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Re: I can only guess
Roman_Bath 6 Reviews 2245 reads
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They’re often either cheaper or the provider is more willing to do them than FS. But why?  It seems to me that it actually takes more effort and skill on the lady’s part, while for the guy a bare BJ usually feels much better than covered FS. It’s often the one thing guys aren’t getting from their wives, and I’d imagine for the providers, if there’s some guys who come in with poor hygiene, this is one of the more “icky” parts of their job, other than kissing. And it would be understandable that actually swallowing some stranger’s bodily fluids would be gross for plenty of women. Yet so many providers do it, are good at it, seem to enjoy it, and willingly advertise it even before seeing the guy (unlike kissing, which is more rare and often seems to depend on the guy she’s with). It’s often the cheapest activity you can get. I’m definitely not complaining, just surprised.

Boobsman100 21 Reviews 89 reads
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2 / 34

Bj is usually a prelude to sex anyway,for many people, so whichever way you look at it, bj's might  be a part of the activity.  
Some women will be happy to give you a hand job or a hand job and fs.
This is a competitive industry so some women offer certain  services in an effort  to compete.
Nonetheless it all depends on the woman ,as some things may be easier for her than some.

Don't  you know that semen is rich in protein 😁.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 87 reads
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3 / 34

performing the BJ does not have to get undressed.  Most providers I have met will appreciate you taking a shower upon arrival and wash every part of your body where their mouth is likely to be, or I suppose you could sit in a Roman bath if you pay for enough time.  

 
The acids in your stomach can kill most anything that isn't already dead, so it's not a big deal to swallow, although most providers spit rather than swallow,  or if you are into snowballing . . . . . .

 
I believe the cheapest activity in hobbyland is still a handjob.  

impposter 49 Reviews 110 reads
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4 / 34

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/it-depends-on-what-the-meaning-of-is-is-1004405
It depends on what the meaning of is is.
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http://slate.com/news-and-politics/1998/09/bill-clinton-and-the-meaning-of-is.html
Bill Clinton and the Meaning of “Is”
“It depends on what the meaning of the word ‘is’ is.”
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BJ: fast, simple, no need to disrobe, faster to clean up and leave, ... some love to swallow, ...

Posted By: Roman_Bath

They’re often either cheaper or the provider is more willing to do them than FS. But why?  It seems to me that it actually takes more effort and skill on the lady’s part, while for the guy a bare BJ usually feels much better than covered FS. It’s often the one thing guys aren’t getting from their wives, and I’d imagine for the providers, if there’s some guys who come in with poor hygiene, this is one of the more “icky” parts of their job, other than kissing. And it would be understandable that actually swallowing some stranger’s bodily fluids would be gross for plenty of women. Yet so many providers do it, are good at it, seem to enjoy it, and willingly advertise it even before seeing the guy (unlike kissing, which is more rare and often seems to depend on the guy she’s with). It’s often the cheapest activity you can get. I’m definitely not complaining, just surprised.

AaliyahATL See my TER Reviews 117 reads
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5 / 34

For sti's/ STDs compared to FS . For those who really enjoy giving oral sex or are very good at it, they might see it as being less labor intensive as well.

davincib1 96 Reviews 80 reads
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6 / 34

BJs are cheaper than FS, the same way FS vag is cheaper than FS Greek/Anal.  Less work IMO, a truly talented provider that can suck and can make you cum with just her mouth is going to save wear and tear (soreness) on her vagina.  

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 99 reads
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7 / 34

Omg I just spit out my coffee. This is hilarious you guys actually think, like this? The pussy is phenomenal. Wear & tear wtf are you fellas doing murdering the vag? So many ?’s is it not wet? Does she hate intercourse?  Maybe she’s married, or has a SO? Idk ask her. We are all, so very different.

My ? Is are these BBBJ? To me a risk is a risk it’s no different, than kissing. Your exchanging bodily fluids.

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 90 reads
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8 / 34

Years ago I saw the video "Nina Hartley's Guide to Oral Sex"  and Nina taught me that the vagina is not as delicate as most men think. I have used some of her techniques with good results.

 
One mystery to me is why (in my experience) so many women find FIV uncomfortable. To me. FIV is an integral part of DATY but many women don't care for it. And it's an issue with untrimmed fingernails, rough skin, etc.

