Are providers psychic Meryld Streep's?

I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.

Porn is what you're looking for.

Posted By: donbecker54

I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.  
   
 Y'all (I've been in the south 3+ years now, so I can use that) seem to be able to sense various things about us guys: if we're married, what we like, etc.  
   
 I posted some comment about signs of a real female orgasm, and was told that providers can fake those. Signs I've experienced or read about include very rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, increase in skin temperature, heavy breathing, muscle contractions, dilated pupils, difficulty speaking, sweating, and more.  
   
 From responses I've read, it would seem that providers can fake all that, which leads me to the question: why aren't you in Hollywood, instead of motel rooms? There's money to be made with that kind of acting talent.

Very funny.

A few of them were painfully blunt as well.

Posted By: donbecker54

Very funny.  
   
 It's not porn. My ex (God, I hate to keep using her as an example) exhibited almost all of the orgasm signs I mentioned in my post, and then some.

Hard to believe, I know.  It's not really a good thing either.  I try to keep myself from orgasming to avoid losing steam and engorging egos but sometimes it's unavoidable.

That was a really "hot" scene...and very convincing  LO

I'm telling the truth lol, and my clients generally don't know I'm cumming because I try to hide it.  And no, I can't do a Meg Ryan, I'm a horrible actress.

If it were that easy, everyone would already be an actress. It takes more than acting skills to actually get an audition. I personally hate LA, and would never live there. Most of the serious jobs are cast there

Oh, I know, ChgoCPA. There's plenty who can contract their vagina's, scream, sweat, and do their nails at the same time.

Might be different for dom's or those catering to fantasy/role play, but what I do is really more akin to customer service than acting. About the orgasm thing - I'd venture to say that most, if not all, women are born knowing how to convincingly fake one. Or ten.  

Your fav provider and entertain yourself on ter at the same time, you'll be a seasoned pro at this hobby
hehehe

Posted By: donbecker54

Oh, I know, ChgoCPA. There's plenty who can contract their vagina's, scream, sweat, and do their nails at the same time.  
   
 I just find it either fascinating or unbelievable that some are able to control body temperature, sweat on command, do rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, dilate their pupils, etc. That's the stuff of Oscar awards.  
   
 I'm having fun. I'm having almost as much fun reading the posts here as I am boinking my provider.

I don't think I can type and do the other stuff. Besides, I'd rather look at her than this monitor, no matter how fascinating the conversation here.

In a hotel, the rooms are entered from an enclosed hallway.  In a motel you enter the room directly from a parking lot, from which you can be observed by LE.  This is why motels are a bad place to visit a provider.

Because I became irritated with the way some clients acted after I achieved a real O.  There are those I don't try to hide it from because I know it doesn't get to their heads.  However just because I orgasmed with a client doesn't give him the right to say something like "I've gave you such a great time you should be paying me" or "since I made you orgasm can I get a discount since we have so much fun together?"  There are too many big headed hobbyist and I hate the facial expression gloating creates.

He's sure that when a hooker does the leg cross, sweating, turn flush, screaming that she's having an O.

When I'm enjoying myself, I'm busy enjoying myself. I don't look or act like I just stuck my finger into an electrical socket. But since I realize this tends to disappoint some people, I'll throw some theatrics into the mix, if that's what they seem to expect.

why is everyone worried about orgasms? ..just go balls deep and have fun...

Posted By: donbecker54

I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.  
   
 Y'all (I've been in the south 3+ years now, so I can use that) seem to be able to sense various things about us guys: if we're married, what we like, etc.  
   
 I posted some comment about signs of a real female orgasm, and was told that providers can fake those. Signs I've experienced or read about include very rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, increase in skin temperature, heavy breathing, muscle contractions, dilated pupils, difficulty speaking, sweating, and more.  
   
 From responses I've read, it would seem that providers can fake all that, which leads me to the question: why aren't you in Hollywood, instead of motel rooms? There's money to be made with that kind of acting talent.

Don and Rod are fairly new...looking for stuff that isn't part of the P4P world.

Posted By: macdaddy1944

why is everyone worried about orgasms? ..just go balls deep and have fun...  
   

Posted By: donbecker54

I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.  
     
  Y'all (I've been in the south 3+ years now, so I can use that) seem to be able to sense various things about us guys: if we're married, what we like, etc.  
     
  I posted some comment about signs of a real female orgasm, and was told that providers can fake those. Signs I've experienced or read about include very rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, increase in skin temperature, heavy breathing, muscle contractions, dilated pupils, difficulty speaking, sweating, and more.  
     
  From responses I've read, it would seem that providers can fake all that, which leads me to the question: why aren't you in Hollywood, instead of motel rooms? There's money to be made with that kind of acting talent.

ah yes..but some just search endlessly for the Holy Grail of O's..a couple of cups are good enough for me..

Posted By: ChgoCPA

Don and Rod are fairly new...looking for stuff that isn't part of the P4P world.  
   
 I suspect that in a few months they'll stop this quest for the big O.  
   
 Even Indy let the chalice go knowing it wasn't that important.  Well, maybe his Dad convinced him to let it go.  
   

Posted By: macdaddy1944

why is everyone worried about orgasms? ..just go balls deep and have fun...  
     

Posted By: donbecker54

I haven't been on this forum very long, but answers to questions I've asked have me wondering if providers aren't psychics with the acting skills of Meryl Streep.    
       
   Y'all (I've been in the south 3+ years now, so I can use that) seem to be able to sense various things about us guys: if we're married, what we like, etc.    
       
