I have had it!

Too many providers have started ripping into other women who opt to have body modifications done, such as tattoos and piercings. I have heard it all, from 'it won't look good when you're 75' to 'how can you call yourself a lady/provider/sexy?'

You know something?

Beauty isn't just what subjective. You have to choose to feel good about yourself. Otherwise, it reflects outward, and people do notice. Low self-esteem can shade the rest of you in a light that doesn't make you act or move in a sexy manner.

So, if tats aren't your thing, that's fine. But don't pee on my leg just cos I happen to like them for my own personal style. Being your own person goes a longer way in the world of Sex-workers than being a cookie-cutter cut-out.

That's all I have got to say.

Thanks for reading.

Love,

Charlotte

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I was sitting at a red light with a friend of mine when I was much younger, early 20's and we were drinking and driving down in Newport Beach.  Really enjoying a cold one, even though it was illegal.    So this old surfer dude drives up next to us in a volkswagon bus with his surfboards on top. All tan and wearing beat up old surf shirt and funky hat, kind of a unique cat.  We think we're real cool, and so we tip our beers to him.  

He looks over, winks, and says to us in this kind of southern, yet unique surf accent: "You know that's not really my thing,  but you guys do what you want."  And as he rolls away he pulls out this fat joint and winks again.  We could not stop laughing, and to this day we still use that phrase:
"YOU DO WHAT YOU WANT"
Now I have to take responsibility for my own actions, and that's part of being an adult, and at the same time, I like to pass along a little less judgement, and a little more "you do what you want."
Cheers to you Charlotte, believe in you and what you believe in!  

what others say.

And FWIW I happen to be a conoisseur if nicely done ink and tasteful hardware as well....

... you should charge them for it.

... and I'm not sure how intra-provider payment arrangements work. But, yeah, if there are charges to start with, charge extra! I sure as heck would.

I've never heard a tattoo'd person criticize anyone for not being tattoo'd.

I'm just sayin.

charge her for a new pair of shoes to replace the ones peed on.

I do not have an tats, my atf has two tats, one on her waist and another on her butt. I think they're wonderful! Don't pay attention to what other people say.

Keep feeling good about yourself.

I like the both the look and the spirit.

Good ink and the willingness to say what's on her mind.

I think you're smoking hot.

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some tats are quite sexy. I think Kat Von D is freaking HOTT, and even our own local Mea Culpa (not quite as adorned as Kat) really rocks it with her tat(s).

Of course, some are ridiculous. I remember a stripper I saw in Guam. She had a tattoo of a cat on her mons pubis and the whiskers would poke out of her g-string.

pleased by those who are drawn to you. And, those who are drawn to you will finding nothing fake in you.

are my own.

Absolutley always be yourself.  You are obviously blessed with the ability to do just that.  I think it is important to be real and being yourself is a part of being real.  I think just knowing that your 100% real makes you more appealing.
xoxo

And by all the clowns I would expect to suck up to even someone who looked like a human coloring book!
You are absolutely right, however.  You have every right to scar yourself in any way you see fit.  I mean, cmon, who does not think, when they go to the fair, and see the carney lady, totally sleeved, pulling that lever to start that rusted old "tilt-a-whirl", that she is not the hottest thing ever.
Who would not want to take her away, buy her a $1000  sleeveless formal dress, and take her to the swankiest, high roller, black tie event, and show her off.
For all the rest of you who jumped on the "just be yourself" bandwagon to make yourself look so damned open minded, I think that refers to state of mind,attitude, and other personality attributes.  It does not include becoming a tapestry or an Alan Iverson wannabe!

I choose to respect other people's choice because I expect them to respect mine. You don't have to agree with other people's choices, but respect is healthier than emotional criticism.

don't really matter, and those who matter, don't really mind.

Be true to yourself, because when it boils right down to it, your opinion of yourself, is the only one that matters.

Jaycee

stud and my nipples are pierced as well. I also have a couple of tattoos in some unseen places. I don't think I have ever seen a gentleman who thought that my piercings or tats were ugly. Now my tats are of a flower and some Japanese script and everyone that sees me tells me they are beautiful. If I had the devil or something on me I suspect I wouldn't always have that same reaction. My point is just be selective in what you choose.

I will be honest and say I wish I had never got my tattoos just because of where they are, but I am totally happy with my piercings and so are the men!

Be it body type,hair color,tattoos,age ethnicity whatever,and that goes for the ladies as well as the gents.

Shes a beautiful woman and she has great art work that shows her personality.Why do  you feel the need to shove your issues down her throat?

It's not her fault that you are a self repressed stuck up jackass with the creativity and personality of a broken crayon.

And FYI,not everyone wants to attend "the swankiest, high roller, black tie event, and be shown off."

It's not your place to judge someone  and how they choose to live their lives or express themselves,unless of course you want to crawl out from under the "alias rock" and be judge on your own personal merits.




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the lady you are looking for (no tattoo, no piercings, etc.) but for some reason you find it more productive to to continue to rip on a lady that is happy with herself.  If your confused on how to use these search features they are available in the Newbie manual on the newbie board.
Good Luck,
Doc

they are old stuff done in the military back in the day. I might get turned on even with yours, who knowns.