 
Sorry, I went off on a tangent.

Roman_Bath 6 Reviews 76 reads
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9 / 34

I gather that a lot of people’s hands are not clean so they don’t want fingers up there giving them bacterial vaginosis. And of course the fingernails…

Roman_Bath 6 Reviews 77 reads
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10 / 34

But it seems to me the BJ is MORE work than FS. I mean, during FS she could really just lay there and let the guy get himself off, but during a BJ it’s really the provider’s effort, technique, deepthroating ability etc that makes the difference. Also, do providers really get sore from FS?  Serious question, it’s not something I’m sure they would share with me. I’ve never gotten the feeling they are sore after me. I am not overly huge and am not very rough, but I guess I do see guys often saying how they “pounded the shit out of her.”

Roman_Bath 6 Reviews 77 reads
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11 / 34

Surely it is no big deal for a provider to get undressed. It takes like a minute. But maybe after FS it takes more time to get ready for the next client?  So maybe it’s really more of an issue for the high volume girls?

Roman_Bath 6 Reviews 144 reads
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12 / 34

Well, we’re comparing a bare bj with covered FS. Some providers still see the BJ as less risky?  You can still get STDs from oral. There’s probably not much you’re gonna get from covered FS other than herpes.  

I’m sure there are some who do enjoy it, it just seems like a lot of them would rather do it than FS, even the ones who seem to be in this profession for the money (but they’ll advertise BJ specials that are less than FS).  

I’m even trying to figure out why I still prefer FS over BJ, lol! I almost always do FS (covered of course). But the few times I’ve gotten a bbbj it’s been a much more mind blowing orgasm. But I still just feel like I need to put my dick in her pussy.  That may be starting to change tho. The other day the provider didn’t have any condoms but she offered a bbbj. I reluctantly agreed, but after she was sucking for a couple minutes I asked her to spin her ass around to my face and I was licking her asshole while she was sucking my dick. And oh my god, she was not dirty but she had a natural scent and it was such a turn on, so fucking hot!  I think I’m gonna have to cum this way more often!

davincib1 96 Reviews 97 reads
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13 / 34

I mean not trying to be funny.  I understand the vagina is phenomenal.  But does soreness not occur during the day when a provider has had a few sessions?  From a male standpoint, I know my penis can get sore after 2 or 3 rounds of pounding.  I'm not saying I'm packing a baby arm, but I have been complimented on my size and girth, and have spoken to providers during small talk that say they have experienced soreness.  I know that a provider on tour, visiting several cities, seeing 3 to whatever amount of clients per day can get taxing.  Do you not ever get sore?

davincib1 96 Reviews 82 reads
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14 / 34

As I stated above, to me it's human nature to experience vaginal soreness, back in my younger day when I felt the urge to go multiple rounds (somewhere between 8 and 12 is my record) throughout the day with my then girlfriend.  And even though she got super wett, she did get sore, and I experienced soreness as well.  Perhaps for some ladies that charge 700 to 1k per session there is no need to take on more than 1 to 3 clients per day, but for the most-part that's the higher level escorting with higher rollers.  I'd say on average, ladies charging 100 to 200 dollars are going to see somewhere in the range of 5 to 10 gents per day, the lower the fee the more calls/inquiries they are going to get.  I'd say soreness occurs, and many that I have had sessions with use lube for that very reason.  Again, not trying to count bodies, but you have to weigh the averages when you see a lady is touring, and her schedule.  By the time she makes it to your city, say the 3rd or 4th city out 8.  I'd venture to say there may be some soreness.

Not speaking for all, but a good BBBJ or even CBJ will have me cumming in under 5 mins if I don't pace myself.  

Roman_Bath 6 Reviews 93 reads
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15 / 34

Yeah, maybe the answer is closer to yours. It probably is more of the higher volume ladies I see advertising they are the “throat goat.”  So once they get over any ickiness over putting their lips on some strange dude’s dick and even swallowing his juices, they can get him off faster and more reliably, not make their pussy sore, not worry about getting dry, and not taking clothes off or washing up “down there”.  I was just thinking about the intimacy and effort involved in just doing it at all, but I guess if you’re doing this many times per day, there are reasons some ladies might prefer this over FS.

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 85 reads
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16 / 34

I meant to say "it's not an issue" in my case.  

