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Re: Hmmm...Maybe you're picking the wrong provider...
jaysurfer 48 Reviews 1558 reads
posted
1 / 21

Is it just me or do ladies no show or are late ( in excess of 30 min, over an hour sometimes ) more and more. I don't know what's going on but in the past 6 months, it has happened a lot. It is frustrating when you book a $500 room in LA, get stuck in mad traffic and end up with a no show. Just today, in Vegas, scheduled my day around a date ( not cheap, $800 ), bought a nice bottle of champagne ( her request ) and confirmed and texted during the day.. 20 min PAST our date time, I just get a text saying : need to reschedule. I always make sure to be on time, only canceled a couple of times many hours before ( once I was sick and didn't want to get her sick, the other time I had to take my pet to the hospital ). I cannot imagine what would happen if we started to behave this way. What's going on??

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 63 reads
posted
2 / 21

Hopefully reviews will rein this in a bit.  If you sprung for the hotel room, I wonder what sort of concession you can get out of the provider for the loss.  I doubt you'd squeeze a nickel out of her due to her reluctance to touch cash flow, but you might be able to get some extra time on a re-schedule.

jaysurfer 48 Reviews 46 reads
posted
3 / 21

I doubt it... from someone that cancels PAST our date time, it is doubtful that she would offer any kind of gesture and frankly when they do this ( no show or cancel past our scheduled time ) I simply have no desire to see them, especially if it is our first time. It just seems to be more and more frequent these days.

GaGambler 81 reads
posted
4 / 21

and not to White Knight for the ladies, but guys can be just as rude and as inconsiderate as the girls.  The girls have cancellation policies, black lists etc to deal with guys who NCNS or who cancel last minute, about all us guys can do is make a post on your regional board calling out the bad behavior.  

 
Sorry Lester, but you can NOT write a review for a session that never happened. It sucks, but thems the rules and the subject has come up numerous times both here and on virtually every regional board.

 
Yes, it's a problem but aside from people becoming more responsible on politer to each other I honestly don't see this problem ever going away and that counts equally for the ladies as well as the guys. MAYBE your lady will try to make things up to you, but like you said inconsiderate people rarely try to make amends for their rude behavior unless their are consequences for their actions. You could make a post on the LV board and "name names" it won't get you your five hundred bucks back, but it might cause the next guy to get confirmation that she is showing up before booking a room like you did. OR it might even convince a couple of guys to move onto a more considerate and professional provider.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 75 reads
posted
5 / 21

I suppose you could mention it in a review if you reschedule and then actually have a session.  In fact I believe I've seen that in reviews before.

JackDunphy 66 reads
posted
6 / 21

Had something like this been in place, it's possible you may not have gotten fucked over.

inicky46 61 Reviews 80 reads
posted
7 / 21

Because LV is almost strictly an outcall venue, unlike most places in the US. I don't know about LA but I thought it was mostly incall so not sure why you had to book a room there. And if you were only using it for a session you could have booked it through a service that lets you book a room only for a few hours instead of paying $500 for the whole day and night.

jaysurfer 48 Reviews 89 reads
posted
8 / 21

I can only imagine how many no call no show. cancelation and other behaviors the ladies deal with.. and it sucks and understand why they would have cancelation policies...Everyone's time and resources are valuable and this hobby should be for us to have fun, allowing the ladies to achieve their financial goals ( and have fun too ) not some frustrating experience and complete waste of time and money. There should really be a private forum for us, clients to discuss these things, black list etc.. it is much better than starting some drama in forums, in my experience it always backfire as us, gents. A few years ago, a well reviewed provider I had seen 3-4 times ripped me off ( 1k deposit, canceled and never booked with me again ), when I posted on forums, I got slammed by her clients ( well I was one too and I was just trying to warn them, going as far as saying, see her, she is a lot of fun, just dont pay a deposit ).  
All this really does it prevent me from seeing new girls. The one I was going to see today is well reviewed. I don't have this issue with girls I have seen many times before besides a little tardiness here and there.  
Oh well. Time to move on to a different, more reliable adventure :) Glad TER is back.

jaysurfer 48 Reviews 44 reads
posted
9 / 21

100% CORRECT. And from reading the replies to your post, it seems that some people dont understand the difference between a reasonable cancelation and a fuck you. Today for instance, we texted 30min before the date, saying we look forward to see each other. She canceled 20 min or so past the agreed time. That's a fuck you. If she canceled say even 2 hours before, I would have been bummed but understand shits happen. I just feel there is a growing lack of respect and consideration.

