Once you start hobbing for awhile, you noticed that there are some really fugly women walking around on the street, especially during the summer time like now.....

I find myself noticing hot women a lot more than I used to. Like tonight, I was in a bar/restaurant having dinner with a group of friends. I noticed a 30-ish woman walking down the aisle.  She wasn't gorgeous, though quite attractive, but the way she walked, her confident manner, and her open leather jacket that showed ample, perky breasts bouncing just so under a thin knit blouse (with I suspect no bra) caught my gaze. I also noticed some of the female waitstaff were wearing tight jeans that showed off some great curves.

I've found that I like a very large variety of sizes and shapes and looks.
 The providers I've seen have been mostly a variety of ages and looks. Thin, big, big boobs, small tits etc.
It's been quite eye opening.
But I guess, I just like women.

When, I walk around I see women, I surely want to fuck

I get to see some of them at work. At least in the winter things are more covered up.

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Before you start trashing the women, are you good looking? And for the record I don't START trashing the men first. I will, however, respond in kind if I find the blatant shit throwing just a way to put women down.

You know, I've only been on TER for a few days, but that's one of the FIRST things I noticed.  A surprising number of men seem perfectly comfortable showing just how rude, misogynistic, and generally bitter they are... despite knowing that their future choice in provider may very well be reading their posts.  The OP was probably the least offensive thing I've read in that vein, but that attitude is surprisingly pervasive around these parts.

We all know the score - guys buy nookie for the obvious reasons, no sense in restating the obvious to all and hurting feelings of the innocent and decent guys out there in order to strike back at an insensitive dude or two. Why lower yourself to their level?  I always appreciate the ladies who show their class by rising above.  I gravitate toward women who deal with the knuckleheads with humor and grace.  

is a new guy in a candy store and is running off at the mouth without thinking and might be abashed when he realizes he was essentially heaping scorn on other women.

I treat others how I am treated either directly or in general.

Guys can disagree with you and as long as they are not being a douchebag you argue with points not with attacks. For example our disagreement on client reviews. The second the guy proves to be a douchebag you give them it right back. I like that can dish it out when given it, but doesn't dish it out all the time.

show their asses on social media! The thing is, things are saturated here as there are more men showing their asses sorta speak. For one, those men don't care what you think about what they are saying. Well at least I hope they do not!!! Even the assholes. Imo, be one with your convictions no matter how asinine they are to the point of not caring who may dislike.  I would assume the many ladies now who show their asses via social media do not care either. It gets to a point though, one has to ask themselves, does it all really matter in P4P. I will say this though. I can understand how a providers persepctive would be more serious as far as what is said on these boards than a gents as far as what is said by ladies on here or social media for the most part. You all are more vulnerable in these situations. I do understand that! I just hope you're talking about serious stuff and not rhetoric or ideas/opinions you dislike. To me, that's taking it a tad bit too serious. Male/female, the same but to each their own as to whom they want to be around in any circumstance in life.

walking down the street . Providers aren't exempt from that.

but why talk to them at all?  they aren't going to learn.

are you looking so hard? I mean I have very interesting tastes when it comes to women. Especially those in the Civvie world. Not so much in the hobby world. But you can find something unattractive about every lady? I suppose by your last statement you are referring to the whole being. Mental, physical, emotional and all. Well ok, I can agree there! But not physically. I for one love imperfections physically. They can be extremely cute and sexy. Depending on what they are. Lol.

If for no other reason than the incredible satisfaction of saying "no" to the ones who deserve it

You can be silent and just take their constant shit or what I have found, and has also been documented, is that bullies are inherent cowards and a good dose usually sends them packing.  

Or is it only the hooker that have to be passive and take it. You know, not to hurt the johns feelers and all?  

my my friend at work (who is about my age) what I was up to, and showed him some pictures he kinda nailed it with...It must be hard for you to drive a Minivan now that you have driven Ferraris.