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Re: I'll elaborate...
Zak0326 33 Reviews 733 reads
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P411 gives a free six month trial for clients who have reviews who never used the site. I don't think Date Check does that. That's why I am on P411.

 
If you Google Preferred 411 Free 6 Month Membership it comes up with everything you need to do to meet the requirements.  

They aren't giving you membership unless people vouch for you so it's not like you can do this based off a personality. You do get screened by them.
 
Posted By: Assholias
The biggest complaint that Date-Check members have is that customer service can take a while to get back to you.  I think if they were making more money they could hire an extra person to keep up with this one issue.  The second biggest complaint is that they have profiles for ladies no longer working.  Again, more money means another person to track which providers are still working.    
   
 Complaints against P411:  
 1) Gina now requires us to not only have a banner on our front page but a text link on our contact page or she'll remove our website from our profiles. Ohhh and we have to pay $10 to have our site reviewed.  
   
 2) Gina does not allow us to make a complaint that will show on a member's profile for serious offenses such as attempted BBFS or shorting money. If there is an issue she treats the providers like drama queens and has kicked providers off her site for asking for the removal of a member that crossed serious boundaries.  
   
 3) She claims that our listings are free but it costs $20 to place a visiting ad and hundreds of dollars for premium placements.  
   
 4) I placed Web-Stat coding on my site to give me accurate website statistics.  My top 10 referrers do not include P411 in spite of having paid for several visiting ads this month. My P411 ads cost more than all other advertisements with the exception of Eros and didn't make the top 10.  Eros on the other hand, number 3, with TER and BP at 1 & 2.  Date-Check was at number 7 (but free touring ads).  
   
 5) There are many reports of P411 being infiltrated by LE in cities all over the country over the years.  I do not recall that being the issue at Date-Check but admit that it is possible.  
   
 6) Date-Check allows us to "rate" our experience with a client instead of just a generic okay.  
   
 7) The staff/owner at Date-Check has never been condescending in correspondence whereas it's Gina's tone every single day.  
   
 8) Date-Check isn't asking providers for their government issued ID and face pics.  
   
 I urge you hobbyists to help us providers to take a stand against P411 and move with us to Date-Check.  Put your money into a site that cares about all of its customers, not just the males.  Without us ladies, P411 is nothing and it's time she remembers that.  You can request a 90 day free trial for Date-Check from your favorite provider.
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GaGambler 588 reads
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and I am not hiding behind an alias to bash someone. Not to mention "ripoff report" is about as reliable as the NBL where is comes to posting lies about legitimate businesses.

Sorry, but your opinion about P 411 doesn't mean squat to me. Considering this is your very first post under this alias your credibility is non existent.

As a paying, very active whoremonger and satisfied paid member of P 411, I vehemently disagree with you. Assuming you even are a hooker, no one is forcing you to do business with P 411, but as a very happy customer who has found that P 411 has made screening a breeze I will tell you that if any hooker only on Date-check won't ever be likely to get an appointment from me. I use P 411 for well over 90% of my dates. It has become my default "go to" place right along with TER.

Zak0326 33 Reviews 676 reads
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They contacted three providers who I saw and they oked me. That gave me a free six month membership.  

Posted By: devindavette
Please tell me you needed more then 'reviews'.  
   
   
 Date-check offers a free trail as well fyi.

wrps07 474 reads
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p411 did not have a lifetime membership option like date-check. If this is true date-check is much cheaper over the long run.

bbfs4ever 408 reads
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You are the prostitute who whined about this on the FCKTER Twitter account today.

Go and whine somewhere else.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 482 reads
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You know how to reach me if you care to know...

Steph xoxo

BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 578 reads
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...Gina wants us to put a link on our appointment forms.  I already have their logo on my home page, and I have a place for P411 gentlemen to enter their id on my form.

   I screen heavily, and would never rely on okays to allow a gentleman to share time with me.  My bio on P411 includes the disclaimer, that gentlemen must forward their name as it appears on their driver's license, and place of employment.  

  I believe, having a link on my appointment form, would give gentlemen the impression, that additional screening is not required.

  I know, I know; many gentlemen do not like to part with their personal information, but I continue to do very well, with those that do.  Thankfully, having a man's (he was not gentleman) true name, etc, saved my butt this week; and not because he was LE.  

  I rarely read this board, as it always appears to a train wreck waiting to happen, but I was alerted to the comments, and thought I would contribute my thoughts.

Warm regards,
Kelly

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 458 reads
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You can get on both sites, with provider member okays. No screening necessary.

davincib1 96 Reviews 407 reads
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I have been hobbying for quite awhile now, so maybe my 2 cents adds to the pro side of 411. I preface this by saying that I haven't yet tried Date-Check. Before when I was just using TER and would try to arrange a meeting with a potential provider I would run into a lot of problems, sending reference info, follow up emails like "what number/name will she remember you by" etc. Since joining P411, I haven't had to send so much as a phone number and have had no trouble scheduling and making appointments.  I'm sure they will upgrade some of the user criteria and a little more than an "okay" will be optional, but it has made my hobbying much easier than compared to the TER alone model: Whitelisting, sending reference info, PMs etc. P411 is good to go in my book. Maybe it's just a personal thing that has the poster of this thread a little sour. But I hope the two of you can get it resolved.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 453 reads
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But I feel this move is strong arming the ladies to push P411 more on our websites whether we like it or not.

