I have spoken with my friends who are providers and have asked them this question.

This will mean different things to different people, but GirlFriend Experience, to me, would be things that give me the illusion that she is my girlfriend, if even for just an hour.

GFE is bbbj, dfk, and daty with cim/cof/swallow and dato/rim job varying from one provider to another as far as services go.  

You just hit the nail on the head. Also DATY. BJ covered or not. CFS. It is about connecting more and kissing etc.

No offense. But I save unprotected sex for women I know, and Love.
You yucky fucks who bareback strangers deserve what you get.

...Whenever this comes up however there is no real agreement on what GFE means.

Yes you are correct just like there exist 50 shades of grey so too exist 50 kinds of GFEs!

there has never been a term that meant bare back full service unless explicitly stated. GFE never means BBFS. BBFS=You are a moron.

It's not just a matter of which acts are performed.  

It happens in this business. Standing on a Anti-BBFS Soapbox won't stop it. If two consenting adullts agree to have BBFS and know and accept what risks are involved, so be it. All you Condom carrying Nazis have nothing to worry about.

Think, think, think, indeed!

Being that I am new to TER doesn't mean that I was born yesterday or last night. In this business  I wouldn't dare do anything BB. Just for the record I have never provided any BBFS of any kind. I have worked in the medical field over 10 years before joining this line of work. I have seen everyone that comes in the clinic with their "Issue" and walkout with diagnosis and instructions for taking Rx inside their brown paper bag, as well as the ones that run out screaming crying frantically because there in no cure.

and were very much on topic, hun. They weren't being mean when the one poster said you were new. He was truly trying to help you not fall into the BS guys trying pulling over us. They do try here and there.

It was pretty ambiguous what you meant by your topic. It seemed like you were honestly confused, and gave credence to "BB = GFE". As others have said, I don't believe there is, or I haven't seen at least, any misconception on this board that GFE equals BBFS. Once that is out of the picture, there actually is a lot of debate about what people consider GFE, because I don't think it's reducible to acts alone. I would guess attitude and emotion enters a lot into it, but I'm inexperienced and don't know.  

Can I borrow that lol. I will be sure to ad that to my ad.

this is a forum my loves and lovers you are entitled to say which ever however. I don't wear my heart on my sleeve. After all this is America and if you know your rights in this country feel free to vocalize as you wish. I am selecting my 5th Amendment.  Yes i said it 1-2-3-4-5th lol

It's very subjective on the companion side of things. Not so much on the guy side of things mentally. Most guys who are not crazy, I would dare to guess with extreme confidence see GFE as lfk and dfk, Daty, bbbj and an attentive attitude which can include conversation and "connecting". Yes bbbj. Not covered. Highlight this ONE, trust me. The activities most girlfriends will do outside of the hobby. You know during those first couple of years. Well, the first couple of months for the unlucky, lol. I will also say that I know most men aren't thinking about the last details of conversation and connecting as much as the others when thinking about the acronym GFE. No matter what they say. I said most not all but I also say this with extreme confidence. Also, any anal play and cim is not usually in the GFE realm by either companion nor gent from what I can tell. They are usually stated as an addition to by the companion and expected as such by the gent. Nor is bbfs associated with GFE and most guys do not think so in this environment. More on that below.

My post was spot on and honest. GFE has never meant BBFS EVER. There is other terms. Don't confuse the dumbasses that play like that because they will demand, give nasty reviews if they don't get that service,  blow up our phones etc. If anyone is confused on what GFE means, bang your head on the wall til you figure it out. If we wanted BBFS, we would SAY that, not confuse it with a term that is very widely known to not be that. Ultimate, complete, 100%, Total GFE is what many use for the such. I don't give a crap what some ripoff on BP says or upsells you on. It isn't GFE. It is more than that. Confusion equals guys being upset they didn't get it and angry women who have to deal with that horseshit.

To boot bbfs is bbfs. That is more PSE (porn star experience.)

Unless your trying to reproduce a cover is a must.  No BB.  

