If you are not a hobbyist how did you know she is a "Well Known" escort?   Are what encounters safe? Are you having unprotected sex with her? There are a few things here that don't add up.

Sounds like you met and got it on with a woman, somehow found out, perhaps she told you, that she was a "well know (sic) escort," she wants to continue with you and is telling you she will quit.

First, having unprotected sex is not safe. Second, how would I know if she's telling the truth.

Good luck!

P.S. Think through your questions a bit more clearly and, as was suggested previously, take them to the Erotic Highway Board.

If you are asking if you should keep seeing her, well that's a dumbass question that only you can answer. If you are asking if she is any more at risk for STD's, my answer would be that most "upper end" providers are less risky in that respect than the typical woman you pick up in a bar and have BBFS with.

Nothing is risk free, and women both civvie and pro lie about having sex with others. Your questions are way general and your parameters are way too vague for anyone to really give you much of an answer to what you are looking for.

Well, I need some advice guys. I'm just a regular guy that isn't a hobbyist, but I did meet a very well know escort, to my dismay. Upon my investigations, I find out she's been doing this stuff for a while and I'm just shocked right now. I really care about her a lot, but I don't know if I can handle it. My question is, are these encounters safe? I mean, I don't want to catch any diseases or anything. Also, she said she stopped..but who knows if she's telling the truth. Any help would be appreciated..thanks.

Us the general board drop down window. It's at the bottom . The mod, is the "love goddess" she's more qualified to assist you in your predicament, than the guys or ladies here.

...but since you've got PM rights that means you're a VIP member and I can't help but wonder if you have more experience than you claim.  If that's not true, please accept my apology.  As for the question, you are right to worry about catching something.  Many providers get tested regularly but you at least have the right to ask her that question.  In fact, if you value your health, you have an obligation to ask it, especially if she provided bareback services (BBBJ and BBFS).  There's a laundry list of oral and genital diseases she could have been exposed to.  In some cases, like HIV, they have a presence that can't even be tested until weeks after exposure.  So, at a minimum you should not have sex with her until she's been tested again, or can prove to your satisfaction that she's been retired since her last clean tests (which, obviously, you'll have to take on faith).  As for handling everything else, there's nothing anyone on this board can do to help you much with that.  Keep in mind that everyone here is blatantly and proudly defying the law and public attitudes about this. It either bothers you enough to spoil the relationship, or it doesn't.  Personally, it would turn me the fuck on!

Has he responded to a PM?  Just because he has a "mailbox" has no significance other than he is using his registered handle.

oops!  I thought you had to be VIP to have PM.  Sorry to the OP if I presumed inaccurately.

I am only a basic member and I can send and receive PMs. I didn't know you had to have a VIP membership in order to get them. But it could be different for providers vs. hobbyists.

...people.  So you are more likely to get infected from a drunken one night stand than you are a pro.

As for her job, if she says she stopped, then assume she stopped.  You can not build any relationship on mistrust.  If you find out she's lying, then it's a lie same as in any other relationship.

If after a while she decides she'd like to work again, then you two should just discuss it like any other couple discusses stuff.

IT'S JUST A JOB AND SHE IS JUST A WOMAN.

The two of you should get checked together before going bareback.

As for the if you can handle it part, that is something only you can answer. My wife was a provider when we met. She retired before we started to date. She has came out of retirement and now is providing again. There is challenges in being married to an active provider that are not there in a more traditional marriage but with work it is possible to make it work. My wife and I are making it work.

As for seeing a retired provider, the risks are just like seeing any sexually active lady. It is up to you to get over the false media images and see her as the woman she is. It is your choice and if you can't or won't get past her past then your relationship is doomed. Be honest with her, and you must have trust in her to make any relationship work. She is just like any other woman. The same needs, want and desires any woman has. Treat her that way.

I would gladly answer any question you have as how I am making it work. post a reply or PM me if you feel the need.