Steph xoxo

hbyist+truth=;( 491 reads
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I will never rely on some shebitch's site for my screening, as it seems she does not really screen but is all about collecting personal info on the ladies.  

Yep, the OP is dead on and if the hookers start to jump ship, oh well. I will not ever deal with that site again. They have had cops infiltrate and she does dick, so safety for the hookers is a way down the line after thought.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 419 reads
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Credible than assholias. I have heard nothing but good things about p411 and I have referred a number of new providers there. Should I stop doing that?  I think date check sucks. I am a lifetime member there, only because someone told me it was a good site and their lifetime membership was cheap. Since joining I have found it useless and I have never actually used it. P411 on the other hand has been a great site. If there is something weird going on, we should know about it, but not from some alias with zero credibility.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 365 reads
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Have a lifetime membership but you have to have been a member in good standing for a certain amount of time before they offer it to you. It is also a lot pricier than date-check. But date-check still sucks donkey balls.

BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 319 reads
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Posted By: MatureGFE
But I feel this move is strong arming the ladies to push P411 more on our websites whether we like it or not.  
   
 Steph xoxo

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 409 reads
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So that's what they are getting. Some ladies want more and they are free to ask for more as Kelly does. Gina actually recommends that providers do not rely solely on P411.

hbyist+truth=;( 386 reads
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I bailed when she allowed a guy to remain after he forced BBFS and tried to choke out someone I know. She reported him but she got dissed and he still remains. I will not support any site that pretends to protect the ladies but then does shit like that.

GaGambler 382 reads
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Now I do understand that just like TER this is partly a regional issue, but Date-Check is completely worthless where I live and I most likely wouldn't join for free. Of course in all fairness, TER is hardly the dominant board in my current area (Texas) and if it were not for the fact that I have so many friends (and enemies) here, and if I were a newbie looking to join a review board, TER would most likely not be my first choice if I were joining strictly for the reviews

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 422 reads
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My reply wasn't to you. :-)

Steph

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hbyist+truth=;( 428 reads
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Well it doesn't it seems, just a couple of hooker references. I can get those..."yeah I saw him" bullshit references too.  

I don't much care as I do all my own screening and do not count on a third party for my safety

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 542 reads
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It has to be from providers who are on p411. Not just some fake provider with a "web presense." For a provider to get on p411, she has to have 3 reviews, or be referred by a member in good standing.  

As far as "supposed to be getting real info/I'd/work info," etc, says who? It has always been an either/or thing. Real info OR provider references which is exactly the same as MOST providers' screening.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 451 reads
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And maybe Assholias doesn't want any backlash from run and tell it types. Check and see how many ladies have their websites on their profiles on P411 right now...

Just saying.

Steph xoxo

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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 390 reads
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Any provider with half a brain who wanted to know could easily go through the steps of signing up as a client to see what was required. Not to mention it has been discussed here on TER a thousand times.

1705218 10 Reviews 487 reads
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So you are admittedly just trying to slander Gina just to spark a conversation on a cesspool board. My aren't you a sweetheart

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 270 reads
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FatVern 371 reads
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NumNumMan 434 reads
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"6) Date-Check allows us to "rate" our experience with a client instead of just a generic okay. "

This is news to me. Can you elaborate? Not that I am upset, because I have had plenty of ladies quickly confirm me simply based on my Date-Check listing. I guess that means "she likes me.

hbyist+truth=;( 408 reads
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and the guys are good to go? And that is how they screen? You placed ALL in caps...does that mean they do on clients that have no references? Then how the heck does it help a hooker with screening?  

Way back in the beginning I read they did get real info, maybe that has changed. Shit that site has changed so much that it might as well be another TER

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 371 reads
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They get real info OR they get 2 okays from P411 providers. Like I said, try creating an account as a client and see for yourself.  
And what do you mean "That is how how they screen?" Like it's a bad thing? That is how MOST providers screen. If you want more do your own thing (which obviously you do). P411 tells their providers to do additional screening.

Sage of Chicago See my TER Reviews 441 reads
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Actually Gina forces us to ok guys as long as we saw them, they are allowed to short us, be rough with us, and attempt BBFS and still get an ok as per Gina's policy.

Date-Check on the other hand has 3 ways you can give an Ok.  Highly recommend, Recommend, and Do not recommend.  So if there was an issue the provider seeking the ok can now got the single Do not Recommend and find out what the issue was.  OOr she can see that everyone gave you Highly recommend.  

On P411 you see the ok only, there is no room for notes and the guy may be a problem but have alot of Ok's because providers listed there are required to give them or Gina will delist that provider for not giving the ok.

GaGambler 358 reads
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If you think TER is a cesspool, Gina is a cunt, and P 411 is a place you don't want anything to do with, then why not use your real fake name?

You and some of the other hookers seem to forget that just like with TER it's us guys that pay the freight both here and there. You are more than free to start a site of your own more slanted towards the needs of the ladies, but if the guys won't play ball it's all for naught. I find it hugely ironic that the women still think the "sellers" can make all these DEMANDS from the buyers without the buyers simply moving on to more motivated sellers. It's not rocket science, it's simple business sense. I make it as easy as possible for my clients to give me money, I expect the same in return when I am the buyer. Somehow you hookers seem to have gotten this business concept backwards, where guys have to "apply" in order to pay you several hundred dollars per hour. That may work with some guys, but I am not about to "beg to pay for pussy" In all fairness I am not about to "beg to pay" for anything

hbyist+truth=;( 413 reads
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No bitch is going to force me to okay a trick that was rough so another hooker has to deal with that.  

