of a major city, when a lady walks in.... dressed very well, but definately exhibiting a superb body.  She was dressed as one could say, stylish, but provocatively.  It made me wonder - was she available?!  and while I have had men approach my dates (civie and professional both) and enquire as to their availability, this do seem a tad forward.  Ladies - have you ever been approached in person? if so, do you mind, and if you do not mind, what is the best approach?!

Gents, have you ever approached a woman inpublic - if so, what was your experience?

I have read a couple of reviews where the encounter begins with the dude offering that (in one instance) he met the woman in a shopping mall (She was staying at a local hotel).  Turned out really well for him!

I never had anything with well dressed stylish girls. But, and I would neer approach another's man date and require for her availablity. What was your response? A punch to the face I would imagine. I mean if she was your actual civie date.

A long time ago I asked an average lonely looking girl on Hollywood Blvd. I don't even know why I did. She looked at me like WTF? LOL.
But being asked approached by the woman or the pimp happens all the time. But I don't play the game like that anymore.

PLEASE leave your fantasies here on TER. Most likely she will NOT be what you are seeking and will be highly offended--and unfortunately you will look like a jerk.

If you were to go up to a random, beautiful and stylish woman in a bar and proposition her, you will end up with a drink on your face or a red cheek. Really? The surefire way to insult a woman--especially a civvie is to think she looks too good to be a NORMAL woman. She MUST be a whore. Especially when you have no idea of who she is and who she is with. It would be uncomfortable and creepy for her and embarrassing for you. Save that from happening and do it the logical, safer way here on TER.

I hope maybe the next time you see a beautiful woman in a bar you will want to pick her up in the "normal" way. Dust off those one-liners to mingle if you wish to approach her, but I would suggest avoiding the mentality out there in the real world that single and beautiful equals whore. But hey--if your inkling is right about her, she will let YOU know, lol.

I've met guys out and wanted so badly to ask if they were "up for some business."  But, I would never do it.  Too bad there isn't a code word like, "pst, do you know TER? or P411?"  But, other than that, I wouldn't know the first thing on how to approach or be approached.  

I really admire the hookers on how comfortable they are at doing just that.  But, I guess being an internet independent provider at least gives me the chance to screen and the opportunity to market only to those that are interested.

The way you wrote your post does make it sound as if you wanted to offer this woman a P4P situation. I think you may want to click on Edit post and possibly rewrite this. Maybe I'm wrong but I think you wanted to ask how do you saunter up to a hot classy looking woman alone in the middle of a bar without coming across like a desperate ass hat.

Here's my. 02... Look them in the eye and not her t*** , don't come out with some cheesy line, and make sure you check your breasts and your armpits... Lol

If your intentions were the latter... Don't be a tool bag. It's never okay to walk up to a stranger and ask. Them if you can slide them 3 bills for an hour of their time.

I met a lady walking down the hall in my hotel. She was really hot. I turned a corner and almost ran into her. I apologized and ask her where she was going. She said I'm going with you. We went upstairs and had a few hours of fun. It was so bizare and totally unexpected.

The first time they sent me, I was pretty young and stupid...
I was walking to the MGM Grand for PF Changs.
(Yea I'm in Vegas and I'm eating Chinese)
There is a super hot chick walking ahead of me.
She lights a cigarette, and drops her lighter while putting it in her purse.
She apparently didn't notice, so I go running up to her.
"Miss, I think you dropped your lighter." "Oh thank you so much!"
She was really greatful.. It was a bic for Christ sake.
So we start walking together chatting it up.
I'm beginning to think I just picked up a lighter, and a girl.
"Wow! I must be lookin good tonight" I'm thinking.
So she asks me where I'm going.
I tell her, and ask if she wants to eat with me.
"Let's just go to your room." She says.
What what!!! She doesn't even want to have some coffee first?
I still don't realize what's going on, and now she realizes this fact.
She started to laugh hysterically. She did this body brush, and put her hand on my chest.
Now it hits me. Don Juan here just picked up an escort. She continued to encourage me, but I was so embarrassed I basically ran away.

stunning blond, we went to a very upscale steakhouse.  I got up to relieve myself, I came back and there were several business cards on the table (4-5).  I looked at my "date" (she was WAY under the radar and not available to anyone but me) and asked 'what are these" to which she replied, oh, men came over after you left and said, when your free, please give me a call!  

