on the length of the appt.

Plain and simple.

It just depends, and you're doing the right thing by moving on, when you come across an ad that refers to "pampered and refreshed".  But not everyone shares your opinion. And that's why there's all types of services.

The Ads You Are Referring To That Have Words Like Pamper And Other Words...

in that order are ads that are written by respectable, reviewed escorts, that "KNOW" what is legal and appropriate to write in our ads and not against the rules of which ever ads website we are posting our ads on!!  We will write our ads the way we always do and we have no problems getting clients.  They are nice and decent, respectable clients, who treat us like ladies!  Not rude, crude and bossy like you who doesn't know or care about what is appropriate!

Not everyone is looking for the same experience, nor is every provider selling the same experience.  We are not in the Model-T car era where you can have every color so long as it's black.

Sounds like you want a PSE kind of thing.  Some of us prefer the GFE approach (not just talking a series of activities).  Different providers apeal to different parts of the market.  I'm guessing you like the CL/BP kind of descriptions.  Go for it.

Oh yeah, I'm gonna put a laundry list of acronyms in my ad. GREAT idea. While I'm at it, to make things REALLY convenient, I'll just print my ad out and hand carry it down to the local leo's for greater convenience in busting me. On account of I'm an Einstein and spelled everything out plain as day for them.

I don't put much stock in ads. If I read a lady's reviews, and the activities I wish to participate in are reported to be activities she's participated in, I really don't care if she use's the word pamper or refreshed, or any other words.

It's clear it depends on the guy and from my visitors it does lol some are very much do it themselves and some want me to cater to them like a hot lil' maid or something. I never advertise pampering or spoiling a guy but I feel they should know they'll be treated well either way. Some guys just wanna f**k and some want an escape for a little while.