I expect that sort of assholish nonsense from a guy who owns a site but when  woman does it, it makes it that much worse. She is highly repugnant and a blight. She has zero concerns about a hookers safety and is all about making money.  

I am all about making money but if the day ever came where I was putting someone in danger or not caring about those who pay me, someone freaking shoot me. She absolutely disgusts me and the fact that she is a woman makes want to take her out to the woodshed and teach her a freaking lesson.

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FatVern 471 reads
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If p411 tells the providers to do their own additional screening, why would a client need a p411 account? :-D

This has been my issue with p411 for some time now. Although it's not p411's doing it's the providers who still want more info/references. IMO, this stipulation makes p411 useless except for advertising purposes.  
Posted By: perfectstorm
They get real info OR they get 2 okays from P411 providers. Like I said, try creating an account as a client and see for yourself.  
 And what do you mean "That is how how they screen?" Like it's a bad thing? That is how MOST providers screen. If you want more do your own thing (which obviously you do). P411 tells their providers to do additional screening.

gatorjimmy 34 Reviews 369 reads
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I know providers who have contacted Gina to remove Oks cause they were telling other providers they did BBFS and Gina removed the OK

hbyist+truth=;( 477 reads
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Sage of Chicago See my TER Reviews 436 reads
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Gina will not remove an ok, and she will remove you from her site if you do not comply.  The only way she will remove an Ok is if you claim you have not seen the guy.  It can be years ago and you are still told to give the current ok.  You can tell Gina that a guy shorted you, or did numerous other things and she still insists on you oking them.  So what you are saying is incorrect.  You are NOT a provider so you have no idea aside from second hand information that you can't know for 100% if it is true.  I am telling you my experience.  You as a member would have no idea about this because she only gets all over our butts about stuff.  I already pulled my P411, do not care for that site and no longer accept it

AngelinaDDD See my TER Reviews 338 reads
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I have refused several requests  for an okay and I have declined, with no backlash from P411.  You can definitely decline a request.

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Sage of Chicago See my TER Reviews 403 reads
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she only allowed me to decline guests I had never seen.  When I told her that it had been to long ago(YEARS) I could not give an ok, she told me that as long as I had visited I was required to give the ok.  Another time I was shorted, told I still had to give the ok same as another mentioned and that it was my fault for not counting the $.  Another asked repetitively for BBFS, I told her I did not want to furnish an ok because of that and she said that as long as I saw him I was required to give the Ok.  Those are her words to me.  Have heard much worse but of course that was word of mouth

Evidently you have had a better and different experience then I did.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 428 reads
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And he is sweet and one of the nice guys here.  

Why don't you try enlightening him rather than being the yappy one?  But on the bright side you once again showed people what a bully and all out nasty person you are.

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AngelinaDDD See my TER Reviews 448 reads
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That is my experience with her, she has also backed me on several other occasions, including collecting a cancelation fee.  I deal a lot with P411, and up until now, have never had a problem with them.  What she is doing now, I don't agree with, but her site.  I don't agree with a lot of TER policy, but not my site.  It is, what it is. We have the option to leave or the option to stay

Sage of Chicago See my TER Reviews 386 reads
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do business so I walked away from it....  Not worth it for me.  Perhaps if she changes things I might be back but there would have to be alot of changes for me too....  I just do not and have not trusted the site for a while.  

I am glad you are having a different experience from it, different things work for different people.  Perhaps you will make bigger bank now from it since so many ladies are leaving the site like I have.  To each there own.  I prefer to completely own my site and my business....  

Personally I have not issues with TER even though I do not accept whitelists, when I had P411 I didn't accept those either and still needed everything.  Not taking chances with a site who takes the kind of chances that Gina takes

GinaXXX 771 reads
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1. Ohhh and we have to pay $10 to have our site reviewed.  

***It's actually 10 P411 points to have your site reviewed. Which, in case you weren't aware isn't the type of money I can take to the bank.  Providers get points for things like giving Okays, and even denying Okays. As well as referring clients, reporting bugs on the site, etc. They can also purchase points if need be, at up to a 25% discount if buying in bulk.  

Oh and we automatically refund the 10 points you are upset about, to every provider who doesn't make a huge production out of the website approval process.....

   
 2)If there is an issue she treats the providers like drama queens and has kicked providers off her site for asking for the removal of a member that crossed serious boundaries.  

***I only treat the drama queens like drama queens. I won't be bullied and I have zero tolerance for liars and bullshit. If I remove a provider for making a false report on a alient, you can be sure that I had very good information to back that decision.
   
 3) She claims that our listings are free but it costs $20 to place a visiting ad and hundreds of dollars for premium placements.  

***Provider home listings are free, and any upgrades are paid with points. Only about 2% of providers on P411 pay any real money (ever) for their account/listing on the site.
   
 4) I placed Web-Stat coding on my site to give me accurate website statistics.  My top 10 referrers do not include P411 in spite of having paid for several visiting ads this month. My P411 ads cost more than all other advertisements with the exception of Eros and didn't make the top 10.  Eros on the other hand, number 3, with TER and BP at 1 & 2.  Date-Check was at number 7 (but free touring ads).  

