I can't say that there is anything that you're doing wrong. NCNS are part of the business but there are some things that will help keep those numbers down: 1) screen well, folks are more likely to at least call and let you know if they have afforded you their information. 2) check to be sure who your booking is not a known time-waster (some of these folks do it for fun). Dangerzone411 can be very helpful with your research in this area as well as provider boards in the local area. 3) check references - occasionally I do hear back from another provider that someone is unreliable. You MAY not want to schedule someone like so flakey and risk the NS
Some people on the boards say to make appointments with two ladies in case one cancels. My clients also want my address. I ask them to call me from another location first. What am I doing wrong?
Sweetie...I dont think you are doing anything wrong! Security and your comfort level is for you do determine, not the client. Ive been sent to 2 addesses before and thought it curious but said to myself...oh well..so long as she is happy and they are close together. I certainly didnt cancel on her. Your question about NCNSs and you being the backup plan is a good one though Shilo..there may be something to it if your getting a lot (like 2-3+ a day) something is wrong. Making double appointments is just wrong and I would never do it unless they were tentative and there was a clear understanding with my date beforehand. I dont think this is too common, but I'd like to hear the boards views since Im not an expert. Hope this helps a little Shilo!
to make a date with two providers at the same time and expect no repercussions! I guess it would be no problem if one of the two does a NCNS or a cancellation on you, but what are the chances of that? If both girls make the appointment, what do you do then? Do you have a duo when neither girl was expecting that? I think they will both understand what you did and neither one would see you! Besides that, most girls won't consider a duo without knowing at least one of the other participants beforehand! Do you pull a NCNS on the one who arrives later than the other? I think either of those choices would be a good way to wind up an some DNS lists! Even the girl who had the date with you will be upset when she learns what you did to the other one! And I think you can count on her finding out. She will think "I would have wasted my whole evening if I had been two minutes later than I was!"
Bottom line: double booking is classless, arrogant, and a no-win situation!
I can't say that there is anything that you're doing wrong. NCNS are part of the business but there are some things that will help keep those numbers down: 1) screen well, folks are more likely to at least call and let you know if they have afforded you their information. 2) check to be sure who your booking is not a known time-waster (some of these folks do it for fun). Dangerzone411 can be very helpful with your research in this area as well as provider boards in the local area. 3) check references - occasionally I do hear back from another provider that someone is unreliable. You MAY not want to schedule someone like so flakey and risk the NS
He is a newbie and said he read my reviews and website. He arrived early to check out the location so he said and desided he wanted to get a room down the street. Was he LE and wanted to set me up...Who knows. Was he someone who might have wanted to hurt me and saw the maid service hanging out front ready to clean any vacant room and didn't like the idea of someone being so close..
One never knows the reason so always watch your back..I have reasons for doing the things I do to protect me and if someone is not happy then I pass them by.
Just think you can get murdered at the nicest place in town so i'll choose a place where I feel safe and let them walk.We also don't know if that lady screened her friendly gentlemen or not. I bet she did which may not be what others are thinking with a link to CL.
If you have a permanent incall location make them go though hoops if that makes you feel safe. Once they have your address you are a sitting duck.
When you check a client's references ask about their punctuality and reliability. If a client cancels at the last minute and has to re-schedule and then is late, make sure you tell the next provider if he uses you for a reference I always schedule my appointments in advance and so far have never had to cancel a meeting with a provider.
will often have a plan "B" but it should not be a set date, just someone else to see in case the lady cancels at the last minute. Maybe it is a phone number to call just in case.
Hobbyists should not make two dates for the same time!
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