foreplay.

I could have not only made a date with a hottie, but gone on it as well.

Somehow, I don't see hookers having a lot of sympathy for him, nor many johns feeling empathy.

I can only wonder how badly he'd be whining if he had to go back to getting pussy the old fashioned way?

verbally or through email acknowledge the "trouble" ??? I went  through to make an appointment or to thank me for my patronage. To answer your question, I would say no, they don't.

... mtdewking2015's brother?  

Your butchering of the English grammar and lots of misspellings reminds me of mtdewking2015

Mostly takes an email, human behavior, and reasonable expectations is all that takes.

Never have gone through any of the crap you have listed in 10 plus years of hobby

so the answer to his question from your perspective is no?

you're overthinking it.

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Aaron Rodgers said, "R-E-L-A-X" and I'll add, "ENJOY".

case I hate Pete.  I have to make the arrangements, I pay, I get us there and the little fucker gets to have all the fun, what's up with that?

.... yeaaahhhh ....

useless post just like your first one.

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