***Due to the fact that P411 is a SSL encrypted site, you are unlikely to see any traffic coming from us, at all.
   
 5) There are many reports of P411 being infiltrated by LE in cities all over the country over the years.  I do not recall that being the issue at Date-Check but admit that it is possible.  

***I have always posted notices on the site, whenever there has been an issue. We are the only site, that I am aware of, that has even been upfront with these occurrences. These things do happen, every where, on every site, and if you think any site is immune you are just fooling yourself. We are just much more open about it than most, which sometimes backfires. ;)
   
 6) Date-Check allows us to "rate" our experience with a client instead of just a generic okay.  

***I prefer to know when there is a real problem with someone on the site, so it can be handled appropriately. Sometimes it's drama (imo) and sometimes it's serious (imo), but either way I want to be aware of everything that is going on.
   
 7) The staff/owner at Date-Check has never been condescending in correspondence whereas it's Gina's tone every single day.  

***Dealing with whining, complaining and just plain crazy/drunk/high/confused providers every day is stressful and not fun a lot of the time. I am up front about that. However, it also makes me really appreciate the providers who have a good head on their shoulders, and who are capable of dealing with me (and their clients) in a professional manner. The good news is that those provider are the majority.... albeit usually silent because they have better things to do than screech about their problems on social media all day long.
   
 8) Date-Check isn't asking providers for their government issued ID and face pics.  

*** We are committed to being sure that we do not allow any children onto P411. If other sites don't wish to take those steps, that's their business. However, we are not going to expose ourselves, or our members, like that.

Always,
Gin

escalade1964 65 Reviews 487 reads
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I will go on the sites I want and book with who I want, when I want.
Most ladies are on many.
I certainly do not care which one they are on when making my date decision.  
They do not seem to care which site I am on when requesting a date

GinaXXX 488 reads
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Posted By: Sage of Chicago
 
 Actually Gina forces us to ok guys as long as we saw them, they are allowed to short us, be rough with us, and attempt BBFS and still get an ok as per Gina's policy.  
 
This is absolutely NOT TRUE.

We do ask for the reason that an Okay is being denied or removed, and as long as it is a legitimate reason (shorting, rough, bbfs attempt etc) it's not an issue at all.

If the Okay is being denied because the provider wants a 10/10 review posted first, wants a second appointment (just to be sure!), wanted a tip, etc..... she's going to be asked to take her business elsewhere because we don't play those games.

Always,
Gina

GaGambler 473 reads
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I suppose I should do it for real.

I don't care what a bunch of angry hookers with their own agendas have to say, I am a fan of your site and have ZERO intentions of dropping my membership without a LOT more evidence that has been presented today. P 411 has made my mongering life so much easier and screening a breeze.  

It would take the ladies leaving in droves to ever get me to consider dropping my membership and you being as popular as you are with the guys, the guys of course being the buyers, I doubt you are going lose many of the ladies, not when they start seeing how much business they lose by not being on your site. As I said earlier, you are my "go to" site when looking to book a session. I like one stop shopping and that is just what your site provides. As far as I am concerned, "keep up the good work"

FatVern 305 reads
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Posted By: MatureGFE
And he is sweet and one of the nice guys here.  
   
 Why don't you try enlightening him rather than being the yappy one?  But on the bright side you once again showed people what a bully and all out nasty person you are.

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MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 327 reads
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FatVern 407 reads
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Are you saying that none of the women you see from p411 never ask you for additional references on top of your p411 okays?

FatVern 373 reads
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... but it's a nicer way of saying GFY

GinaXXX 558 reads
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Thanks for the support, it's been a rough few days. :)

Change sucks, especially when the change is geared to improving P411 and not the advertiser.  I get that, and I'm try to make it as painless as possible.

For 11 years we linked to provider sites without ever requiring any links back. Some providers linked without being asked (THANK YOU!) and some didn't link back. This year, we decided to make a significant reciprocal link a requirement, which is a hassle for the providers.  

The 10 point required to submit the website for review is only intended to cut down the number of times that a provider will submit her site, before having the appropriate links. If it costs her a little something, she might take care in reading the requirements for approval first.

We are automatically refunding the 10 points to everyone who is approved without a lot of back and forth.

Obviously, I'm not able to please everyone.... but I do hear from a lot of providers privately who have absolutely no issue with this change too. They just don't tend to be as vocal as the ones who a pissed off about it!

Always,
Gin

GaGambler 344 reads
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I find it amusing about how much difficulty so many mongers have in scheduling P4P dates, I can usually find what I want in a few short minutes and I have very little problems searching in the morning for an afternoon date. It's downright laughable about how many problems other guys seem to have.

Yes, count me as a 100% fan of the site.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 276 reads
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Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret
And the more membership they get, the more they can do to clean their site up.  
   
 D-C's staff has always been amazingly courteous to me.  P411, not so much.    
   
 I had a client short me and asked Gina to just note his profile so that she could see if this became a pattern for him.  She told me it was my fault for not checking the donation before starting the session and refused to note anything.  
   
 So, when a lady insists that you leave your donation for her to check before you get down to business, you may be able to thank Gina for her part in telling providers that this is how they should run their business.  
   