The other one was a bonafide escort, but we were on a civie date!  So I knew the score.  We were in a hotel bar, having a drink before we went to an event we had planned that evening, when a guy she knew came over to ask availability, I was cool about it as she and I both knew the score... no biggie.

or signal we could give - heck maybe we agree, we just pull out a white envelop with TER on it!

Alternatively, ever sit in a hotel lobby and look at the guys fiddling with their phone!?  Ever wonder how many are waiting for the 2nd call?!  too bad that some would find the approach offensive instead of the complement it is meant to be!

Exactly correct in that i would offer P4P!  I do this with a modified version of a civie woman..... strippers.... quite successful at it.

the thrill, the spontaneous fun..... you've had my total fantasy!  Congrats!

Now I get it..

My mom wasn't too happy with me going to Vegas when I was 13...

Casino Girls are allover Vegas, if you're not approached in the casino a couple of times a night there's something wrong with you.  I was once approached by a CG at 6am in the morning while getting a Starbucks in a well known casino property.

I had a fan reading  your posting   and then you asked if it normal way  to approach her  of course it is !!! American males are totally out of touch with nature !!!
I am from Europe and how they approach us there ??
 many different ways . I tell you the most straight forward - after small talk -
give her your business card -   take the pen out  and write your room number- she will take it - keep talk to her tell her that I need to leave and will wait her in the room ..  see what she will say some be ok some  tell you on the spot nope ..
no one talks about money - but money is expected -
not be cheap ...
normally if she is not working  woman - she will stay long hours with you  as lover- give no less then 1000
any way you will spend on upscale escort and 2000 for 5 hours .
- she may  even stay sleep with you - be ready for that as well - if you not ok with idea her staying in your room and bed al night - do not pick up  woman you do not know for sure she works hourly ..
normally you woke up together  she will find her money on desk  .. she may send you to hell and not take the money - she may  take righ the way - you may ask  her take it as a little  token
of course put money on the desk whn you ready for her to leave  not keep her in your bed forever - what if she needs go to her room ??
Iam normally just leave when he falls in sleep ...
with short note on his desk ..

just not be afraid give YOUR business card .. American males by some reasons   so afraid to disclose own info that it is just sad ... how insecure they are how low they think about women - as  she what ?? harass him or what ??
Bussness  card will make her feel good and safe  about you  and giving HER choice to come to YOUR room to call  YOUR phone ..   YOU to wait when SHE will find time or desire to come to you to call you etc ... that way - you are as we say in Europe  is a GENTLEMAN who is PATIENT WOLF ..
here is states ... all are  just TX coyotes ...
who do not know how get what they want  and just circling circling around the woman looking looking at her  and making her wonder if he is ok ???ha ha ha
I am attractive woman who always have attention in public places  I want to step back from this TER ways of doing  adult business - I am single I am attractive why seat just online ???
but in states in real life . see even you asking here - what to do ??
men are helpless when it comes to women and it is why TER and Date Check and  etc .. and  dear by the way .. sorry girls but you are here not the most prettiest - I see the most pretty women in real life . you men just have to take them they also need and fan and money .
Pm me  anybody if want to know more European ways about me  and may be even meet  in NYC or your city .. I do travel for real dates
kissess
Muahhhhhaaa air kisses to you all ..

An answer that didn't wreak of "you..you..you". Congratulations

I agree...mostly. women who dress slutty are nothing but trouble. Why is it that if an acceptable man mentions your "prowess" its flattering. If an un_acceptable man does the same its sexual hair..assment?

Anyway, no I don't approach chicas caliente in public. I usually have my own. I do understand the majority would rather you didn't.

Now to come out of the closet and MORPH

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In fact, most of us look like the average college student or soccer mom, when we are not on the clock. I would never approach her for a money type offer, but don't see the harm in putting the moves on her lol. Who has not been shot down by a hot chick at one point or another? Ha ha.

