Are there concerns guys have about being white-listed? Such as LE, or abuses by others?

I don't understand how being white listed would be any more or less of an threat than having reviews posted.

I WhiteList everyone who I feel I can vouch for without an accompanying rundown of quirks or negative tendencies so that my best clients can be verified 24-7.
I've offered White Listings to a few guys who have reviewed me and been declined because they didn't want to compromise their TER handle/objective reviews by me being able to associate them with the session that we had.

Whatever.

Believe or not there are some ladies who will white list guy because she saw him at party by some association. She never did have a session with him. Some girls will give a guy a whitelist, take it away, and give it back to him for marketing purposes if he is a major poster.


Some girls will whitelist a guy that was a major player in terms of her income. When she stops seeing him she will take the whitelist away.

A tell tell sign is when I see guy have a bunch of providers on his whitelist, then they all disappear. That lets me know something is up and he is a bad bad boy.

I won't ask for a whitelist. If a lady offers it to me I will accept it.

Probably the same reasons some ladies refrain from reviews. Discretion.

The reviews that I write (per TER guidelines) are fictional accounts of events I washed had taken place.  Think of them as Penthouse Forum.

A white listing is the lady's vote that I'm a good guy, and safe.  In conjunction with my fictional account of the time we (would have) spent together, some ladies feel that it closes the loop of denial, in this case, around her neck.  I'm no attorney, nor did I stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night, but if she's uncomfortable, then I'm not going to push for it.

Not a bad theory actually.  I don't see many new providers and my two ATF's are both UTR and not on TER so I don't really care about or seek white listing.  One gal was kind enough to white list me a quite a while back but it has since been taken down.

Here is my answer from a while back. I use TER to write and read reviews, but do not offer it as a reference.

don't want people to know who they've been with.  Many times they have hypocritical tastes and want it to remain secret.

Your theory of taking a giving white list is flawed. If the guy that post a lot, his is credible if he is white listed or not. When the ladies give and take white list away from credible others will see that the ladies reviews are most likely over rated. Thus the ladies are giving white list for a better than normal review. Just my 2 cents.

It would be interesting to see why she removed it. You should ask her why it was removed.

Just like I said.