Many times if I'm freshly showered before arrival at an appointment when I get inside the hotel room I'll let the lady know that I'll take two minutes and wash my hands.

I'll have to ask one of these days when I run into it again.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 76 reads
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17 / 34

I date gentleman who worshipped & adore the pussy. I don’t see 3 guys in 1 day. I would hate to have that problem it’s sounds painful. Be kind to the vagina.

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 73 reads
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18 / 34

Worship and adore the pussy... Yeah, that's me.

davincib1 96 Reviews 90 reads
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19 / 34

I mean, you just answered your own question.  If you don't see 3 guys in one day it's pretty disingenuous to assume that some providers don't get vaginal soreness.

lopaw 29 Reviews 87 reads
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20 / 34

Many women, myself included, do not like FIV. For me it just doesn't feel good and if a provider starts to do it doing DATY I will gently guide her away from it. More often than not after the session, while we are chatting, the provider will share with me that she doesn't care for it either. I suspect many tolerate it simply because the client expects it and thinks that all women like it.

ickylib 82 reads
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21 / 34

exactly....not so delicate once you witness a baby's head stretching that thing out bigger than you ever imagined.  My wife had an episiotomy when my son was born, and almost immediately afterwards (after the avalanche of afterbirth), her ob-gyn neatly sewed her up within a few minutes.  I was like (YIKES!), she won't be walking for weeks!

Nope, was up and moving, albeit slowly for the rest of the day.  Spent one more full day in hospital...then out the following afternoon.

DEFINITELY not "delicate"..........   Thank you, mothers who endure the battlefield of keeping the human species alive and (mostly) well.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 88 reads
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22 / 34

segment of the market is car dates.  Do you really want her in your car completely naked giving you a BJ?

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 80 reads
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23 / 34

Why would she have to be completely naked to give a BJ?

 
I met a provider in my area who does not do FS, only mouth work. I really wanted to experience her since she had some outstanding reviews. When I wanted to see her she was only doing "car dates" that week. I had never done one and didn't really want to, but I DID want to meet her, so I agreed.

 
We met at a hotel parking lot next to an office complex. She used her vehicle, a blacked-out SUV. Got into her car and she drove into the parking garage next door and had a good spot picked out. While she didn't undress she did lift up her top and encouraged me to play with her tits. She had me recline the seat and pull my pants down and she went to town.  

 
All discreet and low-key.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 74 reads
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24 / 34

I was replying to the post that said taking off your clothes for a BJ is not a big deal.  My point . . . . it depends on the circumstances.  Somestimes, like on a car date, it adds more risk.

Once-Is-Not-Enough 89 reads
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25 / 34

Many businesses charge based upon the level of wear and tear on their, whatever.  Have you considered that BJs don't wear out a provider's lady parts?

Once-Is-Not-Enough 82 reads
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26 / 34

Ever visited that website.  There are ladies who really wear out their lady parts.  They use mechanical penises and manual manipulation.  Clearly too much manipulation of any part will make it sore.  After I finish my 5 mile run, my leg muscles often feel tender.

looking4918 13 Reviews 145 reads
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27 / 34

I am a bbbj guy , absolutely love them. Covered FS is not a turn on due to wearing a cover. bbfs is not on menu or considered. Should I mention this when booking or communicating with a provider I want to see ?    

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 127 reads
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28 / 34

Do you expect a no-fs tribute to be less?  

I am curious because an uncovered BBBJ still has risks of STD’s. Is the donation not the same. I see B&G specials providers post. I would love to know that’s all you enjoy, but maybe your reviews &, or P411 profile indicates theses fun facts, do you don’t have too state. Providers chime in.

drewdoggydog 33 Reviews 89 reads
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29 / 34

Have you given a Blow Job so you have some sort idea of what it takes?

georgebensen 101 Reviews 91 reads
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looking4918 13 Reviews 89 reads
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31 / 34

Good Advice and what I have followed for years. Appreciate a providers input !!!!  

DrZoology 170 Reviews 98 reads
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I'm more surprised that a lot of women these days would much rather have a penis in their mouth as opposed to kissing and having some guys tongue in their mouth.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 90 reads
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34 / 34

110 communicable diseases you can get from DFK, but there are only 12 you can get from a blowjob.  They're just playing the odds.  

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