   I posted some comment about signs of a real female orgasm, and was told that providers can fake those. Signs I've experienced or read about include very rapid contractions of the vagina and uterus, increase in skin temperature, heavy breathing, muscle contractions, dilated pupils, difficulty speaking, sweating, and more.    
       
   From responses I've read, it would seem that providers can fake all that, which leads me to the question: why aren't you in Hollywood, instead of motel rooms? There's money to be made with that kind of acting talent.

But alas...another femme fatale that had to die.

yep..and he kept his hat on the whole time..Dad never could reach a cup..but they both " chose wisely "..

I'm guessing a bad choice....but after another NCNS I can see how that this might happen.

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Well I make noise if I'm with someone that I can let loose around, but I'm not loud.  More soft moaning and sighing I suppose.  Repressed orgasms are the worst, don't feel as good but they still make you just as tired.

But to dwell on it is insane.

I'd never made that distinction before, but thanks for clarifying it.

Lol!! I am loud. When I was learning to masturbate I had to be silent, and so I just by default orgasmed silently from then on. Somewhere around age 25 I decided to give in to my urge to make sounds, and I have never turned back. I have to put a pillow over my face now. I just love letting loose!  

While most of us can indeed fake almost anything, not all of us do. I would feel like I am cheating myself if I faked it. I expect pleasure from most situations in life and I am rarely disappointed, and this arena is no different. I can come like a champ, though (I think this ability has only increased with age), so it doesn't take any superhuman skill to get me there, over and over again. (Sometimes a directional nudge is needed, but gents are usually good at getting that.) And I can come as long as you want to make me. Sometimes I feel downright spoiled.

Yep...that's what all the johnnie boys want to hear!

Would never let you know that she would rather have a root canal with no anesthesia than fuck you.

Love the reply.  Just to let you know I for one believe every word you wrote.

Posted By: SoftlySarah

While most of us can indeed fake almost anything, not all of us do. I would feel like I am cheating myself if I faked it. I expect pleasure from most situations in life and I am rarely disappointed, and this arena is no different. I can come like a champ, though (I think this ability has only increased with age), so it doesn't take any superhuman skill to get me there, over and over again. (Sometimes a directional nudge is needed, but gents are usually good at getting that.) And I can come as long as you want to make me. Sometimes I feel downright spoiled.  
   
 Don't let the cynics get you down. Enjoy your connection with your friend- somewhere, on some level, your body knows the truth.  

But I have an audio of the guy who yells....

SoftlySarah, I wasn't questioning whether you or others do or do not fake, or have O's for that matter. I just think it's fascinating that some seem to have the ability to control various bio mechanisms in order to fake an O. I mean, dilating pupils or raising body temp is a pretty amazing skill. Not exactly in demand by Hollywood, though.

I don't think I disbelieve that you believe what SoftlySarah thinks you believe.

The nerve is dead so no need for any.

You should ask a gal what she was thinking when she was having that big O.

But I have read about the replacement balls.  Usually for cancer patients.

Lol! So true!! It's pretty amazing.  

dilating pupils may be due to being aroused during sex, but being aroused doesn't mean a lady is having an orgasm....or maybe she's on drugs.

#1, I'm skinny. #2 I don't lie on top of my partners.

Dudes would try in my everyday sex life before doing this. I could never get off. Now I have orgasms all the time. I'm not sure how this works, but I was ready to go to a sex psychologist as I thought something was wrong with me. Guess this job is doing me more good than bad! Lol.  

...wiggle my ears and jiggle my booteh all at the same time!!

Posted By: donbecker54

#1, I'm skinny. #2 I don't lie on top of my partners.  
   
 #3, all you said may be true. I'm talking about the totality of "faking it", and those who say they can do so. If they can, as I've said before, that's amazing. I've learned to control all sorts of things on my body (even my blood pressure), but I can't imagine being able to control body temp, dilation, etc.

And the sweating, we can use your #2 paragraph for that.

You seem to have this list of body reactions you got from somewhere.  

It's not a list I got somewhere. It's what I've noticed, and what other guys have noticed, when their SO's are having real orgasms. Before you question how I could be sure my ex was really having orgasms, I should point out that we were together for 45 years, and we also had to go to waterproof mattress covers because she's a squirter, and sometimes would leave a big puddle on the sheet.  

There seems to be some misconception about my original post. If you're one of those who thinks I'm seeking the "holy grail of hooker O's" (or however it was that ChgoCPA put it), you won't find that. Please read all of my replies if you think that's what this thread was supposed to be about.

I get that Don and so are some of the ladies here that can create Lake Titicaca. Maybe I am missing your point. I am not denying that you notice certain things, I am just adding that most things can be replicated in the biz and out, to preserve the ego of the guy. It is especially done in this biz to complete a fantasy

Ok seriously? How many providers fk you guys with the damn bright lights on? Well, when the room is dim, that's why her freaking pupils are dilated bwahahhaah. Fkin duh.

Don't worry....I got your post ha ha. You're not saying you care, just that you find it fascinating how it's so easy to fake this stuff, and we are not all in Hollywood because of that. To be honest, I think that's the only line I read before I replied lol.

I understand the need to fulfill the fantasy. I'm just fascinated by the skills possessed by at least some providers to do that. Those skills are almost as impressive as the skills required to really do the job.

It's the change in amount of dilation, not the dilation itself. Fkin duh right back at ya.

Well, yeah. I mean, it would be pretty hard for a guy to fake being excited, much less having an orgasm.

How can they read their favorite romance novels with their eyes closed?

Maybe LR should check out google glasses...can stay on TER or do the grocery list.

. . . Is a self absorbed, pretentious, shallow and potentially mind fucking place, but it is where I call home (lol)!