If a provider lets you know her real name, do you continue
to call her by her stage name while on the date?

...another question is what do you call a provider after she has changed her name?  This has happened to me three times and it's always amusing how I stumble over her name(s).

Did she show you her Drivers License or Passport?  LULZ!
Gawd you boyz R dumb.

...when the fun starts it's usually "babe", " baby girl" or some other pet name...

I've had a few let me know their real name, but I never call them by it because I wouldn't want to out them by mistake. They know my name and I'm "out" proof so I don't care.  

i have used it when discussing her real life and problems therein, but when we are client and provider i call her by her stage name.

Lol I learned that game when I first started going to stripclubs. Every stripper had at least 5 "real" names!

It's John

I know it's her real name as she is a professional musician and I have seen her perform live on stage.  

Oversensitive much?  Chillax.
LULZ!

are you a total asshole..........or are you just too ignorant to know how offensive your posts can be?

Just practicing for that magical moment .... it's the legs if you must know ...

sorry, I hadn't noticed ...  
those damn legs keep getting in the way

'performing live on stage'. btw, can you  
see someone perform "dead" on stage?  

Very good response, Zak!!

I will use the name that she has used during contact.  Unless she's a regular then once or twice I've been told a real name.  

Several months ago a series of on-line connections, lead to the real name of a regular.  Once I realized what had happened, I contacted her so it would not happen with others. Two weeks ago we had a session.  I smiley asked, do you want to be called A or B.  Her choice, her professional name is what I called her.  Seems she hates her real name.  Best to just ask.

I met a gal years ago who had an obvious stage name, but after a few week she told me her "real" name, and I had no reason (Being a bit naïve.) not to believe it.  This went on for years until we decided to take a trip together involving buying plane tickets, when she had to level with me.  I felt like a boob, but understood that sometimes gals just have to be ultra careful

Normally it is no problem, but one time things got rather sticky.

that you are at least as big an asshole as you claim I am.
To be specific:  just because you claim you have all this personal info on 1 girl (which is pretty creepy in itself) is a classic "exception that proves the rule."
And, to clarify, I did not claim EVERY girl lies about her "real" information, simply that many do and in most cases you have no clue whether she's lying or not.
Oh, and thanks for using less of your little dots........Talk about an annoying device.

Also your Kicked Ass Detector if you think Zak did any of that.  Do you really think anyone's claim re a single hooker applies to the rest of us? (that was a rhetorical question).  Read my reply to LilVegan.  I won't waste any more time repeating it to someone as dense as you.
We can only assume you're a bit over-sensitive on this issue because you think you "know" lots of girls' personal info.  Please don't be butt-hurt about it.

I don't ask for her "real" name because of a few reasons.
A. Privacy - None of my business unless she wants to share
B. Rude - If her name isn't acceptable who am I to ask for another?
C. Confusion - You know how hard it is to remember every providers real name after they tell you once and then they expect you to remember it forever even though you are exhausted and half asleep after 2 pops.  Then you see them 3 or 4 months later and they expect you to remember?  At least the stage name is in the email and in the ads and in my TER favorites.  I will never ever write down a ladies real name and have to rely on my own poor memory.
...and yes, I give out my real first name, its an extremely common name.

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...and never say their name. That's what I do whether I know their real name or not.

my post mentioned NOTHING about any "girl."  Maybe you lack as much in the intelligence category as you lack in social grace........of which you have NONE!

As for being intellectually bankrupt, pot=kettle=black.  Also, anyone who needs to punctuate...... his..... inane...... vaporings..... with.........dots.....is on VERY shaky ground criticizing what anyone else writes.

sorry, did you take that personally?  chillax afro.

So they have their hooker name/s, their "real" American name, which really isn't real, and then finally their REAL name which I only use when we do something that requires ID.

No need to ask   lol  my real name is Erin  

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