I would think that any man who would have to pay a hooker to go on a vacation trip with him is very needy.  
   
Why doesn't the guy just take a friend?  Do they have any friends?    
 
Many of the girls can't stand their tricks but tolerate them because the job pays more than working at the cosmetics counter in the mall. Can't the needy guys see this?

if you keep making me agree with you.  Can't guys just have sex and not need to buy themselves a pretend girlfriend?  I see it a lot in Central America, too.  Fat, old men walking around holding hands with hookers young enough to be their grand-daughters and looking like the cat that swallowed the canary.  When in fact they are just a wallet pig and the young lady is only thinking about the cash she's getting and hoping he finishes quickly so she can shower him off her.
Now, I don't mind taking a hooker I like to dinner wherever I happen to be.  And I'm happy to pay for her dinner.  I just won't pay to watch her eat it.  I've even thought, a time or two, of taking a girl on a vacation in Costa Rica.  But it would have to be a local girl and the price for her time would be damn low.  I haven't done it yet.

Some ladies you don't mind spending more than one hour with. It's an extension of the fantasy. Why NOT????

That is so untrue. I have had the best vacations and most memorable times with clients. Yes, they are paying me for my time but the desire to both have a good time and be shown a good time is strong on both sides. I have often said that Ive met the best men as clients. Out in the civilian world men are basically lazy. I rarely if ever get taken on vacation. Mostly I get taken for granted which is why I don date much. Ive been spoiled by clients whose desire to please me with shopping spa days and pampering, Champagne breakfasts and surprises.  
Then we go to the main stream, guys which really dont try that hard. I get fed up. Im thinking, why should I fuck you for free and invest my time with you all the while you have no idea how well my clients treat me and spoil me. Meh..... I stay single.

because they can't or don't want to have sex with their friends.  

and this is the SECOND time in as many posts that I too have agreed with him.

for her time, but for all the other accommodations, I say good on him.  At the end of life's journey all that material stuff doesn't mean anything - not the size of your bank account, not how many or what kind of cars you have, etc.  Whether your rich or poor - 6 feet under is still 6 feet under.  

I NEVER pay for their time, only their expenses.  These are usually regulars or outside girlfriends that have plenty of other ways to get money off of me in their respective roles.  Lol

Because they want to take someone on vacation. Someone they can have a NSA trip and sex with. They can also afford it. Why do you care again?

... from a few providers, including my ATF... that is, that most of their clients treat them better than their boyfriends/SOs ever did.

If the poor lonely guy just wanted sex and was going to Europe he could get all the sex he wants legally from the beautiful Euro-babe escorts.

I would argue that the clients who opt to take an escort on vacation are not needy, rather they can just afford it.  

Are you in a fraternity? Because then there would be a lot of lonely men here who have been "paying for friends" for decades.  

You're telling me that any man who gets an escort is lonely and stupid and paying for friendship- that includes you. They do it because they can. I'm going on a trip next week with a client. He isn't stupid or lonely. He's simply admired me for months and wants to finally meet. It's all about fantasy and wanting to treat a woman to a nice time while having fun with her and enjoying yourself.

She was looking quite good.  But don't worry, I didn't fuck her.

I was going to take a trip to Europe by myself. I've done a lot of traveling, but almost always by myself, as there hasn't been anyone else I'd want to spend that much time with. Not my ex, not my best friend.

Who she is fucking is hardly worth worrying about, even an old goat fucker like you.

Seriously dude, it's their business. I'm sure you wouldn't want them sticking their nose into your business. Don't sweat it and get yourself a sweet honey to take occupy your time.

Why do some guys pay for me to piss on them? Why yuck anyone's yum.

Right? I also like most of my clients. I screen to avoid the ones I might hate!  

I took a provider to Vegas three years ago. Had a great time. Although I don't see her anymore the memories are great. A shame I can't see her anymore. Oh well. I might be taking my new provider to Florida this year.

and likely to be the best answer EVER. lol

Yes, I'm needy. Or was.

So what the Hell? Might as well go take a provider on vacation. You can't money with you when you die. So might as well enjoy life.

We only live  once!

Not everyone has as a GF or a FWB.  Perhaps that is why they are in the "hobby" to begin with, so their only option is to take a favorite provider with them as a traveling companion.  

...then don't spend the money.

Well-espoused, and I couldn't agree more!!
Again, Ms. Tantraerica, BRAVISSIMO!  

Who really knows -- boredom, lack of a live of their own, just pompous asses, well-meaning do gooder?

With the right person and for the right place.  I like traveling and don't do it enough.

when you take a provider on Vacation with you
              than when you take your wife with you.

Several thoughts. Many gentlemen travel to exotic countries for sex vacations. What's the difference between that, and inviting an escort to the exotic country? Either way you get to have a lot of sex. Plus, I can still chase exotic pussy, and do doubles.

No sex, no blow job, no kissing, no DATY, no anal, pretty much NO NOTHING.  

A lot of the guys here seem to see providers almost solely for sex. I'm sure there's others like me who see them for sex, but also just for the feel, the scent, the look, and the overall attraction of a woman.

If it is for just a few days maybe yes if the me and the provider have good chemistry.  I will pay a sugar babe rate of $600 to $800 a day. For long vacation no. I will get a provider to come to my room for outcall.  

EACH TO HIS OWN!  

You are contrasting escort relationships negatively compared to "real" girlfriend or spousal relationships.  You are not cynical enough.  Some lucky dudes have wives they love to be around for weeks on end.  I think this is not so common.   Consider that 50% of marriages end in divorce rape of the husband.  And girlfriend ... the reason they are girlfriends and not wives is because their shelf life is probably a few months to a few years.