My dear .. you know why you  said you know me ?? may be you met me in the upscale bar already ?
because you dreamed about me because it is HOW you want it to be .. not money transaction .. but flirt ..love bar .. touch smile .. kiss smell of her hair fixing  her strap of bra slipped out of her dress ..
love .I am not an american and I am not an asian .. of course you want me
you never met me  ... but you know me  because EVERY man who wants woman and is intelligent and has soul brain heart class  romance and sex drive any man wants woman as   I am
I always am told - you re the dream of any man - why I can not meet woman as you are when I try to find a date ??
- you  have to be a billionaire by now with your love skills and your ability t talk  to seduce
- i never remember any other escorts but you are in my heart
 and you said -
I knew you .. my love  May make a references to your words in my adds ?? .. pm me please to start ..  to know and talk a bit
I am not a cheap 400 woman even on my site  is is indicated 450 I never do just  one hour .. it be  just so wrong .... for me :) and not fair for me to meet those who do not understand me
and those men who do know me my type - those men come here to NYC themselves or  flying me to them I do not ask 10 000 for that .. and it is why I am not  a wealthy but still am here ..
please write me privatly I aso ant to know more about you

Hey! I was 26, and thought I was gettin' some!

For free!
Yes. Back then I would have had to call Mom.... No Dad, and have him send me the cash!
I always wonder though..
If I had walked past the lighter, would she have doubled back to retrieve it?
That is a slick move.
Maybe she had 20 lighters in that purse?

I was thinking of this then the European girl posted that reply above and just totally validated what I'm about to say.

So I'm in Spain about 15 years ago. My Spanish is very poor. I was at a disco and I thought I kept asking girls to dance. No. Stupid me was asking them if they wanted to dance. They just shook their heads. I thought I was on a massive cold streak. Turns out I was asking them if they wanted to work. And in Spain men outright proposition women all the time for P4P. I felt like quite the dumbass.

and often use ourselves as an example when a question is asked. If a thread asked "What do you think of Carmen Electra" of course, it would not have anything to do with us, but most questions asked, are in fact ones where we have to tell our side of something, how we do things, and why that is. Sorry if I offend lol. The alternative is for me to speak for what other people would do, when I don't have the slightest idea unless I know them personally.

Look at the page....threads about what our fave cologne is, our fave position, would we do this...etc. ALL of those questions require we state a personal opinion. Maybe you just don't like the fact that I post so much...just say that lol.



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Julie has multipal personalities.

may be you are correct about pimps .. do not know ...may be I am too naive frot this hobby .. but i do just fine and  in bars and  on TER . et me share
I coming out of an appointment  in fancy hotel  NYC .. am hungry .. just stop to eat .. men of course all alone seating in each other company watching TV and drinking ..
it be  just one brave man who will take drinks and come seat next to you .. Ok .. let talk and drink - he invites  as - you want may be visit  and see my room .. I say .. you know ... it be 600  an hour . or 1500 all nigh . he goes  OK .. and we go .. stop to ATM and go to room .. done not often
but happened .. what is funny    I met that way in my life husband and then when divorced other long term lover of 5 years but those men were Germans  -  flirt  fuck money on desk in morning and then love letter and
" what is cost of your life and how I  ay help you "
I was waiting this kind things happened to em in states - not ye .. I need travel again internationally I think.. I love adventure and sex and men .. and flirt and all what is in the air when male and female want each other ... money - it is JUST MUST .. be offered - she will take them or she would  not  if  she be WTF it is her problem  .. bad for her .. then...
 I love  Sex in the city Movie remember how she found a  date and spend all  eve and night with him and then at morning he left but she found an envelope  with 3 K ?
she was not wtf ..
just asked her freinds what to do with that all freinds tell her - keep it .... real woman need know that she  cost money .
My husband aways called me  that way ..
my best investment

I have never been approached by anyone in Las Vegas. I have been there about 5 times.  May be its because they see me not drinking alcohol and don't think I would be up for the game? Even though I do gamble when I go to Vegas.

