So, I have a curiosity.  Do escorts ever have boyfriends or husbands?  Are they fully aware and supportive of the work their significant others do?

Some have talked to me about their husbands or boyfriends.  Others haven't mentioned them, so I'm not sure. Some have explicitly stated they have no current boyfriends.

I dated a provider for over a year, when I found out she was a provider she broke up with me, told me she could not fuck me and all those guys at the same time.  Just as well, I was planning on marrying her, glad I found out before I lost half of everything lol.  Now I only fuck providers, everyone knows the game

I've met a couple of them. Good guys that obviously really love their ladies. Those couples started off in the swinging lifestyle and went from there. One couple will do FMM sessions too.
They all seem to have really great relationships. I always thank the SO for sharing their woman with me.  
I've also been in a short relationship with provider. It was an interesting ride. Really cool lady, there were just some other life changes that made it impractical to continue.

That's the standard line used by some of the ladies here. I understand that thinking for fucking, and obviously support it financially,  but real relationships cost a lot more than just fucking.
My experience with real life relationships has been financially and emotionally expensive. No resentments here, just realistic.  

Just like you guys. We aren't unlovable beings that noone wants, plenty of humans out there can accept sex work as a fair living. Being a sex worker doesn't automatically disqualify us from love.  

The more mature the provider is, and the longer she has been a provider, seem to have a lot to do with her being able to compartmentalize work sex versus personal sex without any drama. On the other side, I have met several, mostly girls in the business only a year or two, that say if they have a RL relationship, it negatively affects their work because they are more reserved with their customers.  Some even feel like cheaters when they're working, so they say they just can't handle an SO while they're in this business.  

When they are not fucking mongers for money they hang upside down in the closet like bats.

I'm not sure how many think they should not.  I think they wonder how it works out.

I think it is fine for a provider to have SO...... but honesty is the key so both parties understand..... telling your SO you are too sore to fuck from doing bear crawls at the gym when the truth is you had 3 clients pop a blue pill so they could see how many pops they could get for their 200 bucks each.... that's bullshit.  So be honest or don't bother, at least that's the way I see it

Here's a thread that might take a few of us down memory lane. lol

I don’t know who said it first, but THAT is funny as hell, and most likely true!

nm

But I highly doubt you made it up.  Anyway, you snooze, you lose! rofl

Yeah, there are lots of double standard people in this world. My view of what we do doesn't change if the lady that I'm having this arrangement  with , has a BF or husband or doesn't.

Having a real relationship in this business... ugh!
It's not the business it's me. I'm a cheater and a sexual deviant . So, I'll leave the relationships, love, and soft and pink shit to those who still believe in Santa Claus

Dear Melissa,  
What are the biggest challenges with finding and maintaining a relationship while being active in the hobby?  Also what types of guys are most ideal for those woman who work as a companion? Also what is your approach when you first meet someone and how do you know at what point to broach the subject of your occupation?

........ we'll be able to order overpriced organic heauxs at the Amazon discounted price.

That's what I really like about a lot of the ladies in this.  A lot of them are in acceptance of who they are, so there is a deeper level of honesty.

...she ever got married, she would cheat.

I am not a "cheater" because I don't make promises that I KNOW I can't and won't keep.

She had some o's only after u left! 😉😉

Are you asleep?  She's a sexual deviant.  Introduce yourself!!!!

At least one of the women I have seen had a live in boyfriend, and a child. I try not to delve into the personal lives of my co-workers, why should I delve into the personal lives of escorts? I practice keep my personal life personal, and be professional at my job, why would an escort not do so?

I have a ton of BFs! I also have a few I refer to as "hubby" but they all still pay me 😎😚
XOXO  
TL

Like GaG said, it's only cheating if promises were made.  

You know what a woman's asshole does when she climaxes.....

I tried out a supremely wonderful sexual deviant a few weeks ago.
She owns me now! Lol

And if you can't tell I know what my wife does for fun and profit. I also know more than a few husbands and boy friends of providers.

Pretty sure she DID have a dozen O's before you got you pants off, GaGa. But that was because she was still thinking about the guy before you.   Not saying it was me.....
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Yeah... not saying it was me.  :p