A beautiful women touring in my city popped on P411 Available Now feed and I was feeling like some company (OK, I was aching for it). I briefly checked her reviews (didn't do detailed read because it was really spur-of-the-moment) and saw they were amazing for looks and performance. Price was high but decided to see her anyway, and set a date for a few hours later that evening.

and a 10/10 if you think she merits it next time.

...but the second or third time they have seen that provider.
So I would book again right away to get that discount! (they are rare)
And review the second session.
She sounds like she has plenty of reviews and doesn't need them to build business.

... how could she possibly qualify for a 10 performance score?  How is she getting 10s with her limited menu??

Objectively as possible. I never penalize a girl's score for lack of connection as long as she was engaged and made an effort.   Sometimes I'm just not into a girl for whatever reason, but I can't blame her for that. It takes two to make a connection. Limited menu is certainly fair game, especially if not as advertised or different than what her profile says.

it's hard for me to say what I would do because I avoid talking about reviews during the time the lady and I are together, and therefore, avoid this dilemma you're in. If it comes up, which it rarely does, I'm basically noncommittal.  

one thing you shouldn't do is give her a better review than she deserves just because she asked you to please not give her a bad review. (A bad review to her being what? Anything under 10/10? [raspberry]) Don't give her a better review than she deserves because she promised to let you do more the next time. Don't give her a better review than she deserves because she's used to 10/10s.

Plenty of top tier providers have a mediocre review from time to time...as you said, chemistry is a large factor in the equation...

I see no problem in postponing the review . You are under no obligation to submit a review until you are comfortable doing so. But I do have a prob with inflating a review for a discount. So it seems to me you are sorta in a grey area here.

Good questions. If her limited menu doesn't include stuff like DFK, BBBJ, and greek, the best score that the OP can give her would be a 10/7. No need to worry about chemistry keeping him from giving her a 10 for performance, because his review will get rejected until corrected. If he is concerned about her maintaining her high average ratings despite her limited menu, the best that he can do is skip the review. But if the current rules stay in place for long enough, reviews are eventually going to drive her down and others up.

Let's face it, we made moral and ethical compromises the moment we entered this world. You don't seem inclined to write a review and you are not obligated to do so, so don't.  It may be my "situational ethics" but I will not write an inaccurate review. So I often elect to not write one at all rather than post a negative one.

I never got the allegiance to the "community" here;  we're a people with dicks that you'll never see, meet, or think about (hopefully).  If one of us croaks, you probably would never even know about it.  The girl, on the other hand, is someone you were inside of.  For cash, yea, but nonetheless she did more for you than any of us would.  

Seriously?? This is exactly why reviews are pointless.  No wonder she's "top rated"...she begs for leniency and offers a discount. Hell, maybe I should start doing that!  I could be the #1 hooker in the whole world! Discounts for 10s! I thought that behavior was supposed to get a person banned. You're not doing your fellow hobbyists any favors by lying for her. Rate her honestly! Sounds like you picked her based on the rating, which was a LIE!! Had people rated her honestly, you might've chosen a better hooker.

So why would she do more on the second date? To get more money from you doing what she should have done on the first one? That doesn't sound good. I am not saying she is conniving but I would have asked her about that. I do wonder what you asked her about and she said yes then later said she didn't understand. It all sounds odd. I certainly would not book a second date with her! About the review, just be honest. No need to bash but just give your honest review of her skills, the date and her appearance.

so maybe stay true to your word? But a review can be less than perfect but still not be a bad review. If you want to try with her again then *maybe* wait until you see her again and see if there is a difference. If you really think your personalities didn't click then I'm doubting you will want to see her again.  

...mention that in your review. If it's disappointment in her services that more diligent research and more careful communication would have revealed, then I'd lay the blame on myself and just not review her.

"I often elect to not write one at all rather than post a negative one"

She makes you cum for money, just like a zillion other guys. Once that envelope's on the counter, your obligation to her is fulfilled. They like it, a lot of them, when you ask permission. And I do, out of courtesy, but I don't even consider that an obligation.

So you really don't know.
The OP never said he had a horrible time or she had misleading pics. He was simply asking if it was OK to delay his review until a next visit. There had obviously been some miscommunications about desired services and maybe circumstances affected the session.  
He's under no obligation to submit a review until he's ready to.  And at that time he should indeed post a totally honest review.  On this you and I are in agreement.

"She makes you cum for money, just like a zillion other guys."

I don't think bringing up other clients misses the point. I'm just putting things in perspective. It's not some special, intimate connection. It's a business transaction she makes no doubt with many, many guys. (Unless relationship means more than that to you and/or her, and I covered that, but that's a side issue.)

Thanks for the "fuck you." I'll put it on my fridge.

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On the regional boards, this way it isn't directly on her profile, and some people will still be duley warned and notified of the situation. This way, you kept your promise & did what you felt was right. Win, win.

this is a dilemma?...review the session now and have the other discounted session after 90 days and do another review...both will show up according to new rules...just because things did not go "perfectly" now does not mean they would be any better later...there are plenty of great providers without being a perfect 10/10...so what, if your review of her would be good, not great, at least it should be honest...if she really is that great of a provider, a 10/9 or even 10/8 will not hurt her reputation or business

I am sure you don't want him getting a "time out" for breaking TER rules, do you?

That she's in a business where she serves multiple men doesn't matter.  The OP was conflicted about whether or not to write the review and ding a girl he made a connection with.  They shared an intimate moment, she made an appeal to him specifically not to write the review along with an offer to make up for her shortcomings.  This obviously struck a chord, given that he's conflicted, so he should just put the two on a scale:  a bunch of lurking ass dudes on the other side of a computer screen versus a girl he fucked and may very well fuck again;  the interaction with real world implications for him versus what mrIpayforsex8392 thinks about him on TER

If you read my post you'd see I said the relationship *can* be more intimate, but isn't necessarily just because, as the above poster put it, you were inside of her/came in her. That was the line of argument. It wasn't about this business being all business, all the time.  

Why on earth would it not matter? Given the grounds of argument, I mean. You were the one that brought up the special nature of the relationship based on physical intimacy. I fail to see how the fact that you pay for that intimacy and she has the same deal with many other guys doesn't cheapen its importance.  

After reading everyone's comments and getting a few very thoughtful private messages I've decided

not before I say some other shit though."  lol.

It may be less unique and meaningful for you. Just because it's not for me doesn't make me a sophist. Maybe it's because I'm younger, more emotion based or simply less jaded. It doesn't really matter. It's clear we don't have the same experience which is fine. I'll try not to generalize and project mine as the truth for everyone if you'll show the same courtesy.