do you prefer the provider  remove and dispose of the condom after sex or would you rather do it yourself?
have had several providers that ddi it for me then come back  from the bath room with a nice warm towel and clean me up.

I think the provider disposing of the condom and cleaning you up with a warm towel makes for a much more pleasant experience.

I do not mind disposing off the wrappers and condom after the provider is gone (in case of outcall). But I love it when a provider brings a warm wash cloth to gently clean me off when my lil bro is still throbbing and I am still in bliss, recovering. But about 60% of the providers I have seen do, rest of them don't do the clean up act. Very few providers actually dispose off the condoms and wrappers

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of condoms & wrappers.  A majority bring back a warm wash cloth...  I highly prefer it...   It's nice if she'll return to lay together for a few minuites, if there's time to cool down.

sajer1 said, I think the provider disposing of the condom and cleaning you up with a warm towel makes for a much more pleasant experience.

I agree with him. Most providers I've seen have done it that way, some not.

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Sometimes I like to go into the bathroom with her and clean each other off.  Other times if I'm a brain dead zombie, I appreciated her getting up and coming back with a warm wash towel.

I've even been known to get up and bring a warm wash towel back to her.  

to get rid of the condom taste for the next round!

When I provide incall, I will always dispose of it for the gent & bring a warm towel back to clean him up. When it is their location, especially their home, I usually do not, as I would feel presumptuous just going into their bathroom and using their towels without asking(which would kinda spoil the surprise of me bringing back a towel for them

I wear adult diapers most of the times, because I have a medical condition called explosive diarrhea, and you never know when it will strike. Especially when I try to fart silently, sometimes a little bit of that trifling juice comes out.

Anyhow, I'm like an adult baby, and they do everything for me, put the condom on for me, take it off, wipe my cock after I"m done (including my butt), take my cloths off, and put it back on for me.

They say that providers with class will take the condom off and wipe you down after the session. Sure, I've had that happened a few times, but, I prefer to do it myself. I don't mind them putting on the condom, but, I'm a big boy, and can take the condom off and wipe myself down.

I am a bit concerned about my semen, that is, I prefer to dispose of it myself. There was this one girl I've used to date that would collect my semen after I fucked her, and would try to store it and put it up her vagina after I left. She was trying to collect money from me if she ever was impregnated.

Also, sometimes I have no idea where the towel is new or not. I've seen plenty of providers, including upscale escorts, and when I went into their bathroom, I see like 10 used towels in the bathroom. I even took plenty of showers and didn't have towels, so I had to use those mini towels. Another thing, sometimes I prefer to wipe myself down because I have a preference to how I want to clean myself, and some providers don't know how to thoroughly clean. I like to wipe the balls, the region above the shaft, and everything in between.

It's nice to be serviced in that manner, but I like to just make sure that any evidence that we fucked gets flushed down the toilet.

If she is only doing CBJ, she probably also does not want to handle your condom, and that is not an issue. After all, if the sex and company are good, how we handle a condom is not going to change that, nor is it going to make a lousy time acceptable.

Definitely frosting, not cake.

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I don't feel like having to pay for a plumber every month. If a guy is that worried about where his jiz goes, let him take the shit with him and toss in the trash on the way out. Flushing that stuff is simply disrespectful in any location.

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Terrible for plumbing systems, public sewers and septic systems. Yes many people do it and have been for years. That doesn't make it right...or smart.

Put a brown paper bag in the bathroom trash can...  all condoms & wrappers went in there.  She slipped into a market bag & disposed of it away from the room, on her exit.
Another Fav, makes sure to double wrap the condom & wrapper before it goes into her trash...  again privacy concerns...  

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And it comes down to me wrapping it in toilet paper and walking out with it, or just flushing, I'm doing the latter.

Yeah, I'm selfish.

I won't score her low if she doesn't do it. It's just one of those things I don't care if it goes either way.

When seeing a FBSM that says they only offer HJ I sometimes check the trash in the bathroom (not digging through it but just looking into it). A few times I've seen condoms there and it's then given me a reason to ask her if she provides other services. One girl denied it -violently - so I didn't bother saying anything else.

