**This will be may last post for a while**  Why?  Why not?

I also think there is some truth to everything you've posted and that at some point in time, most of us have been guilty of one of the above. I got into the business because I was lazy and did not want to work for peanuts 40 hours a week, but can't say I feel that way now. In fact, I can't wait to start a job that helps me reach my real life goals career wise, and lets me take a step back from some of the poison associated with this business.  

They do it for any of the reasons listed, plus, possibly 1,000 other reasons.

DITTO.  

You don't make anything , create anything , so your not fulfilled , you don't need therapy , you need to find something that really makes you happy and when you do the rest falls into place . You like many others here are just looking for love in all the wrong places ! Hey , good luck to you .  

Posted By: Ridgetucky

**This will be may last post for a while**  Why?  Why not?  
   
 I am seriously considering leaving the Finance industry to become a teacher.  I need to take a break from all the bullshit and I realize some of it may be hobby related.  A high stress job has led me to this lifestyle and I probably need a break and I am considering going back into therapy.  
   
 Writing dirty words hookers bodies' is probably NOT normal  
   
 So with that being said.  I will start of by asking my question of "What do you really think about Providers?"  Since everyone seems to think I hate Providers.  
   
 My thoughts and then you join in, Um OK.  
   
 *  I have always wondered why a woman would do this.  1/2 do it for the $$$ and the other 1/2 do it for the same reasons I do.  They have something to prove.  What I don't know.    
   
 *  Some of these women have big egos and little egos at the same time.  They are very pretty but need the validation of a man paying them $$$ to accept their self worth.  
   
 *  About 10% of these women are true nymphs.  No one man could keep them satisfied.  
   
 *  Some of these women HATE men and this is a way to get back at them.    
   
 *  Some of these women are just too damn lazy to get a real job.  
   
 Your thoughts, Discuss amongst yourselves.  
   
 RT  
   
 

Money is definitely a good motivator, I agree with that. I think many see the money and get excited and live at their means, which can be pretty high. They then cannot save to get out of what was initially supposed to be temporary. The lifestyle can be addicting.

It's plainly obvious to anyone else that for you to show so much interest in the motivation of others it is only you with the deep seated insecurity regarding your delving into this realm. Your ego is too fragile to handle it. You're like 99% of men except you wear your issues like a highway billboard.

...the word "lazy" when referring to providers. Lazy would be the girl who spreads her legs and doesn't do anything, or even look at the man.

Actually discusses them . He used the board to find answers to the ? s he had . He ain't so dumb .  

How many doctors are in their profession for the money? I've sure as hell met a lot of them when going through my issues for years... hence, the reason I have over $100k in medical debt after paying tons already... because many were too lazy to find out what the hell was going on. Too many just throw medication at ppl for the symptoms, rather than finding the core issue.

I Love them?

Posted By: Ridgetucky

**This will be may last post for a while**  Why?  Why not?  
   
 I am seriously considering leaving the Finance industry to become a teacher.  I need to take a break from all the bullshit and I realize some of it may be hobby related.  A high stress job has led me to this lifestyle and I probably need a break and I am considering going back into therapy.  
   
 Writing dirty words hookers bodies' is probably NOT normal  
   
 So with that being said.  I will start of by asking my question of "What do you really think about Providers?"  Since everyone seems to think I hate Providers.  
   
 My thoughts and then you join in, Um OK.  
   
 *  I have always wondered why a woman would do this.  1/2 do it for the $$$ and the other 1/2 do it for the same reasons I do.  They have something to prove.  What I don't know.    
   
 *  Some of these women have big egos and little egos at the same time.  They are very pretty but need the validation of a man paying them $$$ to accept their self worth.  
   
 *  About 10% of these women are true nymphs.  No one man could keep them satisfied.  
   
 *  Some of these women HATE men and this is a way to get back at them.    
   
 *  Some of these women are just too damn lazy to get a real job.  
   
 Your thoughts, Discuss amongst yourselves.  
   
 RT  
   
 

Have made good money in the private sector. But they found easy money and didn't apply themselves. Yes , women who schedule , travel , and do this well would make $$$$$ s in the real world , but then again this is the world's oldest profession so it is real ? My question based on my statement us who us a "real provider" and who are those who are not ? That's a good topic if any care to throw their thoughts out there.  

Ridgetucky, are you still here?

OK, I'll bite. I was a photographer for decades, and worked with a lot of very talented ad agency people. How do they compare to providers? Let's use your list.

If you don't have that for a real job, you won't have it here either. Look at all the reviews about flaky hookers who are always late, have messy incalls, and don't even bother to shave their damn legs or pick up dirty towels off the floor. If anything, this business can be practice for those who have yet to have a real job, because you learn pretty damn quick what guys are willing to put up with. Of course, being young, dumb, and hot lends way to more forgiveness for stupidity. I have noticed this as well...guys will crucify any woman above 300 an hour for the smallest of things, but catch one who is hot as hell for half that rate, and she can have a pimp in the closet, yet still get good reviews.

Sex is just about the most natural thing in the world, second perhaps only to eating.  People need to do both, and they do the best with what they have - at least if they're lucky.

Trooffyness!!! People ask questions like this when they don't want to know the answers about themselves.. Lmao

Right , so who are the "real providers " ! I agree with you , I need more than a dumb pic , even if it is just 3 or 5 hours if "MY TIME" ! Oh, your so smart xoxo

But I do think of the idea of a world without them. I was going to post about it but I see the responses some guys get including Udo and this guy.

I don't think these boards have every had a more honest and down-to-earth provider spewing non-bullshit at us. It's pretty easy to see through the BS on this board and luckily there are a few besides you who seem genuine. I won't name names but I do post under them

That ur second and third options are correct

Nothing like some honesty on this board.