 Edited to add:  On Date-Check, I could have just marked his profile "Warning, Do Not See" on my own.  
   
 And, yes, I did contact the person directly and ask for the amount he shorted me before contacting Gina, which he refused.

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USGrantlover 225 Reviews 325 reads
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The gals that have given me OK's are a ready source of additional reference by phone, email, text whatever. I NEVER have ladies ask for added references. Do they contact ladies on my OK list without telling me? Sure. All the time. Its just invisible to me.

Does this answer your question?

FatVern 314 reads
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Contacting the provider and providing a few references. That is when I feel like doing so.

Just like with many other services "the new guy" seems to offer the best service in town. They need to make a name for themselves, and they don't usually have anything hiding in the shadows which could possibly be used against them by an adversary.

USGrantlover 225 Reviews 385 reads
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Its rare I see someone who's not on P411. Joining P411 about 4 or 5 years ago was the best decision I ever made in this 'world.' While I can't opine from the ladies POV I'll say from my POV, keep up the good work as well! Thanks.

rembrnad0284 12 Reviews 432 reads
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... in fact, I had some very positive experiences with p411 which let me find who I wanted in my area and I guess at least in my case it worked so well that I don't need it anymore.  But if I do, based on my experience, I'd go back.  

Now like others here I suppose I am learning there are some providers who seem to have a problem with the new changes, changes I'm just learning of now, and I don't feel qualified to comment from their side of the coin, but from my standpoint as a guy who tries to be low maintenance to whomever I'm seeing and to P411 (who was also pretty darn helpful when I had some start up questions) I guess the bad vibes come as quite a surprise to me as I always saw P411 as the state of the art when it came to verification services.    

And like I said, I don't have a horse in this race as I'm no longer a customer... but like I said, my experiences were all good and I'd go back if I needed to dip my big toe into the water again.

rembrnad0284 12 Reviews 295 reads
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I'll stand up for coop any time... not that he needs me to.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 352 reads
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P411 is the best.  If you don't like it, do us a favor and leave.

FatVern 330 reads
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I AM CHEAP, and don't want to pay for membership fees in order to buy a service from a third party vendor. I would only be a customer of ANY SITE if my membership costs are waived.  

I know that's not the issue in this thread, but that's my issue.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 282 reads
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MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 345 reads
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You don't have to insult someone to take up for a lady! But it's SOOOO you!

Afro-desiac 308 reads
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I really don't like friction between us hookers but you seem toxic as hell.

Afro-desiac 299 reads
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Hell, he can't even put words in his own mouth!  What a knuckle-dragger. LULZ!

GaGambler 322 reads
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If you ladies indeed have legitimate issues with Gina, you picked a horrible spokeswoman to try to enlist the support of the guys. She is a complete unknown to us, she is an admitted TER hater, yet she comes on here asking for our support after insulting the forum she is posting on.

Why not pick a respected provider we all know to make your case? Or is it more fun to call one of the "nice guys" names and alienate all the guys who's help you are trying to enlist?

DT_lover 188 Reviews 340 reads
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Fast and easy for me and the provider as well.  Just a few words and even fewer clicks and screening is done.  I can even pre-book with a few more clicks.  

Why would providers want to spend time/money on more laborious methods of screening?

Oldtimemonger 321 reads
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Posted By: GaGambler
I suppose I should do it for real.  
   
 I don't care what a bunch of angry hookers with their own agendas have to say, I am a fan of your site and have ZERO intentions of dropping my membership without a LOT more evidence that has been presented today. P 411 has made my mongering life so much easier and screening a breeze.  
   
 It would take the ladies leaving in droves to ever get me to consider dropping my membership and you being as popular as you are with the guys, the guys of course being the buyers, I doubt you are going lose many of the ladies, not when they start seeing how much business they lose by not being on your site. As I said earlier, you are my "go to" site when looking to book a session. I like one stop shopping and that is just what your site provides. As far as I am concerned, "keep up the good work"
After all this time we can agree on something. When I started most of the girls did not even require references in my area. References were often used as some kind of a review control system. Give a bad review and lose a reference.

These girls have a fantasy that we are all a bunch of hard up guys who are willing to put our family and professional life on the line to get a piece of ass. In some parts of the country it appears that girls are asking for personal info. Good luck with that!

Perhaps us mongers should start demanding real names of the girls since some are Bat Shit Crazy. Others could be blackmailers.

If the ladies leave P411 in droves there are plenty of girls on the arrangement sites.

It's our money. If they don't like the system they can go into some other profession that pays them 3-500 dollars an hour tax free. :)

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 317 reads
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GaGambler 391 reads
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You are a liar, I just reread every post you have made on this thread and never once did you state that you were afraid of "real life" retribution, and if you will lie about that I have to assume you will lie about other things too.

I have plenty of respect for the vast majority of the women here, but not the BSC TER hating crowd, of which I am certain you are a member.

Once again I would like to say, this thread could have gotten a much warmer reception here if a respected provider would have made the case for you ladies. You OTOH have most likely alienated a lot more guys than you have any hope of recruiting to your side, myself included.

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Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 366 reads
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Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 375 reads
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i dont always agree with everything that you do or say, but who the heck on earth does...

i love p411.

my web guy is making sure that the logo is on the main page on the main site, not just the mobile... then ill be sending over my verification.

nothing is perfect, but you do a damn good job at what you do.