...though we are certain you weren't born yesterday neither were the one or two newbies that posted in the past how a monger kept pressuring them to go bare back because all the "best" providers did. Telling them they would have to do bare back if they wanted to survive in this business. Pressured enough until they did it. They went bare back. Now you see where I'm coming from. I wasn't assuming you needed to be warned   about this but didn't want to forgo warning you if by chance you did need it.

To me, like some of the others have said, GFE is that the provider gives me the illusion of being my girlfriend. It has nothing to do with BB. When I request a GFE I expect kissing, conversation, flirting, etc.. not just show up, get to business.  I wouldn't go BB with a provider for safety reasons, but to each their own. I do enjoy a good GFE and generally don't repeat ones that can't provide that kind of service. So, in short it's all about the attitude of the provider and the illusion they provide for me.

It seems to me that you two (Hector and Alexandria) seem to agree on all related acts to the term GFE except for bbbj.  And I think THAT is the one offering that most/many rational P4P participants might disagree about.  To me the core of a GFE is the connection (real or implied) felt by the client, and presumably (hopefully, perhaps) by the provider also.  To me it is an attempt to replicate/approximate how most couples act early-on in a sexual relationship, and this is above and beyond the basics of lfk, dfk, daty, covered FS, or even bbbj.  (Though I never once had a GF give me a covered BJ, to be honest, but I have had providers who I considered to be GFE who did... but perhaps I consider them as GFE more because of the connection we shared more than anything else?)  

Girl Friend Experience.  As I leave, I feel that this is what it would be like IF she were my Girl Friend.  It most assurendly DOES NOT mean BBFS (Bare Back Full Service).  BJ can be covered or not but tends to be not.  The other activities can vary...  as we conremplate the unique pairing of 2 individuals.  

It is VERY subjective from the COMPANION side of things as proof by this thread. Companions indeed see it in a different light. There is no set standard, meaning it is subjective. Can we lay that to rest now please! No need to take my word for it or your word for it anymore. Research is complete and right in our faces from this thread. I wish we could poll the inside of males minds as a whole more for this one because I think wo question most men think of GFE in the terms I laid out. However, taking what some men have said on this thread, it is also subjective to men in regards to what services are included/desired OUTSIDE of BBFS. If even 1 out of 10 men see it differently, it's deemed subjective. Girlfriend Experience in this environment does not include bbfs to any rational male mind or irrational male mind as well I would argue no matter what they say to you. Irrational minds will come up with anything to try to get what they want. Trying to define GFE here or anywhere as a Standard definition of whatever, will NOT change THEM. I promise you.

But I am a little confused on where I lost you Mikey... I did say BBBJ was part of it. You post sort of gave me the feel that you were perhaps? implying that I said CBJ was in the mix. I do not feel that way. Just to clarify, for me personally, I feel BBBJ is a part of the GFE. Not saying everyone would agree with me on that but that is my definition. I reread my post to see where you got that I "thought" CBJ is GFE.... I repeatedly said BBFS and at one point I mentioned "Going BB with anyone, bf/gf or whomever is not safe". I was very much keep on topic with me saying BBFS. I was not speaking about BJs I see how it could have been taken that way, but that was not what I meant at all.  

there is no rhyme or reason to GFE.  Sometimes BBBJ, sometimes DATY, sometimes DFK, and then sometimes not.  To me it just means someone that will spend the allotted amount of time with you and treat you like a friend as well as a lover.  It's more about the atmosphere provided than the actual services.

Foxy is a lady who knows just what she is talking about. I am a little older and have been around some. I have seen Foxy on several occasions and let me say that when you say GFE Foxy is the top of the line. She does know what GFE truly means. If you were to look up GFE in the dictionary it would have FoxyNC as the meaning of GFE.
This girl is real as they come. All her postings are right on. You go Foxy Lady.

Alexandria, I guess I mis-read your post, or perhaps thought you write something you didn't.  I have old eyes....  

If you do, you might want to fix the typos.  

You are an older man that has been in this game too long, and knows too much.
I can smell your expensive cologne.

Guess you are gay. GFE means no cover for BJ.