I know that's not the hobbiest way, but it is, the right way....( so, if that is moralistic, well, i am )
I've helped a couple of ladies with nothing in return!!
Their is a reason, i'm not living under a bridge, like i should be. ( i think it's that old saying, "What goes around, comes around" )
The real answer is usually a lot more complex than "A or B". In my mind it would depend a lot on the lady who contacted me--how much do I trust her judgement? Why is the younger lady in such a state? I have been approached--either in the way you say, or via a more general post on a board. Sometimes I have helped, occasionally I have not.
For me 18 is decidedly too young even if I knew she was really 18, so if I did help her it would be without any strings. But that's me--I wouldn't hold it against anyone who made a different choice.
you have seen several twenty-something providers..they know each other and know you hobby..one calls you to see if you can help one of her friends out financially..her friend is on her own and needs some money in a hurry to pay all of her bills..she is willing to do almost anything because she is desperate..trouble is she is only 18..would you..A..not even think about it because the girl is so young and you dont want to be accused of contributing to the delinquency of a minor..or.B..just go for it because you will be helping her out and you have always dreamed of doing the young stuff anyway..
money that is, why not help her for nothing???
I know that's not the hobbiest way, but it is, the right way....( so, if that is moralistic, well, i am )
I've helped a couple of ladies with nothing in return!!
Their is a reason, i'm not living under a bridge, like i should be. ( i think it's that old saying, "What goes around, comes around" )
I know that's not the hobbiest way, but it is, the right way....( so, if that is moralistic, well, i am )
I've helped a couple of ladies with nothing in return!!
Their is a reason, i'm not living under a bridge, like i should be. ( i think it's that old saying, "What goes around, comes around" )
The real answer is usually a lot more complex than "A or B". In my mind it would depend a lot on the lady who contacted me--how much do I trust her judgement? Why is the younger lady in such a state? I have been approached--either in the way you say, or via a more general post on a board. Sometimes I have helped, occasionally I have not.
For me 18 is decidedly too young even if I knew she was really 18, so if I did help her it would be without any strings. But that's me--I wouldn't hold it against anyone who made a different choice.
that she is an adult, and her family is not related to some MOB family, I wouldn't mind fucking her brains out. I am very conscientious guy actually (hey look at my alias), I just don't think it is WRONG to fuck a willing 18 yr old.
these ladies are so full of drama that if you helped out either way you could open the flood gates.
18 years old is NOT considered a minor in the USA. What's the moral dilemma here? You don't have one age-wise.
I would SAY of course: a/ to be Hypocritically correct sorry I meant politically correct...
but of course I'll DO: b/ and smash in that tight ass right now!
As you can see I'm a fervent adept of the Virtuous sex ( so dear to MSH lol! )
She is an adult after all.
And boy do I wish all of the older men I slept with when I was 18 years old had paid me for the sex I gave them for free!
Seriously though.
Enjoy!
a bit fked up. If I did not have children girls especially, I might be able to justify it more. I find the idea of a guy in his 60s with an 18 year old to be a little gross, but that's just me.
Agreed. I think there should be a self-imposed age limit of 2x the age of the working girl. The likelihood of an 18 yr old knowing how to perform CPR or use the paddles on an old client having a heart attack is not very good at all.
Now watch as all the octogenarians come out of the woodwork to stone me.
they are in any way emotionally or mentally mature...big difference. At 18...even at 22, no way in hell I would have been able to escort with men twice my age. I had boyfriends who were much older, but I wanted to be there for free.
...going to have sex with an 18 year old. I'm more than 3 times her age. She's legal at 18 but that's below my personal age range. I would help if it were possible but like a previous poster stated there are a lot of variables there. I'd have to know more. My help would not be give here money for sex. No problems with the guys that would, that's just me.
Seriously, screwing an 18 year old who has already decided for whatever reasons(including financial) to be a provider is ok if a little weird. She's legally a grownup and has the right to make her own personal and moral decisions. Fucking some poor 18 year old because she is desperate for money? No. Unlike lung man, I would not give her the money -a bad habit -but he's right. And it would be appropriate. It is not good to fuck desparate people (in any sense) just because you have the power or Money to do so.
If there were any chance she was not yet 18, you'd have to be nuts to do it, moral or not.
" It is not good to fuck desparate people (in any sense) just because you have the power or Money to do so"
Welcome to the real world...
Just because a lot of people in the real world do it (and I'm well aware of that) doesn't mean I would (the op's question) or should.
Welcome to the real world...
God, I must live in a bubble and I am still trying to think there are NOT douche bags out there that would take advantage of a niave 18 year old child....
Now, having said that. If it is her idea and she knows full well what she is getting into then that is another conversation to be had.
and that provider is practicing very bad businss by trying in inveigle a customer in her personal business.
Everybody knows somebody with money problems, but that is no excuse to use that as an excuse to get some one to see them.
I would be very wary of ever seeing that provider again.
As for the 18 years old or age difference, that is a matter for each of us to decide. I normally don't see such young gals, but I'd consider it on a case by case basis. The legality is what I would consider first, obviously.
i am not into young girls anyway ( i am 35 yrs old). i think most 18 yrs are too young to get into this. They need direction and some time to grow up and make decisions. 21 yrs shud be the age. i dont think 18yrs put on a good performance anyways. but i will help her by giving some money without any favors in return.