I read some of these reviews and think 90% of TER reviewers are orgasm stimulating machines.

I happened to be having a conversation with a regular and I asked her if she always had orgasms with all her clients. She said it rarely happens, only a couple of guys have been able to make her orgasm. Interesting that her 20+ TER reviewers were fooled into thinking she always had orgasms. Hey when we're together, I just go with the flow.

I would like to know what you all think.

I hope you understand that this is just a fantasy that we wish to live and the providers are ego busters. I am sure that most providers do not have orgasm at all with strangers, and know of our fragile ego, and to boost income they have to act, because if we leave happy they get a good tip and/or a repeat visit and/or a good review that will in turn produce more customers that can do the same, increasing there revenue nicely. I read many reviews and think if these guys are such great lovers then why pay for it?

What about fantasy don't you get!

I'm under no illusion that I'm making her climax, and I can only think of one time where the lady seemed to be orgasming, but I was not focused on whether she was going to or not. I'm not there to have my ego stroked to that extent. I figure, if I get off at least once, we both did our part.

If she's faking it that's just extraordinary ignorance.

I just don't get how  non-observant guys are.

Then again I love to make women cum. So I studied up a bit over the years.

Just last night I had three women pounding on my bedroom door for hours. I finally had to let them out.

This is obvious I would think - every lady is different; every client / provider interaction is different as well.

I've been a high volume hound for 41 years. You DO NOT get to be my age without learning *something* lol

and one of the things I've learned is that no matter how much I zone in on her cues, feel her responses - I'm "good" for some ladies and for some I am not. Simple as that.

When it comes to P4P I am ultimately not concerned with whether she Os or not. I'll give an effort - why not? She should enjoy it too.

And I would say that with the young PYTs that I sport fuck in once n done mode, I bat a bit better than 50% - maybe 60%.

With ladies I repeat with, really get to know, establish some comfort and some chemistry, the percentage is much much higher.  

Oh - I've had that same conversation by the way, with my favs. I don't think that it is that the gents are that *bad* as much as it is that most are there for their own jollies and do not make more than an obligatory effort.

Bottom line - if she enjoys me enough to O- sure I'm glad about it. But my EGO is not invested in it in the P4P context.

At the end of the day, the only thing she can do wrong with me is to fake it poorly enough to be obvious. A really nice fake is appreciated as a part of the GFE performance and I am gentleman enough not to point out that I know the physiological responses well enough to know that she was faking lol.

I'll admit it...mines only 11 1/4 inches.

Its always about the money....remember that!!

NEITHER

if the TER guys were the world's greatest studs they'd be RECEIVING envelopes not handing them out to compensate.

if the TER gals were the world's greatest actresses they'd be collectin on $20 million movie deals not taking envelopes for kissing a succession of frogs that never turn into a prince.

You cant fake the funk..
there is nothing like a great "O" even a few small ones "O"...
speaking from xxxperience.. : )-

As someone with a few decades of sales experience, I always make sure that the customer feels good about their purchase (or, more importantly, the *prospective* purchase). If I can help validate their choice, I will --

"Why, that's our most popular model -- we sell cases of those every week."

"Many of our customers have made the same decision and have been back to buy more."

And of course, we have to make sure they have the best environment -- that is one conducive to making the sale.

All of this transfers to the hobbiest environment and a smart, intuitive provider will do the best she can to hit all the right notes to enhance the experience. If she can do this in a convincing and authentic manner, then she's done her job, made the sale and earned the envelope.

I don't mind paying for what I get, as along as I get what I pay for.

so I don't lose sleep thinking about it.  As long as I cum, it's been a good time, and I got what I paid for!

Now run along "goat".  Go find some tin cans to chew or something.  Your questions are irritating, and someone is gonna get chapped!

A young provider (20 yrs old) creamed on my cock as she was riding me cowgirl.  She said she came a lot and I could see her squirt liquid pool.

Older & more experienced providers (30s) most of the time are YMMV ... if they are in the mood .. BOOM.  If not, they try to fake it.

As long as they get me off, I'm good. I paid for it.
Now if they creamed on me, I'm happy for them.

A long time ago, when I was in my early 20s and went to a provider, she lunched on me. She even asked me to anal her (I didn't since I was afraid). But she explicitly said "it's my turn to enjoy sex".  

Another provider actually dated me outside of her work (AMP).. FREE. I booked for a hotel. She was honest and said she didn't cum for a very long time.  But with me, it was the closing thing to her getting an "O" since she had older clients.

Now that I'm a bit older, I'm looking for younger providers and hope they will "O".  But if not, I'll cum on them without any guilt or regret.

I book appts for my pleasures if she gets off or not won't matter as long as I do.

When you arrive I am  ready, willing and able.
I never DO anything I don't want to and I don't have the time or desire to act or fake.
As much as I would like an orgasm..I don't always have one. But just like the friends of mine who do not climax...we have enjoyed every minute to the fullest.

Men choose me because of my maturity and the FACT that I TRULY love giving and receiving pleasure.

I have seen a provider fake it. I actually had a hard time watching her. I think it happens on a reg basis. If you are seeing 8 guys a day...what kind of performance do you expect to get?

When I was younger I rarely had an orgasm. I did not "practice" Oral Sex until I began this journey...I was 46. I can almost guarantee myself an orgasm during DATY. How did I get to
this place?? Relaxation, breathing and wanton. My
advice...
Take the time to orgasm.

lol

That was some brutal honesty!

Thanks for keeping it real, Texcat.

Ren'man

Eh.....whatever.

In general I find if the lady is having a really good time the experience is exponentially better.

Really, you might as well stay home and jerk off with that perspective.

I guess its just laziness born of ineptitude.....

Whether or not the provider is an actress is irrevelant. The fact that she agrees to spend time with me, even for money,  is enough.

well it wasn't intended to be brutal, really

a number of the hobby guys i've met are real gentlemen who have accomplished lives who could certainly get laid sans envelope.

a number of the ladies are wonderful folks who also have accomplishments and talents outside the hobby. one in particular has therapeutic skills that are sublime.....

in case it did come off as "brutal" i'll even it out by dishing on myself:

an aging blowhard with significant touch needs,  so spoiled by his "glory years" that the fact he can't attract a GYW (gorgeous young woman) without an envelope in no way disturbs the decades long past image of himself as a worthy of being considered a companion to anyone.

Angelina... when you get tired of Brad... i'll take you back.