and a baby maturating in her womb? As long as I live I will never understand that strange fetish.

Is there a wedsite for Pregnant Providers?

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I don't know of any website though. There's an Aussie girl here, I think in SC (?) who was advertising as a preg provider practically right up until birth... and then came back a little later as a lactating provider. She's pretty hot, and has an unbelievable body just a few months after giving birth.

I can picture a husband and wife doing it,as an extension of their love for each other I suppose but beyond that,it's totally alien to me as to why it would be a fetish,let alone a popular one.

a friend of mine is a few months along, and very petite most of the weight went to her breast, hips, and thighs.

She says all her girlfriends are asking if she is having twins. Obviously because the weight shows on her small frame. I said to her "you sure look good to me, but I don't feel that it's appropriate for me to say this, since it is not my baby".

And yet, you did.  Quite a way with words you've got, vern, you ol' smoothie.

There are some fetishes that get me hot, some that I understand but don't want to try, and some that disgust me or just confuse me - I don't understand why they are sexy.

But we are all different, we like different things, different foods, different perversions. If you are on this site because you like to pay women for sex, there are some people who would vilify you and gladly send you screaming off to hell. There are several states where it is still illegal to perform oral sex on your partner EVEN if you are married. Do you like oral sex, Rusty?

If you can't apply a little intellectual understanding to these issues, than you become one of the people who strongly believe that the world should center around their own opinions - that anybody who has wilder sex than me is a pervert and anybody who is more vanilla than me is a repressed coward. If only everybody else would do exactly the same as me, the world would be a much better place.

You should of seen the look I was getting, until after I said that last part.

And EROS, and BP, and everywhere else providers advertise. They are out there.
I know if one a couple years ago who basically said she was going to be active until her water broke, and I think she was. Got amazing reviews here too. Right after she popped she went right back to work and offered milk sessions. A little over a year later, her sister did the same thing.

Not my scene but to each his own, and there are definitely pregnant providers out there.

I understand completely. Hey,I was completely vilified by posters in the 'porn stars' section when I posted a thread about a porn star I liked named Dee.Long story short,I expressed my dissatisfaction about communicating with her on a paid website when I was given the runaround and thought it would be a good topic to post but the response from posters was,shall we say,lack of 'a little intellectual understanding'.lol They called me 'creepy','stalker','obsessive' and highly recommend I 'get a life'.So I know the feeling that if you are preceived different you get attacked with the obtusiveness of moral superiority...from a bunch of guys who frequent prostitutes and watch porn. lol

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I don't think that the fetish idea should make you feel dirty- whether you want to indulge it or not.

I think pregnancy is a beautiful thing- it is the point at which a woman is in her most miraculous stage in life! It is easy to see why some men would be attracted to this. It is pure magic, and connecting to that magic in a sensual way is perfectly natural, in my opinion.

But many people have preexisting notions of where fetishes come from (weird people, perverse, etc.), or have some discomfort surrounding "different" aspects of sexuality due to things in their own world views (past experiences, early-formed opinions, etc.), and can't get past that so they get the creepies. Understandable, I suppose, and each person must 100% respect their own inclinations (as you are doing).

I love that about you- you are so in tune with your own boundaries and beliefs. That's what I mean by people needing to be 100% true to their own inclinations. It's the people who don't know themselves well enough to know what those are that could have problems.

Objectively speaking, sexualizing pregnancy seems natural to me because it is the ultimate expression of womanhood. At a most primal level, it conveys to males that the woman is fertile and is able to copulate successfully- probably a very heady primordial pheromone signal that speaks to the most visceral part of a man. But after a time in a society that vilifies alternative sexual proclivities (such as fetishes or sexual orientation), I imagine that people's sexual world views have conformed to some extent to a certain denial of the primal. And thus many people would be creeped out by it.

I don't know how I would feel in your situation, and perhaps I would be extremely uncomfortable with a stranger who sexualized my gestational state. But not being pregnant (with all the energetic and hormonal changes and "tuning" that occur), and speaking objectively (to some extent), I can understand the sexualization and it doesn't feel dirty to me. But again, I am not presuming to speak for anyone else and allow that many people find it creepy or dirty. Or just don't want to share it with someone who is not special.

I send you loving energy for your amazing process! You're a beautiful woman.

edited to add: It would be interesting to find out if women who prefer women have any pregnancy fetishes!!

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up pregnancy fetish for lesbians on the internet, and sure enough it seems to be quite popular! Who knew??

http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Have-A-Fetish-For-Pregnant-Women/743746
(read the comments- pretty fascinating!)

http://jezebel.com/5901454/the-pregnancy-fetish-as-explained-by-pregnancy-fetishists
1. "[A] 2011 questionnaire/study that found lactating/pregnancy fetishes are more common in older siblings."
2. "And it isn't just men. 'Lea' is a 24-year-old with a pregnancy fetish. 'She is fertile and has successfully created life. As a lesbian, I have the choice to become pregnant. This makes us, women, god like, powerful, rulers of life,' she says. 'That is sexy.' And seriously, while it is sometimes downplayed in art and literature, giving birth is the human experience. Like by default. So maybe we can see where that might be worthy of some sort of worship, sexual or otherwise."

http://www.nerve.com/news/love-sex/pregnancy-fetishism-is-investigated-by-cnn
"It's like wearing a billboard sign on your body: 'I! Had! Sex!'"

I was dating a girl and saw an old glamor shot when she was pregnant years ago.  I thought it was beautiful and sexy, she said her husband at the time wouldn't go near her.

While I think pregnant woman are beautiful and sexy and I have seen a couple of pregnant providers, I have no interest in the lactating part that may turn others on.

Some guys have a foot fetish, lactating, cucold, bondage all of which does nothing for me but I don't begrudge thier tastes.

Different things turn people on.

Its sacred to me as well. Also there are risks here ones we take as adults willingly. I can't put a chi.d in that situation its not right.
Even the most careful and cautious person here is taking a risk. This iswhy we get tested nothing is a guarantee I could never be ok with that. That's just me choices others make are up to them I don't judge.

As a provider, we are in a very high risk job, and bringing your baby into this, is not exactly going to win you mother of the year. Call me judgmental if you like, but I don't much care. That child did not CHOOSE to be a hooker...you did! Personally, the idea of having random men who pay me, fkin me whilst a child is inside of me, would cause me to vomit. Anyone other than that child's father or a guy I am really dating, would never touch me whilst pregnant.

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