THANK YOU!

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 340 reads
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Sellers of any service must market their wares to buyers in the most advantageous way.  Looking at this thread, the buyers seem to all be P411 advocates (as am I).  If we can extrapolate that the 6 or 8 buyers on this thread are representative of the market as a whole, then in the long run, sellers will be more successful if they use P411, than if they don't.

So sellers are completely free to not use P411, but they need an effective way to replace it or business will suffer.  

Btw, kudos to the sellers that didn't use an alias.  Tough thread to be outspoken on.

-- Modified on 1/31/2016 8:40:42 PM

GGxo See my TER Reviews 354 reads
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Why I'm no longer a part of that gravy train. Proves my point.  

Far too easy and doesn't verify a god damn thing. Movin on..

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 288 reads
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ummmmmmm ter makes us have a logo on our homepage too.

that doesn't mean that we will see everyone that has a ter name.

p411 is a part of screening.
every lady is allowed to decide how much relevance it holds.

why not just ban everyone that has caused this clusterfuck. why deal with it?
i wouldnt.

TwoMints 373 reads
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This isn't the first time, this particular hooker has complained about P411, I've seen it other places as well. Same language.

I don't get it, I've never had an issue with Gina or P411. It is, without a doubt the easiest one stop shopping for ladies.  

I use it exclusively unless I'm traveling to an area that isn't well represented.  Just being on the board lends credibility to the providers and will get me to take multiple looks at her profile if she lacks reviews. I can wait for those to develop.

I've never done anything that would make me get denied an Okay, often enough the providers send a reminder before I even get a chance to ask.. probably want to spend the points... Hell I'm to the point I'd consider deleting some of the older ones as the number seems a bit creepy.  

There are plenty of things I'd like to see added to P411. Price and notes that pop up when I open a profile, or a scroll over to see what's written so I don't have to open it every time. Annoying.  Instead of just excluded and not excluded maybe a third slot that can be for traveling/maybes. I understand how to move ladies in the excluded to different created categorizes but I've seen profiles disappear when I've used it.

I'd be lost without P411 and TER. The other local options suck.

So I'm sorry if you get little traffic from P411, maybe it's your price point, maybe your reviews aren't what they used to be. Maybe it's you and not the site.  

It's a buyers market. If they aren't buying you need to change your product or price point. Just like every other business in the world.  

I don't give out my real info. If my years and multiple dozens of Okays from many high profile long time providers isn't enough, we won't meet. No biggie, someone will see me. I see it in a profile probably 1 in 50. (I admit I don't read everyone of them, often their pictures/price point gets the auto exclude.)

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 344 reads
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Rescreening is fine -- you should absolutely make yourself comfortable.  But as far as my work goes, P411 makes it easier.  Very few ladies ask me for more than I offer, which is whitelists and P411 OKs.  For those that ask, I provide it promptly if I think it is reasonable.  

I should add that I don't approach a lady in the first place if I don't really want to see her, so if she should ask for more screening info, I'm inclined to provide it.  But they don't -- P411 seems to be enough.

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 314 reads
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i had a request sitting there waiting for me for months.
its actually someone that both angelina and i have seen.
i didn't like a way that he said something, so i ignored it.
him and i have since spoken about it.

two months after he requested the ok, i finally approved it.

i have also asked to have an ok removed for a few people. it was done without incident.

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 496 reads
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no, this is not martin..

but for crying out loud, do you feel like youre running for president?

seriously...

its like you have to justify every step you take, every move you make.. everyone is watching you.
sucks to try to be popular, huh?

dont like p411?? DE LIST.
dont like ter??? DE LIST.

many people have. many people still make money

Afro-desiac 420 reads
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Just because P411 puts a screamingly obvious disclaimer saying they are not claiming to be the only way to screen does not mean the service has no value.  You can choose to accept P411 as your only screening, or add to it as you see fit.  What's so complicated about this?
If I were you I would NOT accept P411 is your sole screening. Because you are so damn dumb you need some extra insurance.  Sheesh!

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 329 reads
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seriously..

this pretty much sums it up. :)
xx

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 345 reads
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you know that people share ids too, right?
i mean. when i was 19 i had a 21 year olds id...
the bombers.. pretty sure it wasn't their passport..
you know... never mind.

just do you.

Afro-desiac 301 reads
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That must hurt.  A lot.  Sorry.

Afro-desiac 340 reads
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BSC much?  Off your meds much?  Will someone please hose this ho down with some Lithium?

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 353 reads
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im not quite sure how you can come to the conclusion that I'm so damn dumb.

why not use your real handle..  
I'm sure you would gain many dates if you did....

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 384 reads
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and i sure as heck am not taking about having a penis in it...

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 369 reads
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youre not me.  

you have no idea how i screen.

and ummm... to the rest. i never claimed that it has no value. so.... umm.... ok, its not that complicated. i have said the same thing numerous times in numerous places.

p411 is a part of screening, just like anything else that you use

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 292 reads
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END OF MESSAGE

Afro-desiac 364 reads
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are you on crack tonite?
Hope not (see the thread above)

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 271 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 464 reads
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Date check only required two references for me to join and no real ID or work information or any form of proof of identity. P411 required multiple references from established providers.  P411 screened more than date check.  