Jessica   you seems  already not as 18 years old .. why you still  need TER and P 411  to make contact with man  ? and why you call women who can flirt with man in real setting " hookers"  those so called Hookers  and without TER and  P 411 have husbands who gave  them all  and his cock and his house and security and she can  go to cllege raise child etc .. or just have all life vacation fucking just him or few more by agreement with him .. Hookers ??? ha ha  those are HOOKERS and those who are on TER for 300 are NOT hookers ?? but PROVIDERS  ..
I know I am also here ..
and I hate myself that I am not  smart and brave  enough  go and  take him- him  who seats alone in the bars and do not wants to go to bed alone....
have you been  in sutiation like ;; you drink with him in  upscale bar  of upscale hotel .. he flirts with you he  kiss  you - he wants you .. and  then he asks you - so what you dear doing for living - and you say - Iam  an accountant - american  male face become sad - he says - good luck with CPA exmas and he pays for drinks and goes to room alone ..
do you feel then as real woman ??
ha ha ha ??
or you still feel that you be a hooker tell him  that even you are accountant your time is not free and you know how  count money ?
 just little bit note

your word about hookers in hotels and  TER P 411 providers being better made me ...  feel bad .. I  am not a hooker at hotels but I pick up and ex husband and BF of 5 years in HOTEL BARS for MONEY  but I need admit - it was not American males not  American bar  so   dear men here - do not afaraid women in real life setting   we are the same  as on TER and P 411 we want sex and money and if love take plaace then OK if not - it is ok as well
yes Jessica ??

My best experience was sleeping with strippers, on two separate occasions .. and it was on their own free will after I saw them dance, and a pretty girl who rubbed her butt on my cock while I was riding a full bus.

The Mrs. and The Nurse?
Welcome back!

Why would you bother trying to proposition a woman in public like that?

Just fucking with you Curly. Maybe it is just the areas where you were. I don't drink and I have been approached, once while sitting at a slot machine by myself, and a couple times walking on one of the bridges between properties. They are definitely more active in some areas than others, and also certain times of the night more so.

Are you winning???

I'm drinking if you are buying.
The hit's are subtle my friend... Translation....
The girls make it very easy for you to see they are looking at you....
They want you to walk over and say...... HI!
Im JohnnyBoy..
I won lots of dough.
Care to help me spend it?


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But you just don't break out the P4P thing right up front and you will certainly want to avoid the "aggressive" ladies that make it far too obvious what they are doing.

You can start off with asking them if you can buy them a drink and go from there. (Who knows... maybe they are a civvie and you won't even have to pay anything if you have the balls to just talk to them in the first place.) Ladies that are "available" will lead the way if it gets to P4P...

If they are not "available", then obviously they'll say no to a free drink right up front when you ask.

It's really not that complicated....  Done it more then once with the intention of them being a "civvie" but it just turned out they were "professionals". And ONLY with ladies you really would not have an idea that they were "professionals".... and we had a really good time / good conversation before hitting the room. Any conversation for money within an hour in my book is a complete no go from experience of how "the experience" is going to end up.

"and while I have had men approach my dates (civie and professional both) and enquire as to their availability, this do seem a tad forward."

While you were with them? I've had lady friends tell me all about the idiot tourists coming up and offering money... but certainly never while they are with a dude.

That's a great way to get a good beat down. Or get arrested for "soliciting".

Go up to the wrong lady and with the wrong approach and you could be in a world of hurt if you bring up P4P.

Eye contact and a smile does wonders.

Not a game you really want to play in Vegas anyways with the odds being so bad... especially with all of the great LV providers on TER.

I've had some great experiences picking up a CG here or there but the original intention was not P4P and just ended up that way after a couple of hours of drinks / fun and not even really knowing they were "professionals".

but in matters of sex and sexuality - they are centuries ahead of us.  Heck we can't even have an 8 year old kiss a classmate without someone yelling RAPE!!!  or have a commercial with someone farting without some little ole lady in Kansas fainting!  Europe!  for sex... more easily understood.

About which we await the English translation …

I'm not on the DL anylonger. I'll tell em you miss em lol.

I'm not back....just bored. It'll be a cold day in hades before TER gets another nickel outtta me.

If I am alone having dinner at the bar in a upscale steakhouse (think the SW in Vegas) alone, eventually a women at the bar will smile, then we talk and after 5 minutes casually says "you know, I'm working". Then you can decline or continue the conversation. Same line in Vegas, Manhattan, San Francisco, Chicago, etc.