But here's the deal; When I see all that body paint on a fine young looking lady like that I think to myself, what will she do when she get older.

Yes, I know you've heard the 75 yrs old thingy. But, you also will not be doing this chances are for 20+ years (or maybe you will). Then what? It is hard to go to a job interview with your arms and sleeves exposed. Believe me, people who do the hiring would be turned off. Additionally, it can add stress to you life while at the company who just hired you to always wear sleeved clothing every day to work, for fear of others making comments. It is a different world in the work place than in the hobbying circles.

some like it and some done.

I like the body that was born of nature ... no modifications if possible .. just natural.

If you want piercing, tats, and fork tongues, it's your life. But don't expect all clients to like it.

Personally, I would not like a provider who looks like a Yakuza gangster and a streetwalker in a hump-hump bar.

people who don't find her particular brand of self expression appealing.  That would be me!
I've heard all kinds of "be yourself" shit posted.
I've seen the regular cast of manginas get behind her and yell "you go girl"!  In the end, I'll bet not one would call this lady for a date.  I see a provider ad with a lady totally sleeved, it screams nothing but Ghetto Ho, and I go to the next web site.
Sorry I did not agree with all of the members of the bandwagon here.  That's the beauty, I don't have to.
I'd really like to know how many of you goofballs that jumped behind this REALLY would call her and see her!  You're right people, you have the right to any type self expression you choose, be it to have 25 face piercings, carving your boyfriends name in your forhead, or turning your limbs into comic books.  Also remember, at some point in time, you are going to be judged (be it right or wrong) by someone for the actions you take.  Your free spirit now may not serve you so well down the road!  That's something you DON'T have a choice in!
All I see here is a total waste of a pretty lady.  I don't see the work of art you are talking about Jaycee. I see a bad decision that will no doubt haunt her if she ever decides to stop being a HO.  That move that you are all applauding has just closed a lot of doors for her when she finally grows up!  That's what is sad!

If you read through the original post she was addressing the fact that providers were doing this.
So if she were speaking of you, that would make you a provider and your behavior even more ignorant.

"Too many providers have started ripping into other women who opt to have body modifications done, such as tattoos and piercings."

You have a right to your own opinion,but your opinion does not make the opinions of others wrong.

So you are outing yourself as a provider?


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I think that tats are fine on someone else, it's just not for me.  I just haven't found or thought of anything that I'd put on my body.

As far as seeing Charlotte ... I can only hope that she'd travel to my area sometime!  I'll be sure to visit her!!!

opposite here.  I'm the one taking the flack for my views.  Simply put, I (me, myself) think its a shame to ruin a nice body and skin for the sake of "self expression".  I checked your site, you have few if any tats, and what appears to be very nice skin.  Why not have a couple of serpents burnt into those sexy arms and legs?  would you still feel as beautiful?  I doubt it.  And truthfully, I doubt the OP thinks it's beautiful, or she wouldn't feel the need to start a thread defending herself!
Bottom line, my opinion means nothing to anyone but me.  I wouldn't walk across the street to see anyone that foolish, or easily swayed by the trend of the day. It looks totally Ghetto to me.
That said, your opinion is no more right than mine except to you. Yet I've taken a lot of flack on this thread for my views on self mutilation.
It doesn't bother me, as I know that those of you who chose not to use yourself as a human paint canvas, never will.  I also know she will not attract the mature, upscale men that all of you advertise that you desire as clients.
You can argue that it's only my opinion on this board, but you know deep down the clientele she will appeal to now, and I doubt it's the same as what you are looking to have!
Again Just My Opinion, and it ain't gonna change!

It's because I have been too busy with life to take the time to sit in the chair for a while to have the ones I really want done

You say you know what kind of clientele she attracts and it's not mature upscale gentlemen you couldn't further from right.Do you really honestly believe that drivel?

you really do sound like a provider with your panties in a bunch..

someone who really matters will really mind!  Ane your opinion of yourself is NOT the only one that matters.  Right now it will be the opinion of any guy who may be looking for a lady.  Some won't mind, and many will just pass her by.  Later maybe the whole HO thing isn't going to work out, and she wants to get a legit job.  Now someone else's opinion matters more than hers.  She needs a job, it's a good job, and she has to hide it because of someone else's opinion of her and her tats.  She's basically boxed out of most professional, or medical jobs.  High end sales?  Not likely, maybe a mall kiosk selling piercing jewelry, or a receptionist at a tattoo parlor. Basically, once you do that, you better be able to remain self employed.  
What if she decides the HO life is for her.  Can she market herself as an upscale lady, and command the high dollar?  I've seen some high dollar ladies, most don't have a mark, or a small tasteful tat that is not in plain sight.
It's easy to preach that "be true to yourself" drivel when you can go to the next thread and forget about her, but anyone who truly believes that no one elses opinion of you matters, is only fooling themselves, and at some time will have to face that fact head on!