OK, that's a loaded question.  

That men and women both cheat, but differently.

Earth to sxxxy: most women don't cheat with male providers.

and perhaps in somewhat different ways... but I'm not sure the numbers would bear out one side cheating MORE than another.  

I used to work at a bowling alley where every morning we had ladies leagues , I was amazed at how willing some were...i enjoyed that till I got married...then not so much

A common reason all the married guys stray is because they aren't getting B-Jobs at home. Hmmm? Maybe their wives are giving them to some virile hunks they meet at work. 8o)

I think men pass up on as many women-- 90%? Sounds generous. But this requires a little massaging of the word "cheat."

and later girls speak to me (on topic) as if it never happened.

If both are cheating, the woman generally cheats better/more privately    
Plus, when it comes to averages...men are always a"head".
But!  Where we do have extra-activities, there are a lot of men and a few of us girls that work things out right.  
Meaning...I spend more time in extra-curricular activities than the average man does.
And I enjoy it just/lust as much

I cheat on my clients all the time!!! 😝😝😝😝😝

That's a good point that men may only find 1/10 women hot enough to bang, (but I don't understand what a moon-face is).

Women give BJs if they're motivated.  Whats the motivation to BJ a random hunk?  Lifetime security?  No.  He'll take us to the movies after?  No.  

my sex drive is super high and if my man cant satisfy my needs i will look elsewhere  
if our relationship is serious and i like him alot for who he is ill just load up on toys and porn ahhaha

not judging, just chuckling at the different motivations and ways of dealing with things between the sexes. I'm sure Tennyson is rolling over in his grave at my abuse of his words. Or maybe... he is laughing too.

Good one Gemma lol

Answer:  They'll never have to give another blow job again.


Ain't it the truth?

8o)

If none of this cheating were going on, would we be a better society for it?

I doubt it very much.  Sex is a natural and necessary part of our lives, and if the normal structures of society (Created by people in power seeking to control and exploit.) aren't doing the job, then people will find their own means - which is the way it should be, and in fact the way it does work out.

So, rather than brand the people who cheat as some kind of deviants, I say brand the people who cluck their tongues at them as hypocrites.  

Can get laid pretty much anywhere at any time and there is no need to pay for it.  

I will never understand anyone doing something only to get a certain result and after getting said result, stop.  

My goal is to bang as many hot women I possibly can with rest of life.

I personally think that men cheat more than women, BUT theres a reason for that IMO.  Theres an emotional disconnect between men and sex.  Men, I think, can literally have sex with 100 women and at the same time be in love with only 1.  Hence the married man who is an active hobbyist.  For women this is typically, but not always true.  Women like to have emotion, a connection and things of this nature when they have sex, make love etc.  Men can turn that compartment off and purely just embrace the physical aspect of it.  So to me the actual impact of men cheating and women cheating is completely different.  If a woman is cheating, to me the relationship is dead or close to it, as she has moved on with her feelings and attention.  Whereas if a man is cheating things could be totally fine at home.  Is this a double-standard, seems so, but that doesnt make it less true.  There are exceptions to every rule and Im pretty sure Ill catch some backlash, but I dont mind.  You see it all the time on reality TV, if thats what it is anymore.  How many times have you seen the man getting caught, and trying to apologize, but on the flip side when the women get caught not only do they not apologize, but they say its the guys fault and she's been staying in the relationship for purely temporal reasons?  Happens all the time.  To summarize it all yes men cheat more often, but I think its because we cheat for reasons that mean alot less, then why women cheat.  We cheat when we're horny women cheat when they're DONE.

You dole-bludging bloody ripper

Probably more like 2% of the women. And instead of thinking of it as a man might not like his GF/wife, for long periods he may not HAVE a GF/wife. During that time he might be looking fog a GF of just enjoying being free of all that.

Posted By: Skinny_Minnie

That's a good point that men may only find 1/10 women hot enough to bang, (but I don't understand what a moon-face is).  
   
 Wait, what were we talking about?!  
   
 Oh!  Ok, so men may want to bang 10% of the female population, and women only are intrigued by 10% tops of the men who show them interest.  Agreed.  
   
 And you are probably right that women have an emotional bond to some guy almost always.  So they're definitely cheating on someone.  Whereas a guy may just be banging away but not even truly like his GF/wife?  Lol

Because they can. It's especially obvious amongst the young (late teens/early 20s). The typical rite of passage for young men is to *chase* pussy and get in fights as a release. Women just fuck away to their hearts content.

Actually I really agree with this.  

And, since I'm moderated, I was too lazy to correct it and wait for it to go up again.
BTW, we know you're really mrfisher.