A local FBSM place that had been at the same locationn since around 1980 had their plumbing back up around 6-7 years ago.

The blockage was found to be in the street, so the City came with a backhoe and dug up the pipes.

What they found was a blockage consisting of thousand of used you-know-whats.

Talk about an awkward moment for the place.

How they talked their way out of that I don't know, and they continue on to this day but listen to LR (and your plumber):  Don't flush them.  Wrap them up in toilet paper and toss in a common trash can some place.

I don't want condoms sitting around in my trash, and I certainly don't want them flushed down my toilet...what to say when it's time to call the landlord for a plumber--hmmmm
...uhg, please don't get me started on the recycled water supply (full of toilet paper pulp in addiction to chlorine, flouride, prescription meds, hormones...haven't drank it for years only spring water I harvest myself) because everything goes back to the tap...well. anyway, you might want to know that if you are still drinking out of your home faucet and in respect for those that do, don't flush that shit.
So the first time a condom went missing (client goes to the bathroom after, cleans up and leaves, I can't find the condom to dispose of properly in the bigger trash that people don't peer into) i realized it got flushed...ever since I have very politely asked afterward, can I take this for you?  Roll it off gently, excuse myself, get a little cleaned up and come back with a warm clean towel.  It seems to me most guys appreciate it, but the real reason I do that is because my goo is all over them and I feel responsible, ha. Nuff said

If you are looking around through garbage cans, you're truly bored. It's really none of your business what she did before you got there...she's a hooker!

I being a gentleman i am do't let the women remove it and bring a towel. I do it myself before they try. IMO do not think it is right for the women to do that.
But i also wonder, what if they take the condom filled with my DNA and make a clone of me and use him like a slave, put him in a dungeon and do all sorts of things with my clone.
What if they take the sperm and get impregnated?
My mind is just going crazy thinking all those possibilities.  

Nearly all the K-Girls in LA take the condom off, dispose of it, and then come back to do the warm, wet, wash cloth clean up, usually with a bottle of cold water for you.

However, one K-girl I saw, went to the kitchen and came back with the warm wash cloth and also a cup of hot tea.

As I'm trying to figure out what's going on, she did the wash cloth clean up on Junior.
She then took a mouth full of hot tea and gave Junior a tea bath in her hot, wet mouth.

Wow.

A truly great addition to the afterglow. She discretely spat the tea back in the cup and ended with a nice back and foot rub. I floated out of that apartment on a cloud,  full blast endorphin rush.

It is probably an urban legend, but the story was that Leykis or someone else had suspected that his girlfriend or lover or hooker or whatever was trying to impregnate her with his come.

So one day after coming, the guy in question went into the bathroom and put some Tabasco into the condom after he pulled it off.  And then he put it into the trash.

The girl goes in soon after to wash up, and after a few minutes, the guy hears a blood-curdling scream.  The insinuation is that the girl tried to reinsert the come back into her pussy, and of course go the Tabasco.

Who knows whether it's real?  But it's funny.  And it doesn't take much effort to dispose of the shit yourself.

thing I want is a damn trick baby or a clone of anything. If you don't trust the hookers you are with  in that respect, why would you bother putting your d*ck there to begin with? Just sayin.

And the guy might be seeing streetwalkers or Backpage girls, you know?

It doesn't take much effort to remove the condom yourself and dispose of it yourself.

for malicious reasons, why trust she has no STD whilst letting her bbbj lol. Never made much sense to me. I hear men yack about bringing some fly by night hooker to their own house and locking up their shit so she won't steal it, yet they will stick their raw dawg in her mouth and go down on her with no protection. I guess it's two different kinds of trust, but I still find it funny as all get out.

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It's not about being bored or caring what she did previously. It's just an indicator that she is open for more than just a massage. And again, I'm not digging through trash, just looking in it.

I guess not everyone is like you.

When questioned by you , she vehemently denied anything. I guess you are not her type to further.

Yup, it was to remain a hands-on only relationship

The fact that she will take my money and then provide the services we agreed upon.  That's it.  Beyond that, I don't trust her for anything that could potentially burn me, including disposing of the condom.

And you are right...but those are very different flavors of trust.