All of us at some point find one or more ladies which we like to see more than once.
Some of them we may end up seeing several times and they become our “regulars”
Sometimes, we refer to a lady as “my ATF”. I often wondered about the definition.
The name implies singular (one) but over the course of several years in the hobby
you may find more than one all time favorite.

In a world of whore mongering, where variety is supposed to be the spice of life, where do we come up with the term "all time" favorite? I think a term like "current favorite" would be much more appropriate.

I don't even consider providers that I have had "real" relationships with ATFs. Just like "once in a lifetime" I think the term is so misused as to be meaningless.

Thank you!  Makes absolutely no sense to me either.  

I caught a raft of shit, as if "how dare a noob criticize the terminology here."  And I agree that ATF and "once in a lifetime" are stupid words, both being almost a contradiction in terms.  Because in literal terms you can only have one ATF and only give one girl a 10.  They should at least fix the numerical descriptions here.

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the term " ATF ' is certainly overused..i have several favorites..ladies who i would see at the drop of a hat..when you want to see that particular lady at the expense of everything else..then they qualify as a " favorite"..

I just had an argument here a couple weeks ago with a guy who was talking about "my three ATFs." What part of "all time" don't you understand?

but not for that. lol

It's funny how things change. Just like the "envelope" years ago a caught an even bigger raft of shit for saying that I don't use and envelope, it's silly and it doesn't protect the lady one iota. The manginas and the OTHBFC (Over the hill fat broad club) came out in masse to tell me what a misogynist that made me. The last time the subject came up, most everyone seemed to agree that the envelope was a complete waste of time and actually counterproductive in terms of staying out of jail.

but yeah, we are in complete agreement about some of the rather dubious terms we use here.

I missed the train by a decade of so, but some of these guys gotta be jealous that they can't call their beer drinking buddies BFFs. So guess what, they come here... fuck a broad or two and start drooling over her, call her their ATFs..

Ha!  Or an All Time Fool.

and she's no longer my atf when I close the door at the end of date. As  been mentioned ad nauseam  rather dubious term like many others.  

"some hooker I am fucking on a regular basis"

I think some guys just need to convince themselves that they have a connection, whether or not it's really true.

But some fuckers have 3, 4, 5 ATFs.  The term is definitely overused, and has lost its relevance.  

Like GaGa said, they want to justify their fucking prostitutes.  

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when one gal (she'd told me before after session she was going to be my ATF), looked up at me from an superb BBBJ and said, "I wanna be your ATM."
I told her that was fine with me and would she please spew some cash my way.  We still laugh over that one!

When you make her your wife?

Did I pass? Haha

Samiam

I did that once bcuz he already paid my tuition.


Samiam

I remember that! You pretty much started a riot saying you wouldn't do envelopes lol. How dare you question the system heh heh. That was some funny stuff and you being you just had to keep bringing it up

I don't think the envelope has a damn thing to do with protecting the lady.  There's money in it, for shit's sake!  And we all know LE will bust you if they want to no matter where the money is.  I think it has more to do with preserving the illusion of GFE.  IOW, it veils the transactional nature of what's going on so the demented "hobbyist" can imagine this gorgeous girl is fucking him because he's such a cool guy.  I know that's why they all fuck me.  That, and because I have a HUGE.........
wallet.
I mean, why the fuck do you think Priscilla and Andrea were with our lame asses in LV?  Of course, if they'd known we were the infamous GaGambler and inicky46....well...they'd have fucked us for free, right?

for 8 month's what would that make her to me?

...I like much less use. I do use the term favorite. I did use ATF as a term when I started seeing escorts & posting here. Fitting in. But stopped as it really didn't appeal to me and really doesn't really fit.

It also would most likely make her at least your current favorite, but "all time favorite"??? Who the fuck knows?

I just call by her name. Look at her as my friend!!!!!!

Think I will call her my good friend!!!!

and it makes a hell of a lot more sense than 99% of the acronyms that people seem to like to throw around.

Stating I won't use an envelope on the board today wouldn't even raise an eyebrow, much less start a riot. and you are right, I was on a roll and there was no way I was going to let it go. I was having to much fun pointing out the stupidity of the whole thing.

That's what I thought! I have been calling ATF On ter Only because that's what I learned  on ter. To me it just never sounded proper.

When she blows the socks right off of you the first time you meet and your never the same again.

The "ATF" is the hobby equivalent of "GF".  She's not your girlfriend, she's not your wife, but she's the woman that you think about when you jerk off in the shower, and she's the woman that you most want to have sex with.  

I have an ATF.  One.  Yes, she is my "all time" favorite, and she became that about 5 years ago, but that was after 30+ years of sampling the options, finding good ones & bad, and realizing that this one stood out head and shoulders above the rest--for me.  At that point I had known her for about 8 years on the clock and off, in good times and bad for both of us.  Long after she retires (she is deep UTR now) we will remain friends.  I feel safe that her place in my pantheon of wonderful ladies is quite safe.

I have to agree that "current" favorite is an more descriptive term to use and be accurate with.  

What's wrong with the term? Personally, I think everybody has an ATF..