met Chloe back in 2019. She disappeared at end 2019 She showed back up on eros the beginning of 2023 and we have spent a lot of time together this year. 2-3 times a week for the last 7 months
Chloe told me many stories surrounded by lies about wanting to get out business, get married, needing help…... Please do not believe her.
Hell I thought we were friends .
Anyway about a month ago she decided to disappear again from online. We stayed in touched and I told her I could not see her in the business any longer because of my feelings and would be willing to help her get out the business and do something new for her and those that depend on her. My mistake! I gave her a lot of cash the last month, just gave it only to be told in many many words that I was nothing to her. I think it hurt me more because I thought we were friends at the least. I realize I know nothing about this person. Nothing! All false.
Anyway I started this post once before and deleted only to come back and write this because I did not want any guy out there to be sucked into the lies.
I do believe she has some dude in her life and possibly another expected/unexpected personal development . Who knows!!!!
You’ve been warned!!(Caveat emptor)
If you’d like more information then reach out.
made none the less sordid by its oft repetition.
Heed these words that they may not be too late for you.
Lol you can’t make a hoe into a house wife. What are you looking for in a wife? She young & hot. I was in my 20’s once & lying to customers is all part of the fantasy when you’re young, and dumb. I am almost positive she has a pimp/boyfriend. After looking at her ad she’s a money maker. She offers quick visits, half hours & doubles with more, than likely her wifey. Sorry this happened to you, but let’s be realistic. I applaud you for sharing your experience.
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Amen
Live and learn
Hopefully????
Thank you so much for those words.I’ve been doing this kinda stuff since I was 18 in the Corps and always kept my feeling in check. This was so often it felt different, it felt real. I guess I need to remember this is just a transaction. TY
Where did the OP say he was looking for a wife? She's a hustler and not interested in long term biz IMO.
Steph XO
The comment was tongue in cheek, or wherever else a tongue might wander.
I’m not looking for wife. Lol
But do trust your spidey sense. I read between the lines that you sensed something amiss based on her disappearances.
And as for what I said about a book by its cover--some covers do kinda scream "Warning Will Robinson!".
younger providers in their 20's. Mature ladies know that cultivating a long-term relationship with those customers they get along with best can last for years and ultimately result in much higher revenue over the long term than what they might get from a quick hustle. The younger ones can't understand why anybody would want to keep seeing them for years, so the chance to make a quick score for a sizable amount of money is too enticing to pass up.
The "friendship" you have with a provider is the same as you have with other people you do business with. Insurance agent, real estate agent, car dealer, etc., are all people I can play golf with once in a while, but I certainly would never give any of them a wad of cash simply because they said they want to change jobs or get married. If you are going to stay in this game, leave your emotions at home. It's a business transaction, just like having a $500 dinner with wine. Enjoy it for what it is, and don't try to make it something it's not.
I actually had this happen to me by the very 1st provider I ever contacted. Another provider was actually the one to give me a wake-up call and set me straight. Bless her.
You're right, cdl.
Don't get caught up in a fairy tale.
A prostitute that deceives. You seem a bit prone to these situations. BTW, can you send me $800 to see Ms. Chloe to verify your claim? Thank you.
One of the classic "Prostitutes with a heart of gold" is Sonya in Crime and Punishment. I don't think that scenario applies here but I'm still going to try to give this a positive spin for you.
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Chloe knows enough about herself that she knows that she is bad for you. She might have tried to "save you" before with kinder words but this time she just tried ending it (saving you) by ripping it off like a band-aid. A theatrical "No, we must part ways! I'm not good enough for you!" [head turned away; forearm to forehead] might not do the trick. It sounds like you'd try to stick by her and prove her wrong.
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So, whatever she actually said might have been hurtful BUT EFFECTIVE. At least I (and others here) hope it's effective. DO NOT WALLOW IN THIS!! I think you'd be best to move on and find someone else for hourly comfort and yet someone else for possible long-term comfort and more.
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Good luck!
Posted By: Mikejones66
met Chloe back in 2019. She disappeared at end 2019 She showed back up on eros the beginning of 2023 and we have spent a lot of time together this year. 2-3 times a week for the last 7 months
Chloe told me many stories surrounded by lies about wanting to get out business, get married, needing help…... Please do not believe her.
Hell I thought we were friends .
Anyway about a month ago she decided to disappear again from online. We stayed in touched and I told her I could not see her in the business any longer because of my feelings and would be willing to help her get out the business and do something new for her and those that depend on her. My mistake! I gave her a lot of cash the last month, just gave it only to be told in many many words that I was nothing to her. I think it hurt me more because I thought we were friends at the least. I realize I know nothing about this person. Nothing! All false.
Anyway I started this post once before and deleted only to come back and write this because I did not want any guy out there to be sucked into the lies.
I do believe she has some dude in her life and possibly another expected/unexpected personal development . Who knows!!!!
You’ve been warned!!(Caveat emptor)
If you’d like more information then reach out.
Thank you so much for those words.
Not all ladies in the biz are like her. You got hustled and it's not a good feeling. The fact that she was mean afterwards speaks to her character or lack thereof.
I like the people I spend time with a lot or I wouldn't see them. She seems to be in this for quick money, not building a relationship that will last with her clients. Sooner or later bad business practices that this catch up with the young blood with this mindset. I have friendships with people I've known for a long time. There is trust between us.
Don't judge us all by this bad experience. This too will pass. 
Steph XO
Thank you so much for you comment. I have been seeing providers well over 35 years and have never felt this way about any of them. Thought we were friends. Thanks again
Thank you and I know all providers are not the same
You learned a lesson.
Be smarter in the future even though you should be smart enough for that now.
If you start doing things like this again, which usually leads to bad outcomes, at least offer to assist in non financial ways. I'll help you haul that thing you need moved, I'll give you a ride to school so you can get your degree and "escape this lifestyle", etc.. They refuse these things and only need financial assistance it's a pretty good sign they don't really need help, they need more money. More of YOUR money.
But damn dude! She's not even that attractive! Mediocre looks and a fat ass! What the hell is wrong with you? At least be stupid over someone hot and fantasy worthy.
That's what this lifestyle is all about, seeing women usually unattainable by joe six pack and living a fantasy, not settling for the chubby girl that couldn't outrun her brothers because she's too chunky.
Yes you might like each other and have passionate times together but at the end of the day it’s a business just like any other. I like most of my clients but I couldn’t see myself marrying any of them and I don’t tell them so. Just enjoy the time for what it is, a none attachment exchange.
Thank you so much for the feedback
Beware what? That someone might be as foolish as Mike and fall into a misguided love trap?
Damn that’s a nice ass lol.
