So...does anyone else have a problem with getting nervous before and during an appointment?

Will get better with more experience although probably never go away completely. My first 10 or so times I would get so nervous I could not sleep or eat three days in advance. Now, I at most get an elevated heart rate just as I arrive at a provider's door. I think it's a good sign to have some nerves and just means you care about being safe. Not much one can do to allay nervousness unless you go the pharmacological route. A beta blocker can keep your heart rate steady, and a benzodiazepine will quell nerves (but may hamper the experience plus you need a script for these).  I used to have a drink just prior and it helped. Just don't drink anything that will smell strong like whiskey(or too much!). You can also just ask the provider to share some wine with you first when you meet. Hope that helps!

Baby I feel ya. Only because I have struggled with social anxiety when I was younger. Practice makes perfect. First of all, we are here to serve YOU.  If anything, we are the ones who should be nervous. I promise you, we are the one nervous about meeting YOUR needs, as we are the ones getting paid for it. Baby, your only "job" is to relax...the rest is up to us. The fact that you are that concerned about how you meet our needs, makes you a very quality client already.

I find that doing a bit of yoga breathing & a couple of positions, along with some stretches, calms and centers me. I'm sometimes nervous with a new provider or excited to see an old friend, but either way, it helps. Better than a drink for me. It's also good to limber up before playtime begins.

about providers being worried ... lol
all in all, very thoughtful response.

it's EXCITING

Not enough to get blotto, or to affect your physical functioning, but just a shot (for me, at least) was enough to calm the nerves and allow me to enjoy myself.  After a while, I became very secure about hobbying and no longer needed it.

Maybe the OP is confusing being nervous with the anticipation and excitement of a new adventure. I like to ride... a big wave of fun as you call it. 😎

Does this happen elsewhere, but maybe to a lessor degree? Talk to a therapist or trusted friend. As suggested, practice may help.  

big wave
big motorcycle
big opportunity
big excitement
big orgasm

When I first started this hobby, I was so uptight on the first call that I couldn't get it up at all. The girl might have been new, as she wasn't comfortable with the situation either and that made it worse. The next couple of calls, I was able to get it up but not off. By my fourth time, I was finally relaxed enough to come.

There is an added benefit to a bit of booze for the nervous types. I imagine many of the nervous nellies are also worried about being "two pump chumps" a few drinks will desensitize you "down there" and make it less likely that you will shoot your wad too quickly.

Excellent point of view

Know what you want, and what makes you comfortable.

I am a big fan of ATF (All Time Favorite) in the beginning for sure.  Sample the field, then lock onto one or two ladies you like.  Seeing them frequently will reduce the nerves and in my case the sex gets better.  

It depends on the person.  Half  shot for me might be like 28 shots to you and a certain he-who-cannot-be-named.

is clearly a professional and has spent many years training his system to deal effectively with alcohol during sex, for most men, alcohol not only dehydrates your body, but can also desensitize your erogenous zones.  My limit before sex would be a glass or two of wine or champagne WITH  dinner, just to be social and put the girl at ease more than me, but you need to find your own happy medium between the positive and negative effects of alcohol use on your own body functions.  

If you aren't enjoying it- don't do it.  If you are enjoying, don't worry about it.  Apparently it's not so bad that the girl has freaked out - so don't worry about it.  As you do more of this the nerves will go away... or they won't.  But if you are enjoying it - don't worry about it either way.  The only purpose of this is to have fun.  

Sounds like a good idea.

Beaverhousens of Germany?  Along with the Beavermunchens and Beaverlichens, they are one of the most respected families in Munich.

First time I hired a provider, I was nervous. Second time, a little jittery. Third time, no big deal. Gets easier with practice. Take deep breaths, and relax, you are going to have a great time with a beautiful woman. Do not drink before a date.

Wow. Thank you for the input everyone.

My suggestion is having a cocktail before your session to ease your nerves. I don't think one drink will get you drunk so you should be fine. If you don't feel comfortable with that then explain to the provider your a bit new to this still and I am sure she can put you at total ease. Hope this helps.

When I've witnessed that it was a total turn on for me, because it made me feel super hot.

Your session will have a more natural flow and you will both be on the same level. It's not fun to meet a drunk client. I One-Drink-Buzz would be relaxing without losing your senses. You shouldn't have to worry about LE. Do your homework.
Kisses,
Lily