Hope Mrs OSP is not checking the board out today.
Do i have to wear a condom,when i have sex with her?(My blood work came back negative for STD's).
Go easy on me,i'm not using an alias and it is a serious question.
Ladies do your BF's have to wear one?
Thanks!
Settling in for a good show.
Ya got that right!!!
You'll find out.
"Free" pussy is NEVER free.
And "free" provider pussy?
The MOST expensive and costly pussy on the planet!!
You'll find out.
Then you'll bitch about it here.
If a guy has to ask about whether a condom is in order, you have to wonder if he doesn't get that having a provider for a GF is not all about pussy and joy. Rather, he'll not only be crying in his warm beer when this goes sour (and it will), but that he genuinely doesn't get it.
Just wait until he finds out his daughter is a provider.
Now why did ya have to mention my daughter,Grow Up!
Buy a bag for me and one x-large coke!
I am out of the hobby!
Unlike u,i don't have to meet her at a Hotel, with the envelope,to get laid!
Eat your heart out!!!!
Because i can be!
Unlike u,i don't have to meet her at a Hotel, with the envelope,to get laid!
It is great!!
Her sucker is all warmed up when she gets home!!!
Boyfriend or not I make mine wear one.....EVERYTIME!!!!! It is a known fact the chances of passing STDs are ten times greater where a person has multiple partners. Just because she uses condoms with them, it doesnt mean she cant give you anything if you go behind them wearing nothing. Either way, not using them is still playiing with fire...Im just curious??? If she allows you to have unprotected sex with her, how would you ever know whether or not she says yes to any other guy wanting her bare as well??? Sorry I guess I just miss the days when everyone was cool with using condoms.........
Obviously, I am not going to try to dictate what two consenting adults do behind closed doors. The simple fact is they are going to do what they are going to do regardless.
But I'm a big fan of condoms.
Trust is wonderful, trust is great. But the microbes spawned in a high promiscuity environment are more catchy and more virulent than the equivalent microbes in a lower promiscuity environment. And sometimes you can't "un-catch" them. Furthermore, microbes don't give a crap who you trust. Nature loves them and wants them to survive, spread and thrive.
People get pregnant while using condoms and people get STDs while using condoms. They merely decrease risk, but the degree to which they decrease risk is quite dramatic.
I hate to sound semi-fatalistic, but girlfriends come and girlfriends go; but some of the nasty bugs you could catch might last forever.
Even though I test regularly just in case, I have never contracted an STD. I attribute this to the fact that I have never barebacked any woman with whom there was not a ring, a date, a mutual test, and verifiable monogamy on both sides.
Well then you are a lot younger than I am. In the 70ies and 80ies I fucked many girls without protection. Don't remember exactly when aids & herpes came around but I never caught anything but crabs and I think it was from my wife! Got into the hobby in the 90ies and that is when I started using condoms (still hate em though). Even now with civies I still used them regardless of how "safe" they claim to be.
Love the braids and the tats!!!
Candy,,,Yummy!!!
Hehehehehehehe cum get sum....
My boyfriend and I do not use condoms, however we get tested together every 3 months. Before him, I ALWAYS used condoms, and decided to until I had a serious relationship.
I think that you should sit down and talk to her about the safety practices she implements when she is working and see what you both are conformable with.
Communication is the key when dating a provider.
Communication is the key in ANY relationship.
*Kisses*
FDS
That's what exclusivity is about.
In your case, you may wish to.
Almost, been there done that! Was involved in a SugarDaddy situation when she shared her feelings for me. I refused to have feelings for a provider I told her. Coupled with her growing distaste for a few of her clients, she stopped working.
Just like with my first wife, who i met in a stripclub, I told her I couldn't marry into that sort of lifestyle. Or date one.
Why are involved with someone who has sex with other people?
Hell both my wives even quit smoking for me. The second wife took longer but conceded.
OSP , you sound like a very strong man who will not settle for less than you deserve and know that women are not deserving of making their own desisions concerning how the are allowed to live their life when the become involved with the magnificent person that you are.
not everyone has the right and ability to be where ever, and with whomever, they wish. Are you ticked off that these women loved me enough to concede these points with me? I'm not going to get into a pissing match because i have standards i'm not willing to compromise. Doesn't everyone?
