on a recent visit with a very lovely, very enthusiastic lady, we had engaged in a slow, intense session of oral sex, me on her.
After what I perceived as a successful effort, the lady in question pulled me up, gave me a big kiss, looked me in the eye, and said "thank you, you eat pussy like a woman".

Now, this wasn't the first time I've been told this. I seem to get that response quite often by the ladies I see.
I suppose it's a compliment, but I never asked.

My question is...
What does this really mean?
Is it something good?
Am I doing something right?

I'm not trying to ride an ego trip, but, I would really like to know.
Maybe, after 56 years, I really can do something right.

I would appreciate your comments.

Just my opinion...
B

that she meant it as a compliment.
Bravo
-J

We'll have to rely on the ladies to explain matters of technique.

Give yourself A VERY BIG pat on the back.  That could be shortlisted for The Ultimate Sexual Compliment Award.

The late Sam Kinison had a bit where he speculated that men really ought to study lesbian lovemaking, as they would finally know how to pleasure a woman sexually. Women really know how to please other women he speculated, and what women do  with and to each other sexually is the Holy Grail od sexual technique.  They're like little butterflies, he specualted.

This bit can be found on either "Hotter Than Hell" or "Have You Seen Me Lately?"  Both released in the late 1980s, both no doubt out of print.

Even if you learn nothing, you will puke yourself sick with laughter, especially with "Hotter Than Hell."

You can rest assured you're being given one hell of a compliment. Women are simply, IMHO the best at this.

I can see how you might have thought otherwise. I just thought of the "you throw like a girl" comment.

I would expect that she means that you can find her spots just as well as if you had one of your own.

I would take this as a very high complement.

I have asked if women are better than men at this and the answer has been 'yes', so I would take it as a major compliment.

What are your rates? Do I have to fill out a pre-screening form? Do you need references?

and the explanation I got was that "I piddled down there and most men don't take the time to piddle". I took it as a compliment and went back to piddling.

by more than one lovely lady, that I might be a lesbian trapped in a man's body. I take it as a compliment.

I will go on as long as you will let me.

Just my opinion...
B

I'm a bisexual trapped in a hermaphrodite's body.

Choices, choices, so many bloody choices.  But at least, potentially, I'm never shut out except when i fall into the unwelcome company of the celibate and the abstinent.

Great...like I don't heap enough pressure on myself when I'm with a woman...now I gotta perform orally like a lesbian?!

Less we forget, the connection we sometimes make is often about willingness, readiness, trust... and yes luck... I've been there, I hope all men learn to selflessly give that to a lover and even if she says nothing, she'll know and she'll be glad... I sat with an old friend tonight and she reminded that what she liked about me all these years was that when we were an item, how I kept her and us in the moment; how effortless sex was between us; how I would push all the right buttons and never asked how am I doing; how I seemed to know... It's what we live for on a certain level. Glad you got there before that knock on your door comes fellow traveler...

When I was a young man I was seeing a older lady and she  told me if you want to learn how to eat pussy right have a women teach you how. She explained to me and I know every women is differant but I still use her way to this day and I never had a complaint.

My question is...
What does this really mean?
Is it something good?
Am I doing something right?

It means you obviously hit all the right spots, know exactly where, when, how much or how  little pressure to apply to the parts that only a lady would know due to being female.

That is definently a good thing!

Ive had gentleman before that I swear had lesbian roommates at some point in their life...lol  I asked a guy that one time and of course, he had lived with 2 lesbians which showed him the ropes...thank you ladies!!

It also means you are very much in tune with the female body and taking the time to assure her the pleasure, rather than getting yourself off watcing her squirm for your own satisfaction.  Women DO take that into consideration when it comes to DATY.

Then there are those that HAVE NO CLUE as there are women who think performing oral on a man is simply like bobbing for apples, which of course it NOT the case..lol

come on now! nobody gets bored with the sweet gentle, gentlemenly soft as a kitty!
There is something for the animal rip my undies off and throw me into the bed and then....
kiss me softly!

You then realize that they know exactly how every touch of the tongue feels to each other. Not only do  they know exactly where to lick and when, but the giver  draws sympathetic pleasure from knowing it.

There's also a freedom and playfulness to it.

In other words, it's a very high compliment.

me too

unmanly lip ..... sorry dude - you got woman lips.

I think I can take that as a compliment.

Just my opinion...
B