All studies point to your 2nd, 4th n 5th options(asterisks)

…all the time.  For the higher-end, much-sought-after providers, travel can often = one multi-day date in some desirable venue (often outside the US), in which case the client is going to be paying for airfare (often business-class or better) on top of whatever the donation is for the provider's time (on the plus side for the hobbyist, if the location is someplace the provider has a particular interest in visiting, she may be very negotiable on her rate)--and in some cases there is a "shopping budget" in those multi-day getaways on top of everything else.

For some providers, travel = touring.  This often means a higher rate charged by the provider (usually, it's the Detroit provider who is visiting LA or NY, not the other way around, y'know?).  So again, part of the cost of airfare/hotel is recaptured by charging the higher rate--and generally this kind of travel also means free time in a nice city and upscale hotel, which makes it easy for the provider to visit civvie friends and stuff (I don't know exactly why this is, but every provider has friends spread out over every major urban area in the country, more or less).

And then there are the providers who want a true vacation, and just want to take a couple of weeks and "get away from it all".  If they have a IRL SO, sometimes he goes with--sometimes he doesn't, either because of work or other commitments, or because she simply doesn't want to have to be concerned with pleasing any man at all for a little bit (most providers whom I know reasonably well seem to place a high value on their "me time"/"alone time").

So that's my take:  For most providers, the money is good and (one way or another) they get to do a lot of travel, often at "free" or effectively reduced rates.  If you're a young, fairly attractive woman with some amount of ability in the "people-reading" department, and can handle the idea of having strange men touch you, why not consider being a provider as a possible career?

I think hookers represent an honorable and ancient profession.  Unlike those in the finance industry

"Well congrats shithead" LMAO

Why do you insist on proving that, You are a shit head with every on of you posts?

"The day I get a man, I will always be sure to look and perform like a provider so he doesn't ever have to go to one."

Lots of good docs out there. It was only an example, but there are many I'm not happy with now.

I do this because for me it is a calling. I have an incredible capacity to love just about anyone. I can elicit any possible chemistry and magnify it when it exists, and create it where it doesn't. Truly create it- to the point that my body responds as if it were the most natural chemistry in the world. I see beauty in almost everyone, and I love to reflect that beauty back to them. I have rarely been as fulfilled in any other endeavor. I believe what we do is an art. I also know that I am not typical.  

I believe we attract exactly what we want in life- what we give energy to. We also attract mirrors- people around you reflect back to you all kinds of different aspects of yourself.

Sorry to steal that but I have seen it used by someone I admire from afar. Not sure why but I always find your contributions to be very attractive. Then I read this one and thought "damn, there is no way I could ever see her. She is to good for me!" And I am not being sarcastic. It is intended as a simple genuine compliment. Your words alone make you beautiful. Thank you, Sarah.

Posted By: SoftlySarah

I do this because for me it is a calling. I have an incredible capacity to love just about anyone. I can elicit any possible chemistry and magnify it when it exists, and create it where it doesn't. Truly create it- to the point that my body responds as if it were the most natural chemistry in the world. I see beauty in almost everyone, and I love to reflect that beauty back to them. I have rarely been as fulfilled in any other endeavor. I believe what we do is an art. I also know that I am not typical.  
   
 A big ego is just a sign of insecurity. Have compassion for those ladies.  
   
 I love providers- all of them. They are the most honest, resourceful, strong, and stalwart people I have met in any career. They are less likely to cave to convention than most other people, and more likely and able to live their lives for themselves. I've also met a couple crazy ones among us, but god love 'em too.  
   
 We all have any number of reasons for why we do this. Both the providers and the providees. But truthfully, no matter the reason, aren't you happy we're here?

Thank you for the sweet words.

A wonderful message.

Oh my goodness a voice of reason!

Beautiful words Sarah!

Being a hobbyist has been an incredible experience.  I've met some of the most outstanding, honest, loving, non-judgmental women. I don't have to spend a fortune on therapy because spending time with you beautiful sexy women lets me live my life with a smile on my face 90% on the time.  I have no vices, don't smoke, drink heavily, do drugs, gamble, play golf etc .and this is where I happily spend my money. What do I really think of providers???  I LOVE YOU ALL!!    So to quote from the movie Night Shift..."Is this a great country or what!

Well, some of them anyhow.
I've met a few that have hearts bigger than most people I know. ( London )
They are a little rough around the edges, but have to be to survive in this industry.
To be brutally honest though, we are paying them for a service. They expect us to buy and then move along....they have lives to live also.

Posted By: Ridgetucky

**This will be may last post for a while**  Why?  Why not?  
   
 I am seriously considering leaving the Finance industry to become a teacher.  I need to take a break from all the bullshit and I realize some of it may be hobby related.  A high stress job has led me to this lifestyle and I probably need a break and I am considering going back into therapy.  
   
 Writing dirty words hookers bodies' is probably NOT normal  
   
 So with that being said.  I will start of by asking my question of "What do you really think about Providers?"  Since everyone seems to think I hate Providers.  
   
 My thoughts and then you join in, Um OK.  
   
 *  I have always wondered why a woman would do this.  1/2 do it for the $$$ and the other 1/2 do it for the same reasons I do.  They have something to prove.  What I don't know.    
   
 *  Some of these women have big egos and little egos at the same time.  They are very pretty but need the validation of a man paying them $$$ to accept their self worth.  
   
 *  About 10% of these women are true nymphs.  No one man could keep them satisfied.  
   
 *  Some of these women HATE men and this is a way to get back at them.    
   
 *  Some of these women are just too damn lazy to get a real job.  
   
 Your thoughts, Discuss amongst yourselves.  
   
 RT  
   
 

Thank you Bree! It's ni e to know I am not the only one.