I no longer am on date check. The site was clunky and disorganized, and allowed any provider access to my profile weather I contacted them or not. Six ladies 5 of which wasn't in my area check my profile out in the first few hours. It didn't feel discreet in the least. As at the time they didn't have life time memberships I let my membership expire and will not be going back. I have zero desire to advertise whom I am seeing to anyone who wants to look.

TwoMints 319 reads
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You saw me without additional screen as far as I recall...

Posted By: Alyssa Marie
seriously..  
   
 this pretty much sums it up. :)  
 xx

LasVegan 328 reads
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"the stupidest person on TER."  Have you read any of YOUR own posts?  I have..........and believe me........looking in the mirror just may shock you!  That is..........if you have even a remotely objective bone in your body.

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 235 reads
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Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 289 reads
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Anyone can simply search previous posts on the GENERAL DISCUSSION board and see what I mean.

Nice try, (IM)maturegfe.

LasVegan 334 reads
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talk about standing up for oneself and articulately stating the counterpoint..........WITH supporting details.

BRAVO!  BRAVO!  BRAVO!

whiterabbit6 32 Reviews 353 reads
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I have found P411 to be a wonderful benefit to my participation in this world.  I virtually have not seen anyone who is not on P411 in the last few years, because it is so much easier to use it than to attempt to recreate the wheel for verification.

That being said, I wasn't aware that the world we live in has yet created a perfect system for anything.  My take is that P411 is pretty darn good.  However, I would like to see the system elaborate in the way Date Check does for less than exceptional experiences.  P411 gives me comfort that I am asking to see a real provider.  Similarly, P411 should give the providers some more meaningful information.   I obviously have no experience in verifying a client, but if I were in that position, I would find it to be tremendously helpful to find out if someone shorted a provider reference, was rough with her, or attempted BBFS.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 375 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 371 reads
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One of them they didn't take. Worked for DC. I really didn't like DC at all. There was less the 20 ladies, of which 2 I knew were retired. One no longer lived or worked in Utah, 7 or legit ladies, a few you couldn't pay me to see based on reputation and the rest unknowns. There ladies as a group failed my screening. The site was awkward to say the least, and given ladies failing my screening had access to my profile I left that site after a month.  

On the other hand I have nothing but good experiences with P411. Well there was one once but soon as the issue was brought to light Gina fix it.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 371 reads
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Or she did not get back to them (which would make her an inactive member). Otherwise two provider okays would have been sufficient.
I joined both sites at the same time, because I was told they both were good, and it is good to belong to more than one. I paid DC for the lifetime membership because it was reasonable compared to their one year membership. However, I found that DC sucks. I have never used it a single time to meet someone. If I was doing it over I would join P411 only, but I already paid DC for lifetime so I guess I'm a member until I die. Anyway, it was reasonably priced but a waste of money. I don't like date-check for the same reasons you stated. The site is cluttered with ads and crap, and not user friendly. There are really no worthwhile women listed in my area. There are women listed that retired or moved years ago, and I don't like the idea that if Ibam logged on everyone knows I am logged on, and that anybody can check my profile. I have also had providers that I would never consider seeing look at my profile.

sixty 7 Reviews 315 reads
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Been in the "hobby" for years-P-411 is
the best service I have ever used.
I have had never had a problem removing outdated OKs.
For example, some of my favorites have retired-assume they
would prefer NOT to appear om P-411 any more.

Afro-desiac 310 reads
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I wonder which one it was?  There certainly have been several, as lil' Vegan has dropped some really stinky turds on this site of late, for which I (and many others) have dumped on him.
So, nice work getting that off your chest lil' fella.
Feel better now?
LULZ !!

JackDunphy 380 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 349 reads
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But they were quality and current. Of the three references I used to join both one was a member of both at the time, the other two had tons of reviews one joined P411 and the other didn't. Date Check apparently took the word of the one lady as the other lady claims she never heard from them. P411 verified and checked my all references, DC not so much, they checked one out of two at least if the lady told me the truth about no contact.

FatVern 377 reads
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Minus the member reference, those stipulations make it hard for a lady to remain UTR, or maintain a no review policy and use p411 as a verification tool.

I don't read reviews since most are FPR, submitted by other providers with bogus TER accounts.

FatVern 304 reads
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Fat guys make great Husbands! :)

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 307 reads
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You have plenty of words in your mouth already. Again hunh? What are you talking about?

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 315 reads
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MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 310 reads
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MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 274 reads
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belindabell See my TER Reviews 352 reads
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I know several guys who were employment screened by P411.  They all told me that they gave P411 their direct line so they vouched for themselves.  Yep, that is very thorough screening right there.  LOL

FatVern 294 reads
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I guess she wasn't thanking me in this thread either.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 327 reads
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And she thinks she has a new bud! :-/

 
xoxo,

Steph

hbyist+truth=;( 334 reads
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Thus showing the cops (I have no doubt this is why it is being collected) and not because anyone really cares about age, exactly who you are with PROOF you are advertising hooker services(they will go check the profile each hooker fills out). And if a lady has her face blurred out she MUST show her unblurred images with that info and that is kept on record.  

No fucking way will I ever show all that to someone who has legal issues spanning two countries. She is not s US citizen but was booted from the US and still has pending charges.

