A couple of weeks ago someone posted the best BBJ and what a guy likes- It was broken down into catagories and positions- with hands or w/o - You all know which one I mean.
I would like to flip the questions and see which ways the Females like to have it done to them.
Unfortunately I can not make this a multiple choice- so let us guys know what we are doing wrong and doing right.
fast, slow, just the clit, with fingers, w/o fingers, hmmm the ABC's
- What is the best ways for the females to get off during oral-

lol mikki.

Every woman is different. Some like it without fingers, some without, hard, slow, on the clit, around the clit, ect.

What makes a man good at DATY is how well he is able to take cues from her responses to every different oral/finger play that he does.

And then there's the day, and time of day, and all sorts of different variables. It's best for the guy just to show up, without any preconceived ideas, and do exactly as you've suggested.

I do love a man who appreciates da'p***y!!

Worship it.  Pet it. Lick it like you would an chocolate dipped soft cream cone. Never use a hard tongue unless your inserting inside, but lick softly.  Stay focused sucking just below the clit gently and use your thumb, like you would strum a guitar, softly over the clit towards the top.  Best way is to do it sideways...see what "arises" to the occasion..lol

Yeah, I know we tend to act alike in a lot of ways (Me Horny - Grunt, Grunt!) however...

For my own part, I think I'm far less fascinated in the BJ arts than the average guy.  Yeah, I like it, yeah BB is a little nicer, and DT is a little nicer.  But for me it's largely a bit of visual foreplay, and I don't care to take more than 5-10 minutes of an average session with it, whereas I'll tend to spend about 20 minutes at daty.  Just me.

And I've delighted to find so much diversity amongst women's daty preferences (though I'm sometimes mildly disappointed when a lady is too sensitive to handle my voracious appetite downunder.)

for me it's important not to have stubble or a rough beard but if you do.. then not to shove your face full on into me. I like light licking and sucking.. NO chewing! enthusiasm helps and I prefer no fingers most of the time to have a clitoral orgasm... but that's me. After I've cum is almost as important..VERY gently suckle a bit but not too as hard as before as it's extremely sensitive afterwards. holding my butt checks is an added bonus if you have your hands free

Every gal is different, just like the guys.  That said - I like to be licked all over occasionally with emphasis on my clit.  It has to be hard pressure on my clit.  Your tongue's gonna ache, but will get stronger with practice.  I like a little finger action, especially up the butt.  I cum harder if there's a butt plug up my ass, a finger in my twat, and a good tongue on my clit.  No interruptions, just lick as hard and steady as you can.  I like to play with my nipples while I'm getting cunnilingus.  I like it slow and steady, not too fast, not too slow.  I usually coach the guy (or girl) as they go along.

I always ask and try to follow instructions.  What was that line from the movie 'Stripes?'  Oh, yeah.  Put me down for, "Willing to learn."

Some women say, "Why did you ask?  You did just fine."  (Side note: this is like telling a woman that her hair looks "fine")  My response is to tell them what some other women express as their preference for DATY.  Just refer to the varied responses to this post.  Some women are truly surprised that there is that much variation.

Sometimes, no matter what you do, it's not gonna happen.  Hey, even Babe Ruth didn't hit a homerun in every at bat.  Just try to enjoy your time at the plate

a lot of tongue action with some wet wet kissing gets me ready..Once my pussy is wet maybe a finger or toy to add to the excitement..I like to watch so I will take and open my pussy with my fingers and tell you how, when and where to use your tongue.

There's no such thing as too much tongue

Kisses Haley

For me the most importaqnt thing is to avoid direct clitoral stimulation.  It's too much and then I can't come at all.  Pressure above, below, beside is just fine.  Start slow, just palming, then a little fingering, then tongue.  And using fingers in my vagina and/or ass is always a good idea.  The best approach is to not focus on making me come, but in enjoying the experience.  Arousal and orgasm will happen on their own!

Jeezzz Sophie, Your not planning any trips to Vegas the first week in April are you

I was stuck on my local board so long, I had no idea the topic here are more interesting and informative.

Everyone is different in where exactly their hotspot is and how to hit it... I personally like a gentleman to start a little slower with concentration on the clit.  The moans escaping from within should tell you when to pick up the pace a little, the gyration of my hips should tell you when your hitting the spot that drives me out of my mind and when I start bucking that's your que to speed it up a little more and bring me home.

Hard licking, sucking and fingers decrease the sensation for me.  I know other girls it drives wild.

Basically, take your ques from your partner.  If you're not sure, don't be afraid to ask.  See if she is willing to play with herself a little to show you the exact spot.

What it all boils down to is fun!

Warmly,
Reagan

Its always nice to start in a different area than where you will eventually end up. Maybe kissing the inside of my thighs, light stroking of my legs...make me anticipate it. Make me beg for it...then...slow at first is key, give me time to enjoy the soft wet sensations of your tongue gliding over me...whoa, i gotta go take a HOT shower now. Bye!

After eating at the same location for 31 years I have yet to dine any where else yet.  Ladies, your advice on different eateries have been an enjoyment to read. I love this site....DATY

How My Wife Likes DATY - YES (we are providers)

Hello, My flirty wife Christine asked me to respond to this, she said "I don't know what you do exactly - but whatever it is, I left another man for you cuz of it"  LOL.

So here is what I did. (My secret is revealed at the end)

I start with slow, gentle strokes of the skin of her pierced hood between the balls of her piercing, then occassionally flattening my tongue and licking her all up and down.

I pay attention to her cues, as she begins to settle in and relax, I slide the piercing to the side, and begin to gently flick her clit with non-rhythmic humming.

As her breathing increases, I begin to roll her nipples in my fingers with light pressure and I slowly begin to increase my flicking rate.

I vary the intensity of pressure on her clit cuz she likes it light, but at the right time really responds to a firm pressure - its a timing thing.

By now she is writhing about, faster breaths and much more moaning, this is my clue that she is about to cum, at this point, I hold her down with my arms and firmly grasp her nips in one hand and a full breast in the other, I increase pressure and speed on flicking, turn the humming to a constant ON and get prepared as she begins to  buck-wild and ultimately she tenses and quakes as her O consumes her body.

I complete her with soft, gentle licks to lap up her sweet juices.

My Secret: ALWAYS pay attention to the ladies cues - most have them, and if they don't, ask.

Shit - I need a could shower.

Alex

xxoo

Christine & Alex
Flirtation, Teasing, Exotic Fun for 3 or More


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Glad to hear you have enjoyed the insights of so many lovely ladies and gents...smart too!  We will all be interested to see if you choose a different selection from the menu in the future.

Keep us posted.

Warmly,
Reagan Levy