Ask and post the most inane stuff ?

...and true!

You have a point. Why not wait till they arrive at their destination before taking one of the local girls? Or better yet, why not book reservations at a sex resort where the escort actually works for the resorts, and get tested regularly. Many caribbean islands have them, most notably the Dominican Republic. The only exception would be if they're going on a cruise ship, then they may need to take the escort along with them from their place of departure, unless the cruise ship hires on board escorts which I don't say it's impossible, it's just that I've literally never heard of that. Wouldn't be a bad business idea though, after all, they wouldn't have to worry about any legal issues because when you're out at sea, the captain's word is law.

After we cum, so who the hell is paying for a vacation!!.  I can't think of a more horrible time than shopping for shoes and handbags with some money grubbing chick.  Are you constantly in his wallet or scheming how to milk this sucker out of his cash?  I'll pass on you too... But is I ever need a 30 minute HJ...

Any place I want to visit...if it's a place like Myrtle beach, no thanks.  If it's somewhere like San Francisco or Hawaii sign me up!

Seriously though I've often wondered about this and it's certainly not needy men who want to vacation with me, it's men with a high level of disposable income, who don't want the stress and fear of a girlfriend/ mistress, but who want to spend time with someone they trust, like, lust for and will have a guaranteed good time with on many levels that ends when it ends.
Why is that so hard to understand? I'm very well educated, not just avoiding a job in the mall as one charmer put it, I can chat and laugh about any topic, offer therapy both mental and physical, enjoy wine and dining with a client, participate in sport, sailing, surfing, skiing and enjoy a mans company.
The men who book me aren't concerned about my fee and are looking for considerably more than multiple pops into some downtrodden Central American girl young enough to be their granddaughter - but hey if that's all you can afford good luck to you..........

Even if you take a girlfriend on vacation, it's just like taking a hooker on vacation. Either way you're going to pay for it.

Now I will agree to a certain extent but here's a little input:

I was engaged to a millionaire when I was 23 and (later found out he was 63 and not 43).

People who call providers are not stupid or lonely. They just don't want to deal with the regular BS of dating.

I have a couple of Hobby buddies where we keep it as friends only. I pay my own way. Just the company.

Exactly! It's not just about the sex - though it is fun. It's about the connection, the adventure, and the FUN! I want my companion to be smiling and laughing as often as possible. It's a break for my client from the business and the mundane. They get to be with someone who holds no judgements and is just there for them. I think another reason I get asked to travel often is because of my thoughts on traveling.  

...K-girls.  An "indie" as they're called on the K-board, won't go away with you for a weekend OTC even if you're a regular.  A K-girl, however, won't mind the OTC because she gets a chance to get away from the apartment she's been cooped up in six days a week, twelve or more hours a day.

Some guys just love misery ...ever see the wives at Walmart?
I see them and think, "Some poor bastard is married to that."

Id also like to add that just because I dont offer an hourly rate does not mean that Im not DTF or like my pussy eaten. Gas, Grass or ASS - I read the rules. Why do you have to be so mean? At the end of the day Im still a provider. I just dont want to offer it all up to anyone that has the cash. But you can bet your ass that if we hit it off and I agree to go on vacation with you; This NSA experience is mutually beneficial or why bother on either end.

...A guy who wants to take her on vacation most likely has seen her before and knows her limitations so he must be taking her for other reasons.  Just because you, I, and 99% of hobbyists wouldn't take a masseuse on vacation doesn't mean there aren't some guys who would take her.  

She's Massage, and it's Awesome.

and being an asshole and I'm not referring to the taint.

I have never been married, so I have never had to obtain a hall pass.  Glad this guy did, though.  

The OP was talking about the foolishness of taking a "hooker" on vacation. I still maintain that if it's foolish to pay a hooker to vacation with you, then it's several times more foolish to pay "masseuse", a masseuse" who gets close to hooker rates no less, on vacation with you.

When I have the time and when I Know I have the resources. I don't need the hobby, I just enjoy it and women of  ladies I met are pretty cool.

Ok, if she likes you "A LOT".

but that you go further with guys you click with?  

I couldn't agree more with you London. Well said.

As for your question,  i offer the theory the guy is pussy blind and cant think clearly.

Would you take your annoying friend who will drink themselves to the point of staying at the hotel all day long with a 24 hour hangover, leaving you without an activity partner so that you can bore yourself to death? Would you take your boring wife that's just going to spend all day talking to her friends on her cellphone while complaining about every single damn thing stopping you from having fun on your vacation? Would you take your over needy kids for you have to stay on daddy duty 24\7 no fun for yourself?  

When I think back on my one mini-vacation with a provider, I don't think about the sex--which was great. I remember debating with her over a long candlelit dinner about politics, religion, and science. About a wonderful day walking around a park.  About laughing our guts out watching a silly classic movie. About cuddling in bed late at night talking about life, love, and the Universe. I learned a lot about her on that trip, what an amazing person she is, and she learned a lot about me.  It was the most fun I've had in a long time.

One man's misery is another man's joy. Some men aren't just looking for a quickie. I know because I've never offered them and if you look I've been doing this for a while. People seek companionship for a variety of reasons.  Some men enjoy the pleasure of a woman's company AS WELL AS an amazing blowjob, massage, sexy time. Some just want to have NSA sex - in and out. There is a lid for every pot!

Because hookers are people...and like all people you may or may not have a connection with them and want to spend more time with them.  If you all thought of hookers as people rather than holes to get your dicks  wet with that would likely eliminate the majority of stupid questions.

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