Lets suppose that 100% of all providers decided today they would no longer kiss would continue to hobby ?

When I read consistent evidence that kissing is not on the menu then quite simply I do not call.  I respect every provider's right to choose their own preferences and I'll never push the issue.  But as long as I know that this will be a missing then I'm apt to bypass even making contact regardless of whatever else may be.

Now truth be told I can follow my own choices as stated above because the reality is that there are plenty of ladies who not only kiss but enjoy it as much as I do.  So I can easily let those that do not slip by.  However your question poses a terrible hypothetical all exclusive situation.  In such a horrible marketplace I'm sure my desires for getting laid and/or blown would be the primary driving force and I'd screw away sans kissing.  But there is no way in hell I would do so without feeling some level of disconnection and even distain for my partner.        

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No kissing, then no hobbying. I am not really there for the sex. I could get that cheaper from many various CL girls. I am there for a hour long (or longer) connection. A girlfriend who delights (or acts real well) in my company, who kisses and touches.

I am not one who wants a deep LTR because I don't believe those work. I look at my family, friends, and even people on forums and see that all the time. But there are times I want a connection to a woman that goes beyond sex. A GFE is one who does that, for a short period of time without the responsibility of a relationship.

No way.  What would be the point?

While I enjoy it, it's not a deal breaker by any means.

I may be a bit old fashioned, but I am in it for the intimacy.
That includes kissing, snuggling, just being with a lovely lady.

If kissing was taken away, no, I'd no longer be involved.

Just my opinion...
B

It would not be the end of the world.

I have two regulars that just do not kiss, that is their policy and I respect it.

They more than make up for it in other ways.

Life is a banquet and there's always plenty to choose from.

All the Dental Cleaning locations and toothpaste companies would suddenly be happy with a sudden rise in business perhaps :P

I they stopped allowing daty I would be in bigger trouble or might even return to the men's clubs.

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I know that without enthusiastic kissing I have a very difficult time getting fully aroused. On that occasion, when it became clear that some kissing was pretty much required to move on to a successful conclusion she cooperated just enough, but it was the difference between what would have been an exception experience and simply a "nice time".

  Were kissing universally unavailable in the traditional client / provider arrangement, I would probably seek a sugar daddy situation.

-J

I saw one who had a no kissing policy. I told her that if you want me rock hard kiss me. Sure enough she kissed and she was surprised. Every since that first appointment she always goes out of her way to kiss.

Let’s see. Julia Roberts got $100 an hour in LA in 1990 without kissing. Adjusting for inflation, figure $200 an hour now. Yeah, I’d keep doing it, but not nearly as often and certainly not at the premium rates I pay now for GFE’s.

If providers didn't allow kissing anymore, I'd still hobby, but I wouldn't enjoy it as much.  For me, it's not a deal breaker, but more of a deciding factor.  Kissing is something I associate more with civvie situations, but it helps me enjoy sessions a whole lot more.  Studies showed that kissing releases a pleasure chemical of some sort in your brain.  That's the reason why people feel a psychological high after a kiss.  Anyway, I'd probably look at other things, and use them as deciding factors.

to many of the women I have seen, this would never even be a question, as we didn't just run right into the bedroom and start humping the minute she or I arrived. If they had to be robotic about it, they would have just as hard of a time being in the business.

Sure, there are some who don't feel that way and would have no problem with this or prefer this, but I thankfully have avaoided most of them.

Less appointments and most definately all appointments would be limited to only 1 hour.  No need for extended hours if the GFE is not there.  It is all about the TOTAL experience for me and I try to give the lady a BFE as well.

To me kissing is a part of the whole experience. If no kissing became universal for all providers I would likely still hobby but not as often.

Funny thing.  Back in the "old" (pre-internet) days I would see a provider on a regular basis.  From her, french with no cover.  DATY almost endlessly as she was multi-multi-orgasmic and couldn't seem to get enough.  She loved greek, and we engaged in it almost every time.  But, her policy was absolutely no kissing, and she stuck to it.  (And made me stick to it!)  That attitude was just a little strange, I thought.

I probably would not give up this hobby completely, but my sessions will definitely be much shorter ...LOL.  Also, I will no longer do anymore overnighters or take a provider along with me on one of my extended vacation adventures!

-TheKarateKid-

I think I would probably stop. Kissing is an important part of the session to me, along with other aspects of the GFE session.

This HAS been a problem for me lately.  Seems that some providers state that they provide GFE, yet don't kiss.  Too bad, because that's what creates a connection between people, though I do have to remind myself that I'm paying for a service.  I'm not talking about porn-style tongue wrestling, but lately I can't even score some LFK.  Seems the most I get is a peck on the cheek and/or a cordial handshake at the door.  I don't know whether to take it personally or if it's just plan germophobia.  (And I don't have hygiene issues or bad breath, either).  But it's probably the most frustrating thing I've experienced lately with the hobby, and I end up leaving with a lot to be desired.

French massage to completion CIM is the only thing I would purchase anymore. I would save a whole lot of money too in that instance. I dont think providers could take that kind of fall off in business and stay in this career. Lots of things would change. Men want kissing and DFK at that.

I'd hobby less frequently.  I do occasionally just want to pop and run but I'm mainly in it for the GFE.

Are you assuming that providers would retain their present rates?  If so I'd hobby a LOT less frequently.

as long as they didn't call themselves gfe and charged a lower rate accordingly I'd still see them, but I really enjoy kissing

If we had to stop kissing I would retire myself and no longer provide!!!

Kissing is a big part of the foreplay for me. I have been doing this off and on for 17 years now and in that entire time can count on one hand the number of gents who requested NOT to kiss. I didn't see any of them again for a second visit.  Kissing is also a big part of what makes the GFE complete in my opinion. You come to us to have that euphoric experience of the beginning of a new relationship. That happy hi you get from it. Of course you come to us for more then that but I'm speaking in terms of the GFE that so many seek.

I just couldn't begin to imagine what this industry would be like if there were no kissing and I'm very happy that I don't have to think of such an atrocity.

Hugs, KISSES & lotsa licks!
Raven