If one has a spouse with whom one is intimate; he might not wish to be served third that day. Not sharing is a very reasonable thing. If the woman wants to be financially independent as a source of self-empowerment; there are about 20,000 ways she can do that without having to have sex with other men.
As far as concessions go, I don't see an issue with that either. In any relationship each requires concessions from the other to some degree. After all, there are things a man will accept in a provider that he would be less willing to accept in a spouse; just as providers routinely accept attributes in hobbyists they would never accept in a spouse.
Sometimes people get confused about this issue because they misunderstand men. A woman projects herself, and as she wouldn't ordinarily (sans payment) have sex with a man who wasn't wonderful, she sees the man actually paying to have sex with her as his complete acceptance of her as she is. This is incorrect. In exchange for ready-access to sex, the man not only pays with time and money, but will also compromise on a number or issues. His reproductive strategy aims at quantity. But if that exact same woman were to propose marriage, he might very well look at her and rattle off a whole bunch of ways he found her unsuitable.
So OSP gave the women a list of matters they needed to get in hand in order to be suitable as mates rather than mere sex partners. No doubt, they had issues they wanted him to address as well.
I don't see anything problematic in this at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable.
In the case of the OP, he is dealing with a GF and not a fiance or spouse. Well, GFs come and go. It's a transitory thing. So I don't think the same dynamic applies.
A man will accept things in a provider he wouldn't accept in a GF. He'll accept things in a GF he wouldn't accept in a fiance; and he'll accept things in a fiance he wouldn't accept in a wife.
likened unto you. Too antsy I guess. You should see the LIST those two women comprised for me. LOL I complied because love is compromising. My present wife is a true Godsend. She will stand her ground, on important issues(to her), regardless of my stubborness. If not for her I may not be here today.
Must be the reason for so many recent career changes.
Hope Mrs OSP is not checking the board out today.
Do u ladies make your BF wear a condom!
I just thought it would be interesting to know,wether u do or not!
Perhaps it is better described as attention getting. Sure glad you got your answer though.
Have fun barebacking your GF.... for now anyway.
As if a provider will publicly admit she barebacks her BF anyway.
Well, if she did, it would at least drastically cut down on the # of guys wanting to have dinner at the Y.
johngaltnh
"Well, if she did, it would at least drastically cut down on the # of guys wanting to have dinner at the Y."
Its been many years ago since I have had live in GFs that insisted on BB because she didn't like the feel of a condom, allergic, etc, and I would sometimes oblige.I felt invincible in my youth, and now I see that was not the truth.
When they asked me why I didn't DATY as much as I used to, I would tell her she doesn't taste as good as when we used condoms.
Stale cum isn't a cleansing agent, and daily douching is not healthy.
Ronald Reagan and I both atttended the "trust but verify" school.
I've had civies make every excuse on earth as to why I shouldn't use a condom. But I always prevailed.
I realize that nothing feels as good as body to body without a barrier; but that is simply unwise in most cases. Even with civie girlfriends.
Ronnie Reagan also doubled the deficit in his administration so trusting his word was like seeing a fortune teller. That said, I've been using condoms because of the era of HIV and other STDs. So you are right, even with civvie GFs, going w/o a condom is bad for everyone. I am also not looking to plant my seed.
Attention getting?
Got your's,didn't I.
Have fun,not barebacking!
Not just from an STD stand point but also for a not wanting to have a crying baby keeping you up all night in about 9 months. Nothing is 100% and in order to reduce chances of having an issue condoms paired up with another BC source help reduce both of the above issues. Raw feels better for sure, but the side effects of what can happen by doing so far outweigh a little bit of plastic and a lady taking a pill everyday.
Everbody relax,It was a spoof!!!
I don't have a provider GF!
The question about does your BF wear a condom,was a legit question! IMHO!
Ass.
Second word?
Hole.
How is it that everyone in this community knows how fucked up you are....except you?
(and there are some really fucked up people in this community,lol)
Good luck dealing with whatever affliction you suffer from, yet ignore.
Get the help you need.
