Sleeping in the same bed is not giving one's consent to another to have sex with them.

I have had sex with a sleepy partner, however.

-- Modified on 7/14/2011 10:38:19 AM

I started to hobby when wife became a cold fish.

I was watching a movie the other day where the guy is fucking his girlfriend (not gently, by the way) and she is sleeping through it.  This happens several times and his girlfriend even complains later that they don't have sex much anymore. Has anyone ever actually had their partner sleep through sex?

that I have LOL.

I thought that was the crux of the Ambient craze a year or so ago....

disclosing the name of the movie?

You've piqued my curiosity LOL. Thanks.

you're right.

The stories you'd read about people taking Ambien, having sex later, and then completely forgetting they had sex are incredible.

And then to read about how Tiger Woods and his harem of mistresses and Ambien...

Just married and did not want to put the effort into it?  would you complain if your wife wanted to blow you to get off and did not want any thing else? Just lay there, relax and enjoy....

being submissive or as the ex used to say.. accomadating are far different then sleep.....More then once. the ex and I ( guess I should say the ex) had a lot of fun with me at 2am . It felt great. But I was in no mood to make it a marathon.. I just let him do his thing.. He liked it. It felt good.. I would moan abit, get off, He got off and all is done.. clean up. go back to sleep. not a word is spoken.........

you were able to get him to clean up sometime after 2 in the morning LOL.

several times when she was asleep.  I think at first she fell asleep (spoons) and he kept on going.  He said she was POd!!  I suspect that he may have subsequently done the whole deed or nearly all while she was sleeping...   She could always tell.  
He always maintained she was awake when they started...   I think it crosses the line, even if she gave consent initially.  
He worked to put her through school & into a good paying carreer.  She was very attractive, her mother (trophy wife type) always thought the daughter could have done better & enabled her to hide enough money for a fresh start.  
If I'd been around when she was unattached I sure would not have minded bedding her.  

Where the guy supposedly is having sex with a sleeping girl.  Not very believable, and not very sexy, to me at least.  For anyone who enjoys it when his partner gets turned on, what's the point?

How sad....

who isn't going to know- that her man is doing her??? No matter how tired we are.... We know better.

This reminds me of the people that have a thing for dead people.... Now that is crazy.
But, like this lady mentioned here.  Perhaps she didn't feel like doing it!?  So she just layed there.... Now that is why i say: don't get married if people don't have the same level of appetite for sex.  That is--- if this is what you seek in a relationship other than a  Companion to grow old with...


oxo
Viv

If your partner doesn't have the awareness to consent, or hasn't given prior consent for you to have sex with them when s/he's unconscious, that's rape. Glad this was a fictional encounter!

sorry you feel that way. It is an honest part of what was a part of my marriage. we both enjoyed it on some leval. and talked about it often.. I know for a fact. we were not the only two who had done such things.. many times I blew him at two in the am. Just because I felt like it.. There was no expectation for him to F**k me.. is that less sad...

So tell me is it sad to you because you don't get it? At least we were honest.. more then I can say for most..

Just because you don't get it does not make it a bad thing...

Please note if the girl is drunk, passed out etc and unaware.. that is another story... and sad..
we both knew very well. what was going on.................

And, she is none the wiser. In fact, later complains about lack of sex. Now THAT is suspension of disbelief that only a guy would come up with.

Nope.  Never fucked (or ever attempted to fuck) anyone while they were sleeping. Or, at least, I never took it beyond a place where they were not waking up gently.....ideally, happily...lol.....

because that would be....... seriously creepy.  

I saw some porn as girls been seduced by a "rape drug" that they are not conscious. If there is a porn like this - means it is a demand also. Maybe it comes from a fantasies get seduced girl in a club....

The ones I've seen don't seem to use drugs.  That would be truly disgusting.  But I really haven't watched such videos except very briefly, as the entire  idea just doesn't turn me on.

mannnn...there was this friends with benefit I had and she had
medication she was taking and not sure if it was that but when
we started I went down on her and next thing you know in mish
she fades out and the condom broke while I was stroking..and two
two strokes after the condom broke I came...shit was unbelievable
wet like my dick was soaked in a lake...mannn that was good shit
..she apologized afterwards but I didn't mind.