Furry Handcuffs?

I  was  recently  queried  by  a  "Newbie  Provider"  on  another  forum  for  advice  as  to
  how  I  safely  approach  doing  business  at  Hotels  to  avoid  LE  &  nosey  Hoteliers.
  "Newbie"  states;  
  "I'm told LE is known to have ties at motels/hotels, how  do I avoid?"

 
This  is  a  significant  topic  I'll  pose  to  all  TER  Members   to  submit   their  "advice"  and  
   "tricks-of-the-trade"  for  added  safety  for  us  all.
 
Here's  my  advice  I  proffered  to  the  "Newbie  Provider"  intermingled  with  my  queries
   to  you,  the  TER  Members:
 

Do  you  "Screen  and  Verify"?    
    "Firstly,   If  you're  "vetting"  said  Clients   in-advance,  then  there  shouldn't   be  concern
     with  regard  to  LE."      
 

 For  Hobbyists;   Do  you   also  research  your  desired  Companion  or  solely  opt  based  on  
    "physical  appearance"  and/or   the  desires  of  "your  smaller  head"?

 
LE  may  be  present   at  any  public  establishment.
   This  you  can't  control...  
   However,  taking  necessary  precautions  if  you  must  visit  hotels,  is  paramount!
 
 
Initially,  I'll  go  on-line  and  research  the  hotel  if  it  is  foreign  to  me.  
 
I  like  to  know  the  location  of  exits,  elevators,  public  powder  room,  restaurant,  
   bar  and  parking  facility;   I  also  peruse  the  lobby  when  I  arrive   for  Security.
 

Wherever  you're   in  public,  "act  like  you  "belong"  and  know  where  you're  going".
   Don't  appear  meek,  confused  nor  vulnerable.  
   Present   strength,  independence,   maturity   and  sophistication   and  by  all  means
   always   "dress-the-part".
   "Fake  it  till  you  make  it"!

 
Thus,  if  you're  initially  meeting  said  Client/Companion  outside  of  his/her  hotel  room,  
   you're   being   inconspicuous.  
 
 
 Attire  modestly  in  "business-savvy"  dress  with  a  demure  length,  (no  miniskirts!)  
    sans  cleavage  springing-forth.
 
Definitely  don't  sashay  into  the  hotel  lobby  wearing  6-inch  stripper  stilettos,  
    displaying   $$$-Bill  logos!   lol  
 
 
Be  coiffured  business-like  also;   if  your  hair  is  long  and  a  glaring   purple  color,  it  
    may  be  best  to  don  a  wig  of  natural  color,  or  a  hat.
 

Don't  wear  "red  lipstick".  (Gentlemen,  this  applies  to  you  also!  lol)
   Ladies,  if  you  have  numerous  visible  tattoos  (cover  them)  and  numerous  ear  or  
   facial  piercings;   remove  them  if  able.

 
Sometimes  I  carry  a  shoulder-strap  computer  case,  &/0r  even  a  rolling  carry-on  bag.
   I  collect  additional  "luggage  tags"  from  various  Airlines  when  flying  and  display  them
   on  my  bag  prior  to  a  hotel  rendezvous.
 
I'll  fill  out  the  "name"  with  a  fake  moniker,  of  course,  and  a  fake  phone#.
   "Look  like  you're  a  person  travelling  for  business"....Ironically,  secretly  you  are!!  

 
 I'd  personally  never  visit  any  Hotel  which  is  below  4-Star in  any  part  of  the  Country.  
    Whist  touring,  I  will  not  visit  less-than  5-Star  establishments  in  the  Cities  of  LA,  Seattle,  
    Dallas,  Chicago,  Boston,   NYC,  and  Miami   and  most-certainly  abroad.

 
There's  nothing  worse  than  having  an  uneasy  feeling  upon  meeting  a  stranger,  as  it  adds
   a  layer  of  "natural  restraint"  in  your  personal  demeanor,  which  thus,  triggers  concern  in  
   the   Client's/Provider's   behavior....  It's  a  "domino-effect".
   Screening  your  potential  "stranger"  is  crucial  to  assuage   these  fears.
 

Speaking  of  "natural  restraint"....
 
You  could  break-the-ice  of  pre-meeting  nervousness,  adding  levity  to  the  situation,  by  
   breaking-out  your  furry  handcuffs,  once  behind  closed  doors.
   Use  them  as  part  of  your  "seduction  repertoire",  causing  the  man/woman  to  become
   further-intrigued,  laugh  and   release  mutual  tension.....  the  "release"  is  the  ultimate  goal
   after all.  
 
Be  safe  have  fun!
xo  Angelina  Jones