If you or her have more than one sex partner you should always wear a condom. I got chlamydia from a provider that gave it to me during a BBBJ. I gave chlamydia to my wife who works at a brothel. Who knows who or if she gave it to. We both had to give up sex for nearly a month because of our being careless and she had to miss anther month of work on top of that. Thank God that I screen monthly and caught it be fore I spread it to far. The brothel did not always screen for oral chlamydia as they should so it was missed in their weekly tests. Condoms are not 100% effective at preventing the spread of STD's, so even if your partner only plays safe with her clients your risks are still higher with her than any normal monogamous girlfriend. If you see providers besides her you increase her risk as well. Even if you play safe, and only play with her, get tested often. I do a basic STD screening monthly and a comprehensive one every three months. I know longer engage in uncovered anything but oral or hand with anyone including my wife. Chlamydia is not that big of deal as it easily is treated with antibiotics, but there are STD's that are not so easily treated like hepatitides A & C, herpes, and HIV/AIDS that can not be treated with antibiotics. Some of which can be fatal in some cases and are a very big deal. If you are hobbying or are dating a lady in the hobby always play safe with every sex partner every time. So here is my advise on how to protect yourself from STD's while dating a provider, ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM and GET TESTED OFTEN FOR STD'S. Don't be stupid like me and my wife was. We got lucky it was just chlamydia and nothing scarier or something that can't be treated. We are both STD free now I know because I just got a comprehensive screening Monday and my wife had on a few weeks ago.
I'm interested as to how you know you got chlamydia from receiving BBBJ. I've done a lot of research on this lately and my conclusion is that its near impossible if not impossible to receive chlamydia orally. You will find several sources that say its possible but when you dig deeper for specifics and consult experts you find that it is not possible. Of the various bacterial stds, that one in particular does not transfer orally. Of course there are several nasty things you can get from BBBJ specifically gonorrhea, herpes, syphilis and ngu. Of these, ngu (non-chlamydia) is the most likely. Also, research will tell you that although possible those stds are not easily transmitted orally, at least not was easily as vaginally or anally.
I'm not saying you didn't get something orally, and not saying you didn't get chlamydia, just wondering how you know for sure it was the provider BBBJ.
If you get a chance check out medhelp.org, the doctors forum on stds is very good.
I'm not saying you didn't get something orally, and not saying you didn't get chlamydia, just wondering how you know for sure it was the provider BBBJ.
If you get a chance check out medhelp.org, the doctors forum on stds is very good.
I know I had chlamydia because I test for it monthly. OK, I am not 100% I got it from a provider BBBJ but pretty darn close. She did not test positive until a few days after I did and she only had it orally so if she was the source I got it orally from her. Odds favor I gave it to her not the other way around because she only gives CBJ at work. I test monthly as I hobby and my wife's job adds to the risk. Second, I played it safe with all the ladies I see between when I tested positive and my last clean screening. I informed each of them of my test results. 1 of the 3 ladies I know well and she showed me her test results when I asked her about it she came out negative. The other 2 I have no clue but everything was covered with them and one was a FBSM with a CBJ ending. If that provider was the source I got it from oral contact covered at that. The other one still could have been the source but everything was covered. Still possible but the odds are long. The 10 hours before my last clean test I had a BBBJ from a provider who shortly after I found out I had chlamydia emailed me and told me she had oral chlamydia and I needed to get tested. According to the CDC you can get chlamydia from oral sex and there is a window between contact with the disease and a positive screening making her and the BBBJ she gave me the most likely source. Is it possible that my wife gave it to me orally? Yes, but since she never had it vaginally or anally it would have to be orally transmitted. Could it be one of the two ladies that I seen but didn't see the test results for? Yes, but one only provided a CBJ and the other everything was covered. So is it possible I got it from a non oral source but then the cover would have had to fail to protect me and she must also have been positive herself, long odds but possible. Or I got it from a lady who was positive for oral chlamydia and gave me a BBBJ which according to the CDC can spread the disease. Now you know as much as I do on how I got it. I guess it proves what my 8th grade health teacher said, "There is no such thing as safe sex just safer sex." Play safe and test often.