USGrantlover 225 Reviews 320 reads
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I'm speaking from MY POV not the bitter angry man hating POV that some here display. I really couldn't care less what they think.

LasVegan 292 reads
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you would care to engage in a war of words with me..........especially since your arsenal is just about bankrupt.

If you do not understand that.........you can cut and paste it into Google translate..........and translate it into street slang.

When you call someone else stupid........like the OP............you open the door wide open for others to consider the source.

percy1969 295 reads
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Wait a minute, are you seriously complaining about spending $20 to post a touring ad for which you will charge hundreds of dollars for each appointment that you get???

hey mikey 8 Reviews 289 reads
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When I got re-involved with this community in late 2014 I joined P411 because all of my old escort friends were retired and I had zero active references.  I felt that she screened me very well, including employment verification. This was after we spoke and we both figured out that we were acquainted already because of my (and her) earlier active participation at another early adult site about 10-15 years ago, where I had been a moderator and she had also been involved. Anyway, even after she confirmed my real name and also confirmed that she knew (about) me from years earlier, she still verified my employment... so I think she did a good job without bending over backwards for me. Naturally, this does not mean that she treats you or other ladies well or appropriately (or poorly), but it does mean that she is doing as she says and effectively screening new potential clients without proper reviews. Frankly, I have been impressed by the way she runs the part of her business that I have seen.  (But, I did have a provider friend of mine tell me that she s required to give okays to clients who she would prefer not to.)

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hey mikey 8 Reviews 249 reads
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...tell us how you REALLY feel!  ;)

Actually, I am very sad to hear this!

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 260 reads
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Posted By: Assholias
The biggest complaint that Date-Check members have is that customer service can take a while to get back to you.  I think if they were making more money they could hire an extra person to keep up with this one issue.  The second biggest complaint is that they have profiles for ladies no longer working.  Again, more money means another person to track which providers are still working.    
   
 Complaints against P411:  
 1) Gina now requires us to not only have a banner on our front page but a text link on our contact page or she'll remove our website from our profiles. Ohhh and we have to pay $10 to have our site reviewed.  
   
 2) Gina does not allow us to make a complaint that will show on a member's profile for serious offenses such as attempted BBFS or shorting money. If there is an issue she treats the providers like drama queens and has kicked providers off her site for asking for the removal of a member that crossed serious boundaries.  
   
 3) She claims that our listings are free but it costs $20 to place a visiting ad and hundreds of dollars for premium placements.  
   
 4) I placed Web-Stat coding on my site to give me accurate website statistics.  My top 10 referrers do not include P411 in spite of having paid for several visiting ads this month. My P411 ads cost more than all other advertisements with the exception of Eros and didn't make the top 10.  Eros on the other hand, number 3, with TER and BP at 1 & 2.  Date-Check was at number 7 (but free touring ads).  
   
 5) There are many reports of P411 being infiltrated by LE in cities all over the country over the years.  I do not recall that being the issue at Date-Check but admit that it is possible.  
   
 6) Date-Check allows us to "rate" our experience with a client instead of just a generic okay.  
   
 7) The staff/owner at Date-Check has never been condescending in correspondence whereas it's Gina's tone every single day.  
   
 8) Date-Check isn't asking providers for their government issued ID and face pics.  
   
 I urge you hobbyists to help us providers to take a stand against P411 and move with us to Date-Check.  Put your money into a site that cares about all of its customers, not just the males.  Without us ladies, P411 is nothing and it's time she remembers that.  You can request a 90 day free trial for Date-Check from your favorite provider.

drp74 245 reads
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I believe you and for the most part, I agree with you.  Gina can be disrespectful and at times blatantly shitty.  A simple google search with her name and 411 brings up countless similar experiences.   I give her props for her successful ventures but have never bought into the P411 hype.  IMO It's nothing more than an "illusion" of "provider protection / screening" foolishly over-rated by naive providers who then insist the hobbyists join to get into their pants.  The men of course will do what it takes to make that task easier.   The cycle goes on and on.  I've had several members of LE as regulars throughout the last 7 years and every single one of them had a p411 membership.   The site is listed on the FBI's own website for pete's sake.  

Gina has never personally offended me; however, I don't think you're a liar.  
Posted By: Assholias
I am using an alias because Gina has my real life information.  I am taking no chances that Gina will retaliate in a real life way, not a kick that traitor bitch off my site way.  I have stated tis several times in this thread.  
   
 I do not hate TER, one of my posts even says I love TER and that this site has been good to me.  It's this board that I don't like.  I'm far from the only provider or client, for that matter, that feels that way about the GD board.  
   
 I was not picked by anyone to make any case.  I wanted to have a discussion about P411 out in the open, in a place where as many people could read it as possible.  That includes Gina, who true to form, came out calling providers druggies and drunks.    
   
 I was aware when I posted this that the usual suspects would come out and play.  As much as you like to think that it's your opinion that is sought, it wasn't in this case.  I was aiming this post to the lurkers out there, the ones who haven't yet signed up for P411 or Date-Check.  Those are the clients that might be swayed one way or the other.  Gina caters to clients, not providers.  I expected nothing less from the vast majority of you because so many on this GD board have no respect for us as well.  For those with that mindset, Gina and them are a perfect match.  For the clients that actually respect us and don't like to see us treated like shit for no reason, maybe they'll think twice before putting money in Gina's pocket.
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