jaysurfer 48 Reviews 75 reads
posted
10 / 21

I must have not written properly. The time I wasted money in a room was in LA. I was just in Vegas for a couple of nights so I didnt waste money on the room per say.. Just wasted a day of arranging my schedule around a date that was confirmed several times, texted exchanged 40 min before the agreed time and simply got a text 20 min past the agreed time saying : we need to reschedule, won't make it. More so than money, it is about the disrespect, the lack of consideration and overall poor etiquette that I see as a growing problem. I can't imagine what would happen if I did that as client ( not that I would )

MDSTUDS2003 67 reads
posted
11 / 21

1. This is why never never pay a deposit.
2. I you getting room have 10 ladys line just in case the first few don't make it. Once shows lock the door and turn off phone. If here nocking tell the lady you seeing you check engine light came on you get it taken on Monday.

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 72 reads
posted
12 / 21

So yeah, you would be better off flying to me in my tiny town in WI (cheaper!!!) and probably would have more fun. Just sayin.   ;)  

BuffetBoy 3 Reviews 49 reads
posted
13 / 21

This has happened to me on several occasions and it is always a bit annoying. I just try and set my sights on the next fabulous lady and it almost always works out. Sorry, again.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 60 reads
posted
14 / 21

prefer the first appointment to be an outcall.  After that, if they have an incall location, you can go there.  By contrast, many touring girls will take a hotel room for a week as an incall location.   Asian agencies are always incall.  A couple of these  have tried outcall from time to time, but the VERY limited demand doesn't justify the needed logistical support.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 56 reads
posted
15 / 21

Or perhaps choose a provider that respects your time. Plenty of Vegas providers so not sure what the issue is.
If this keeps happening to you no matter the city you are in perhaps it is your provider choice.
I know I have never cancelled on a gent after an appt time started or been an hour late.
But I know my last time I was in LA more than one gent thought it would be okay to be 30-40min late due to traffic.

jaysurfer 48 Reviews 52 reads
posted
16 / 21

I am sorry this happened ( gentlemen being late ) and completely understand the frustration... obviously. When you are as respectful and thoughtful as I know I am and you obviously are.. it sucks. I pick the ladies I see carefully. The one I had scheduled today is well reviewed so there was no red flags. It is just frustrating. Last October, I flew from Long beach to Vegas just for the night to see a well reviewed provider and she no show as well. By the time she did it was too late to book a different date. It just seems to happen more often. I still have plenty of fun with ladies I see on a current basis.. just seems to happen with new ones.. oh well.. There are worse things in life I suppose.

jaysurfer 48 Reviews 49 reads
posted
17 / 21

That's what I do.. but it certainly sucks when it happens. I ll just book a date next week with a lady I already know and have a good time.

impposter 49 Reviews 81 reads
posted
18 / 21

Posted By: jaydalee
But I know my last time I was in LA more than one gent thought it would be okay to be 30-40min late due to traffic.
With all the commuting tools these days (Waze; Google Maps) with LIVE TRAFFIC UPDATES, you'd think a guy (or a gal!) could figure out when to leave their starting point to get to your place ON TIME!  
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There are even parking apps to make it possible to do away with "I got here on time but I couldn't find a parking space." excuse.  (I think google maps just added a "AND find parking near my destination" to add that amount of time to the trip planning -- I haven't used that feature yet.)

jaysurfer 48 Reviews 60 reads
posted
19 / 21

In the end, I think that these people, guys and gals are just inconsiderate. I live in OC and often see ladies in LA. I am never late. I leave early enough. There are no excuses. I mean sure, accidents happens but overall it is all BS. It just makes the rest of us in the hobby, gents and ladies, that are reliable and respectful waste time and resources that could be otherwise spent with people that deserve and appreciate it.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 49 reads
posted
20 / 21

You would think so they kept in contact but still...really messed up my schedule.
Well I guess I'll see next month when I actually brave the LA roads myself during my visit.I will allow time lol

John_Laroche 80 reads
posted
21 / 21

Some people are just inconsiderate. I don't think it's a trait that's more common now than in years past.

 
That said, in the service industry:
a) it's a sign of good times when a provider of any service feels they can get away with poor customer service, and
b) the only thing that might help is calling out the provider. In the mainstream world that's a Yelp, Google, TripAdvisor or Nextdoor review. In this world, it's posting the incident (facts only) on this board and/or her local board and/or the RO board. It's why the gods created alias.

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